Areyoureally thankyou for your response as well. Have a great Sunday

Duttoneer thankyou for responding. Have a great day

Actually an older mans opinion is better I decided anyways that I'm not going to do anything. I'm happy single

I like your advice. I have known a guy much younger than me for about 3 yrs through my work. We get along great but I decided not to date anymore. Lately I have been getting a feeling that hes interested but I"m not good at this stuff so I'm not sure. Hes an old soul for sure. Likes the music I grew up with....we think alike. Its refreshing. I don't know what to do about this. The convo with him and 2 other women the other day was weird...like it was set up to hint to me. I see him once a week. Been with younger a few times but feel I'm robbing the cradle. Would like a mans opinion?

What is the biggest age difference between you and her?

I think hes kidding

You must believe in the " law of attraction" sparky
. So do I and have been trying to attract a certain man into my life. Believe it or not....I almost have him ...I see signs everywhere.

A stalker? Lol because of his age?

At any age there can be trust issues and its very hard to change that. I agree with another poster that he might be insecure because of the age difference.

I was married for many years, we were the same age and both of us had trust issues that never went away. I know now that my fears were imaginary....we were both insecure.

The votes are coming in
Yes sex is almost everything to men

Good luck with that one

Something...anything that stimulates woderful feelings inside.

I am pretty sure you will feel it by his consistant actions.

Words are just words and nothing more.

Lol how many times have I heard this line?

Him: Oh why not baby? (after first meeting)
Her: I thought you loved me for my mind? I want to wait awhile
Him: I do..I do but you turn me on so much. I need you....I love you baby
Her: ..................

At my age, sex is NOT everything and I kept telling my 29 year old bf that

Physically I habba cold.
Emotionally Disapointed in someone I trusted for awhile.

Of course you can because you got a great vibe from that person in that hour......but it may change as you learn more

I honestly don't think many young men want anything serious with older women. .its the experience they want then will move on to someone their own age

Now I do believe that young women everywhere (not all of course) are attracted to older men because typically women mature faster.

As for older women and men liking younger....usually women get bored of the young men for many reasons and move back into their own age bracket.....older men....well they will always love having a young woman around. Been that way since the beginning of time

I would never ask a guy to marry me. I would find out his views on marriage long before we got too serious and decide if I want to stay (if marriage was on my mind that is)

I was married for many years and had no interest in marriage after my divorce. Been divorced 16 yrs now.

Lately I am thinking that it would be so nice to settle down again before I'm too old. But.....at my age its not easy to find that perfect guy for me.