Topic: Do guys really want to date women who are older than them?
ome317's photo
Mon 04/24/17 09:00 PM
Well the more I'm on here the more I realize that I need to grow. I don't want to be treated like a stereotype. I don't care what other people think but when it comes to someone I want to be with. I shouldn't feel like I'm treated a certain way because of how old I am. I think it goes both ways. That's why I don't feel the need to gun for someone yet things will flow I hope. I just find that most girls my age want someone stable but that's not how it works if you can't love me at my worst then how do I know you won't feel the same at my highest.

Brett4669's photo
Tue 04/25/17 04:28 AM
Woman want to believe that, do they. Woman want sex more than men!

ome317's photo
Tue 04/25/17 05:41 AM
It's not just about sex man. How about treating you like a kid and trying to be your second mom. Or telling you your just being dumb because your young. I know my experience isn't as great as that person's but I don't want to feel like crap because I had never had the experience before. What you are talking about man is the stereotype I'm sure women wish they could get rid of its a little messed up. Age discrimination isn't just in the work place and it doesn't only affect old people. My boss when he hired me told me that my whole generation is a piece of crap. Hell my dad has too, it kind of hurts but if my generation doesn't get off of their buts and do something we will have this bad label forever. But for now I'll work my butt off till I prove them wrong.

navygirl's photo
Wed 04/26/17 10:03 AM



How can you tell if they are sincere or not. I personally don't believe whatever they say about the how older women attract to them



Bottom line is a younger man just wants to use an older woman for sex. I don't believe their BS personally but that is just my opinion for what its worth.

Older woman here. So far I have found what you said to be true. Younger men want older women for sex. Just because we are older it doesn't mean that we have learned everything there is to know about sex and the universe.
I was seeing a much younger guy for a couple of months and he seemed to believe that I was some sort of female guru. He seemed amazed at my vast knowledge and how wise I am. Lol. I tried to explain to him that knowledge and life experience comes from living.
This guy is the only one who liked me for ME and he actually fell in love with me. I had to break off the relationship though because he is much too immature for me and honestly I'm not sure if he will EVER grow up.


Agreed. As well as sex; younger guys will hit on an older woman for a place to live as they can't even support themselves. I get lots of invites and views from these leeches. I won't waste my time even answering them. Wish the hell they would date women in their own age bracket. I find it creepy being hit on by young guys.

navygirl's photo
Wed 04/26/17 10:52 AM

It's not just about sex man. How about treating you like a kid and trying to be your second mom. Or telling you your just being dumb because your young. I know my experience isn't as great as that person's but I don't want to feel like crap because I had never had the experience before. What you are talking about man is the stereotype I'm sure women wish they could get rid of its a little messed up. Age discrimination isn't just in the work place and it doesn't only affect old people. My boss when he hired me told me that my whole generation is a piece of crap. Hell my dad has too, it kind of hurts but if my generation doesn't get off of their buts and do something we will have this bad label forever. But for now I'll work my butt off till I prove them wrong.


News flash; every generation gets crap from the previous generation. I got that from my parents, my parents got that from my grand parents. All of us get called dumb when we are younger. We just learn to suck it up and get on with life. I find younger people look to an older person for guidance or looking to leech off them, or even think that a relationship is easier with an older person. A relationship is a lot of work and the best way to show your maturity is to date someone your own age as they too are struggling with their age and lack of experience so right off the bat; you have something in common. You not only have to work your butt off at work; but you should be working your butt off with life. As for age discrimination; again you need to get over it. We all face it and deal with it the best way we can.

Robwil001's photo
Wed 04/26/17 11:04 AM
age doesnt really matter what matter is what you feel for each other the understanding that exist between you both

Presrocket's photo
Thu 04/27/17 09:45 AM
Well to my own point of viewing I believe in a relationship all that matters most is the both party to have a mutual understanding, let the relationship be based on a mutual feeling, take each other as best friends and tell each other everything. Age to me is just a number as long as we are in love

tonybrax565's photo
Thu 04/27/17 11:25 AM
as a matter of fact dating and getting married to a older lady or woman grants an average man the peace of mind He could actually desire

krissy55101's photo
Thu 04/27/17 11:28 AM
I would say Yes.

Guys still ask me to their high school prom slaphead

sajjiarain's photo
Thu 04/27/17 11:42 AM
Hey need a gf in UAE

krissy55101's photo
Thu 04/27/17 11:42 AM

Hey need a gf in UAE


Why don't you try out a dating site?

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Thu 04/27/17 11:46 AM
H;ha haa nice 1 it takes a real lady to look into man hearts

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Thu 04/27/17 11:53 AM
My last girlfriend was older then me by several years. We enjoyed being together, she treated as if we were the same age. We were together until she suffered a sudden death.

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Thu 04/27/17 12:52 PM
Sure! I would date a woman up to say, 15 years older than me (I am 39). There is no specific limit on the age, but I think there is naturally a window above and below your own age that you find attractive.

Women in their 40s and 50s are incredibly sexy.... they know who they are, have no hang-ups. Matured and intelligent. I like a conversation with a lady holds my attention for more reasons than the size of her breast!

Younger women have youthful attractions that we men are naturally drawn to, but we are less interested in the conversation of a 25 year-old... it's all about the tightness of their arse. (Sweeping generalisation).

I find older women more 'sexy'. Perhaps in a way I cannot explain.

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Thu 04/27/17 01:23 PM

How can you tell if they are sincere or not. I personally don't believe whatever they say about the how older women attract to them



Yes I like dating older women.. the older the better. I also like raisins and prunes and movies about mummies... anything old and wrinkled.

Nothing says " I love you" like his and her false teeth cups.

MACHINEGUNKELLS's photo
Fri 04/28/17 12:50 PM
i just got out of a relationship and she was 15 years older than I....mistake..

NeonMidnight's photo
Fri 04/28/17 12:53 PM
they need to date women their own age

Loveslowjamz's photo
Fri 04/28/17 05:01 PM
let's face it guys say date which means looking for sex with different women and women let's be honest we say relationship which means we really want to date different men...

WorldWarZeke's photo
Fri 04/28/17 05:06 PM
For the most part I've dated nothing but older women not on purpose just happened to be who I clicked with. I've dated maybe 3 younger women.

Mueeno's photo
Fri 04/28/17 05:23 PM
I think its the fact that they're more developed physically, that men tend to lust more over them. Well, myself personally.