Topic: Women and height question ???
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Mon 10/26/15 04:02 PM
hey now watch it there light bulb changergrumble

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Mon 10/26/15 04:24 PM
Hi.....can I know you plz? I have what you need ok. I will be really grateful if you get back to me

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Mon 10/26/15 04:37 PM
I don't understand why women...

You don't have to.
There's not going to be a test.

Even if you did understand, there's no guarantee any woman would listen to you, or accept what you had to say on the subject.
And more than likely their beliefs and ego would make them less inclined to have anything to do with you.

Could someone Please explain.

Sure.
It's not that difficult.
But I had to pay money for tuition and books, experience and effort, opportunity costs and time, for the knowledge.
So, if you were willing to pay me to be the teacher then I would impart the information.

You're over 18, you don't get free education anymore except through the whims of others.

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Mon 10/26/15 04:51 PM
i knew i was missing out by being 6ft damn....

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Mon 10/26/15 05:22 PM

I don't understand why women are happy (at least initially) to date liars, cheats, thieves, rapists, murderers, and worse, but not short men.

Could someone Please explain.


Let me clue you in on something. Every guy I have dated was over 6 feet. Not a one of them was a liar, cheat, thief, rapist, or murderer.

And, and when I look at profiles I check their age and if they smoke first. So now am I less for choosing a fella that smokes over a short guy that does not?

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Mon 10/26/15 06:43 PM
hi

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Mon 10/26/15 07:04 PM

I don't understand why women are happy (at least initially) to date liars, cheats, thieves, rapists, murderers, and worse, but not short men.

Could someone Please explain.


For whatever reason in your own mind that you would write such nonsense;
you have the right to your own opinions but not the right to present your opinion as fact. Everything that you've stated is unsubstantiated by fact & totally subjectively biased.
Since you've shared your personal experience; here's some of my own.
Barefoot-I'm 5'10"[ specifically mentioned in my profile]; wearing foot gear with any type of platform or heel usually increases my height to well over 6'.
I don't judge people on the physical at all-that's just Dumb.
In my early 20's, I'd actually dated a petite, cute, little midget-man;} This miniature person was just a terrific individual, quite good looking , & best of all- was as wild & crazy as I was;} WTH, I'd always adored the Munchkins of OZ & I liked him, he liked me; so why not?
However, people's reactions when seeing the both of us as a couple were intrusive, rude, & in many instances quite intentionally mean & hurtful. The intrusion of impolite overt stares, whispers, & laughter that accompanied our every outing/date soon began to make me & him- feel more like a circus freak show event than out for a good time. The relationship became strained, it wasn't fair to either one of us so we parted paths.
After that experience, I became somewhat "height phobic" & experienced an anxious self-consciousness anytime I went out with anyone considerably shorter than myself. It's for this reason that I Specify My Own Height so as to try to avoid such awkward encounters. Unfortunately fellows with a physical height of 5'6"/5'7" still do try to hit on me with the "Let's get to know each other better" routine. A personal response that states- my own lack of interest in pursuing anything further between us, comparing my height to their height & "wishing them, well in their future search, ect" seems to be ineffective?!?
One of the responses that I received back actually stated that "my potential suitor[not!]" felt, "FINE & OK & Not Bothered/Concerned At All By The Height Differential, ect.!" This individual never even bothered to ask me, about "my own feelings" on the subject although my own reaction should have been obvious in terms of my initial response of [polite] rejection. *shakes head*what It brings to mind Paul Newman's timeless quote from the movie, Cool Hand Luke, "What we got here is a failure to communicate..."

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Mon 10/26/15 09:22 PM




I don't understand why women are happy (at least initially) to date liars, cheats, thieves, rapists, murderers, and worse, but not short men.

Could someone Please explain.


Charlie Manson is a dwarf.
All of 5'2".
Hheeeyyy, et tu, Rock?


Jb, you know and I know, and everyone else knows... Except maybe OPie... that a man's stature, isn't measured by his height. But, by his deeds.

Relax, big man. Your history of good deeds, gives you a bigger stature than most.
Thanks Rockman. I appreciate your kind words. Much respect for you. I just rolled in, be delivering tomorrow.

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Tue 10/27/15 03:01 AM
I didn't think it was that controversial a question; one based on my own observations. Got some interesting replies; TravelingLaLa was most useful- don't go. Sure I have some issues about rejection, and loneliness, and my genotype, and choices(including words), so I ask questions to get other points of view. Thanks for those.
I appreciate the cynical comments too, you so and so's !

I'm getting very bored, and at least I got a few profile looks out of it.
I'm sure to have you'se outraged and frothing again sometime.
:smile:

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Tue 10/27/15 03:13 AM
Edited by Spike1964 on Tue 10/27/15 03:19 AM
Woman like men who are taller then themselves whats wrong with that I'm only 5ft 8 inches that short enough for a man lol.
My last girlfriend was Spanish and only 5 ft tall I like short girls make me feel huge.

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Thu 10/29/15 02:06 PM
I am 5'7"... but I like to wear a 2" heel/pump..seems kinda weird to tower over a significant other who may be 5'8", if you're dancing a slow one and your head is above his.. so yea, my preference would be someone 5'10 or more.. so I can gaze up into his eyes.,,,roflmao

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Thu 10/29/15 04:29 PM
I happen to be really short, 4 ft. 6 in. I can't help that. I don't really look for short men to date and I like a man who is around 5' 10" but it's ok if they are a little shorter or taller. When I meet a man in person and he likes me and I like him, I will go on a date and I don't think about their height. I would just prefer not to date a man taller than 6 ft.

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Thu 10/29/15 04:42 PM

I happen to be really short, 4 ft. 6 in. I can't help that. I don't really look for short men to date and I like a man who is around 5' 10" but it's ok if they are a little shorter or taller. When I meet a man in person and he likes me and I like him, I will go on a date and I don't think about their height. I would just prefer not to date a man taller than 6 ft.

We should hang out.
I always wanted to be taller than SOMEbody.

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Thu 10/29/15 04:53 PM
Well, I don't come from a short family. I grew up with every being tall to me. My sister who is 2 1/2 years older than me is 1 foot taller than me. She is the only one in my family who tries to look out for me. My 3 older brothers don't care about me at all.

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Thu 10/29/15 05:39 PM
I have always been thought of as being the smallest person and got made of fun of. I was not good with being made fun of so it just made med feel bad about myself and I never got over that.

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Thu 10/29/15 05:58 PM

I have always been thought of as being the smallest person and got made of fun of. I was not good with being made fun of so it just made med feel bad about myself and I never got over that.

Well that sux.
What is wrong with your brothers?

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Thu 10/29/15 06:16 PM
I prefer to look a man in the eye
...sooo whatever that takes
get a step stool if ya gotta :thumbsup:

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Thu 10/29/15 06:45 PM

I didn't think it was that controversial a question; one based on my own observations. Got some interesting replies; TravelingLaLa was most useful- don't go. Sure I have some issues about rejection, and loneliness, and my genotype, and choices(including words), so I ask questions to get other points of view. Thanks for those.
I appreciate the cynical comments too, you so and so's !

I'm getting very bored, and at least I got a few profile looks out of it.
I'm sure to have you'se outraged and frothing again sometime.
:smile:


Well, in the original post of this thread, the broad brush you used, painted ALL women as stupid, and every male taller than 'pygmy' as being extremely violent.

Napoleon complex much?

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Thu 10/29/15 09:40 PM
Love it

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Thu 10/29/15 09:41 PM

hi


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