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How to move on from a heartbreak/breakup?

Want to.

Some will say ."One day at a time"..Given time "This too will pass"..as far as moving on "You just do"...

That's not moving on, it's moving to/with.

Google the stages of grief.
It helps to understand and let go.

Turn to your passion,keep occupied,reconnect with nature and lastly,don't ever rush to get into a new relationship that soon chances are,it will fail.
Let the pain die to it's natural death.Once it's over and done believe me,it's completely liberating.

Heart break to breakup Hmmm.

If breakup is done ache continues with thoughts and good time spends.

Always try to make it up instead brekup.
If u do not then let the other take step towards this cruelty.

MY OPINION

I started working out and did things that got me out of the house. Basically I stayed busy.....and spent money on stuff I didn't need.....and got some hookers.....the last two things you probably shouldn't do.

heyy

A little advice to somebody who's going through heartbreak right now..

Find a new horsey and Saddle Up..
And ride that horse hard and long..
Until it and yourself are covered in sweat
... and then put that horse away all wet and tired.... and then go get yourself a drink..

DISTRACTIONS!!!

Make yourself be busy, go do things with your friends, spend more time with your family, take up a hobby.

This is a rationale one opinion.

Said it before, saying it again...

I'm feel for you. Try to remember that we gain wisdon from both good and bad experiences. Hopefully, the wisdom you have gained from this "enhances the quality" of your future relationships.

Keep your self-esteem healthy and positive.

have the strength to examine your own contributions, identify your weak parts honestly/accurately and make positive changes so future relationships are better.



1. Get to know yourself as you actually are
People tend to work up fantasy scenarios of who they think they should be. The first step is to cut thru all those personal delusions you create to try to identify you. It takes self-honesty and self-realization. Making an opposing list helps sometimes.
List what you are (supported by reality) and then what you think you are (supported by fantasy or delusion).

2. Remove your compulsions rooted in delusion
Start with small things and work your way into the more difficult changes. This involves changing behavior to align with your true nature (that you established in step one).

Note: You will not be ready for step 3 until you complete the prior steps and become the person you actually are. By this time, you will understand your values and have control of your life. You will have gained emotional maturity.

3. Figure out what qualities you really want in a romantic partner (know what you want)
Be specific, but understand that flexibility is also important. Understand that no person on this planet is able to be exactly what you desire in all sense of the concept. Prioritize your list to qualities that enhance you and are compatible with your lifestyle and your desires

4. Start looking for potential matches as you move thru life
Look for matches everywhere you go, both online and real world.
Go places that are in alignment with your personality. Identify traits in those that interest you and when you find matches, step up and explore the possibility by getting to know that "person" better.

5. The "Date" is the first step, not the last
Understand that just finding your impression of a match and going on a 'date' with that person is not a goal but merely a beginning sequence to understand that person as that person is. It is your time together with them that establishes the romance. The compatibility of any relationship requires both parties to be in alignment.

You have to allow the other person to be themselves.
If them, being themselves, is what you desire
AND
You, being you, is what they desire

Do yoga, it relly helps in such situations. Checked on myself :))

move on to the next one immediately. don't wait. waiting only increasing the lonliness and depression. hell, find several lovers.

Red wine

That could be a nice ego boost... problem is, it could backfire as you realise it wasn't the horse you really want to be with and then the pain may hit you even harder...

What I'm doing is looking at things I want for me, including future things. Try to keep busy indeed, not wallow in pain, and kick yourself out of the house regularly...
but... it IS imperative that you give yourself time to sit with your grief. You cannot work through it if all you do is distract yourself by being busy. That's similar to drinking, eating or whatever. It doesn't help because when it wears off, you need more. You HAVE to simply work through the pain, all the stages of it if you want to come out whole on the other side of it.

Things you do not do... look at photos, go through the other's FB or other social media sites to check what they are doing, wallow in memories. Steer clear from the past, at least for the first few weeks.
Do not get involved too soon with someone else. Won't ever work out.

When you begin to feel a tad more stable, look at what the breakup brings you instead of what it cost you.

it is healthy to move on. One must do so. But before you do, slice their car tires, spread some rumors that they are terrible in bed and tell your friends and your ex- mates co workers that you caught your ex- mate wearing your underwear.

yes, these may be considered lies but so what.. revenge is .. great stuff.