Do you think you can like a person or develop feeling for a person after just chatting with the person for one good hour

I think you would have some idea whether you will like them.

I personally think it would take longer than an hour to really know a person

First time impressions can be deceiving.

Yes.
We all liked Annierooroo the minute she entered the room.

You can learn a lot, sure, in an hour, to get
warm feelings even without the Tequila.

Depends how hot their pics are.

Face to face? Yes.
Over the internet? No, although you can delude yourself that what you feel is for another person and not just an extension of your imagination.

Absolutely but if you stopped developing your understanding and feelings for and about that person by taking in the evidence of the present. You would be an absolute delusional fool deluded by past illusions.

Chatting or exchanging emails for only a short period of time can spark your interest in wanting to meet them, and you must have developed some liking for them for that to happen, but until you meet and start dating perhaps not what you would call feelings for them in my opinion.

Welcome toMingle2 and good luck in your search.

feelings run on a curve,liking or lusting after or being interest in or falling for someone,,etc,,,


you can develop them in no time, but more investment of time usually correlates to a DEEPER set of emotions like REAL love or commitment or interest,,,that becomes something more than impulse and whimsy

Liking a person, yes. More than that, no.
You'd need to see someone in the flesh for that. Like others said, you can make yourself believe there's more. But then often you get thoroughly disappointed when you meet cos it was just a figment of your imagination.

I can fall completely in love with someone from conversing with them for no more than a few minutes. And by the same token, I can fall back out of love, or reset to something more realistic as I continue to communicate with them.

As someone else alluded to, where a lot of us go wrong at various times in our lives, is thinking that how we felt at one particular moment about someone, was a magic spell or force in and of itself, such that we should stop learning about them, and simply start following them in their lives. or run the other direction, if that's the initial reaction.

tsk tsk now aren't you fickle

i think its not,

in my own opinion, I don't think finding real love can take place from meeting via internet.

their are five love languages that communicate love and the feeling of love and these love languages can't be communicated via chatting on the internet.

if your love language is the act of touching, chatting can't take it's place.

.. sure it happens to me all the time..lol... I chat with someone for an hour and before I know it they want to move in, marry me ,have my children...
.. take over my finances... follow me everywhere I go, listen to my phone calls.. read my emails.. watch over me as I sleep... keep me chained to the bed...lol.. Isn't Love Grand..wink

VERY TRUE.....EVERYONE HAS HIDDEN AGENDAS.....

have you? ive gotten a marriage proposal after 3 sentences

Of course you can because you got a great vibe from that person in that hour......but it may change as you learn more

I agree - you have developed attraction.. It can feel pretty intense but I don't think it's truly love at that point. Lust maybe

very possible
online or real life, to me, it happens at the very beginning or never.
also i think written things are more powerful and more effective in learning about the person
you can speak online just for an hour and get alot of idea about the one, even more than what you can get in so many real life meetings.

well after an hour of good conversation and you dont hear from then again thats another big statement there