Guess this question is more for the ladies, but .. I'd say you will notice those signs for sure. Unusual behavior on his side .. when a decent and normal dude turns completely nuts, acting like a 15 ys old kid, lol.
When it comes to our website .. If there is a guy, who is following your forum posts, replying after an each one, trying to make you laugh, playing games with you and only you, and sending you PMs twice a day (if you haven't blocked him already of course), then it's definitely a sign that something is going on .. and some measures have to be taken ..
How to react? .. Guess it's up to you now.

Signs he is not into you ...

He breaks up with you in public and gets s new girlfriend .. a pretty obvious sign he is not into you

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That helps answer my question as well, thanks Buzzy. So if he does most of these things but not the PM part, then would one be correct in assuming he's not really that into you?

Deciphering the man code. Lol

Usually when what MrBeeKeeper described happens, he is someone I am not interested in.

If you knew the answer it would spoil the fun don’t you think.

This thread is funny.

You guys crack me up!

If your question is sincere there are a few ways to tell if a guy is interested in you on a dating site, even without messages and proclamations.
It kinda works for either gender too.

Repeat visits to your profile, day after day. Sometimes multiple times a day.

When I'm really into a woman I will keep checking her profile for updates.
Looking for that one thing that indicates that she might be interested in meeting someone like me or an indication that she is not right for me.

Unlike some men, I am not forward (kinda shy) about contacting women. I'm aware there are much 'prettier' men out there. Meaning, what I offer can't be quantified by normal measures. You gotta know me to love me.

I might also take notice of the forum topics they start and how they respond to others in the forums. I might comment, quote or merely read their replies.

See, with most dating sites, this one included, when you view someones profile they get a minder of activity. They know when someone views their profile day after day, I notice it and message that person.
It means they are interested in something about you. The only way to know what it is they are interested in, is to message them and ask or do a series of changes over time to the contents of your profile.

If you change your profile and their interest wanes, chances are they were interested in a specific thing about your profile and not you as a whole.
If they continue to visit you, no matter the changes, they are likely interested in you as a person and may just be too shy to actually tell you.

Found it!

http://jokes.cc.com/funny-men-women/l9m6mb/the-rules--by-her-

And a few more...

https://ifaq.wap.org/sex/50rulesformen.html

When he calls and talks to you for 2-3hrs
He tells you he thinks you are a lovely person.
Asks you to go out to a outing, because he enjoys your company.

Just a few things in person. If you are online, meeting in person should be scheduled soon or loose him!

In real life, I say 4 words...

"I Really Like You"

tom . I read an article which claimed it was a fallacy men make the first move when it comes to attraction .. the article claimed women do with non verbal language .. though. It sure how that translates online . Lol

I would like to think that works online as well... least until you get to meet the person.

Oh.. it also said . That men often misread the signs

Its been my experience that the woman flirting is usually the first step.
May not be true in agressive males tho.

I do know that every female I have ever dated or entered into a relationship with has given me some type of indication she was interested in ME.


I believe it does.
I do know that it gets my attention.
On the bad side tho, so do scammers.


Yep, its a sticky wicket.
Sometimes you will see a woman that flirts with anyone.
They just have that personality.
I've found its best to wait to see if she singles me out with specific signs before I respond. Yes, I have misread signals.
I'm not really conceited. I don't assume, I wait and see how it progresses.

It would get mine as well, but it would have to be something he said in a private message for me to take it serious. If he is being all sweet and flirtatious in the forums but doesn't message me privately or say anything if he does message me, then I can't help but think it's just my imagination and he isn't really interested.

As far as the bad side, yes I've experienced that many times... although since I left the dating part of the site, I don't pay attention to those kind of messages anymore.

I am good at reading who is into who ..,

Lars seems to be smitten with miss afib

Pisces is always calling out someone's name .,

Mr bee is always dedicating songs to a certain blonde ..,

Laughing .. could it be the first stirrings of love

Not until he calls my name as well

whewwwwww......I thought my secret was out.

The back burner means?