Topic: A Date ... I'm Scared
tulip2633's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:06 AM
Edited by tulip2633 on Mon 09/14/15 08:12 AM
IDK Crystal. Have you seen a pic or Skype with this person? Your gut feeling is very important and should not be taken lightly. Don't get swept up in someone's Internet banter. It would be easy to find out about you through your forum posts and sculpt the conversation around that. I do understand it's a different site but the info is out there and can be found.

Usually, too good to be true is too good to be true. Besides, I'd rather see you go on a date with PhD as you have interacted with him much longer. LOL.

I'm a skeptic and I don't want to lose you to a psycho. Just be smart and be careful. At the very least, make it a very public meet.

:heart:

no1phD's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:06 AM
And for your information I barely have time to chase two or three women let alone 12...Lol

prashanthben's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:08 AM
hello

no1phD's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:09 AM
Ano tulip.. too good to be true sometimes is good.... let's take me for example lol I'm soo too good to be true!!!.. but Here I am... truly I'm right here.. just little old me Mr too good to be true lol

blah..blah..'s photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:11 AM
relax, it will be fine its just a date

to quote bruce springsteen " put your make up on, fix your hair up pretty"

and have fun and veel geluk :thumbsup:

tulip2633's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:15 AM

Ano tulip.. too good to be true sometimes is good.... let's take me for example lol I'm soo too good to be true!!!.. but Here I am... truly I'm right here.. just little old me Mr too good to be true lol


I'd take Milo over you any day.

rofl rofl rofl

no1phD's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:17 AM
That damn dog! gets more Attention then Bruce Jennings lol

no1phD's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:18 AM
Ohh.. or should I say....cait Mary Jennings.. I think that's what he is calling ..Himself now..slaphead

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:19 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Mon 09/14/15 08:20 AM

IDK Crystal. Have you seen a pic or Skype with this person? Your gut feeling is very important and should not be taken lightly. Don't get swept up in someone's Internet banter. It would be easy to find out about you through your forum posts and sculpt the conversation around that. I do understand it's a different site but the info is out there and can be found.

Usually, too good to be true is too good to be true. Besides, I'd rather see you go on a date with PhD as you have interacted with him much longer. LOL.

I'm a skeptic and I don't want to lose you to a psycho. Just be smart and be careful. At the very least, make it a very public meet.

:heart:

Nah, he wouldn't even know it's me cos on that site you can't see pictures at first.
Just wait and see ...
And if it turns out to be nothing, which I include in what could happen btw, I'm realistic, I at least have worked on some of my fears. Free therapy, lol.

And yeah, PhD, I know... But I'm done chasing men that neglect me. He just confessed he chases 2-3 women at the same time!
I want my bloody ring! :tongue: (So much for not getting ahead of yourself, but that's not the point).
And man that do have an interest scare the chit out of me. Somewhere somehow I'm missing something here?
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tulip2633's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:19 AM
Doin' the Milo dance.

:banana: :banana: :banana:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:20 AM

relax, it will be fine its just a date

to quote bruce springsteen " put your make up on, fix your hair up pretty"

and have fun and veel geluk :thumbsup:

Dank je!
flowerforyou

no1phD's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:23 AM

Doin' the Milo dance.

:banana: :banana: :banana:
..awww.. you're my number one fan sweetheart..flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:23 AM


Ano tulip.. too good to be true sometimes is good.... let's take me for example lol I'm soo too good to be true!!!.. but Here I am... truly I'm right here.. just little old me Mr too good to be true lol


I'd take Milo over you any day.

rofl rofl rofl


That ^^ is what ive been trying to tell him ever since the beginning, too

no1phD's photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:24 AM
Edited by no1phD on Mon 09/14/15 08:30 AM
I Should really start a fan club for This stupid dog...

wait a minute who you calling stupid stupid.. lol..


I Wasn't really calling you stupid Milo!
I'm just referring to the fact that you have more fans.... then and air conditioning factory..ok..


.. I know I have a lot of fans! what's the matter PhD jealous?..aww.. is the little PhD going to pout.. poor little boy.. do you want to chew on my Play Toy?. it always makes me feel better...


Milo did you just hold up the L sign to your forehead at me..Lol

no photo
Mon 09/14/15 08:32 AM
Awww...doggie treats for Milo... {==} {==} {==} .....pat pat pat...

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 09/14/15 09:18 AM
You do say that he's not exactly your type, looks wise and without wishing to be rude, you are known to be somewhat picky and ready to find flaws in men that you've dated that you said didn't really do it for you. I'm not saying that it's unreasonable of you to want the full package and physical atraction is important. It could be a bit awkward if he's a really great guy but you just don't fancy him. You might try to tell yourself that it doesn't matter that he's not really your type because everything else about him is great. Then you could find yourself in a relationship where you're not really being honest.

I don't know why you're scared and I don't know what your friends meant by the past, unless they're talking about your taste in men and how you're now feeling like you did before you met other people that it didn't work out with. He seems too good to be true, apart from what he looks like. He says all the right things and seems to get you. He is a bit different but how different really from your usual type?

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 09/15/15 02:33 PM
Crystal my friend...
Breathe... take deep calming breathes..
Let's take this realistically. Okay
What is the worst thing that can happen..
He could be uglier than a mud fence dumber than a bag of rocks.
poor as a church mouse, bad teeth and has no manners.

Okay that is it.. So what enjoy the hell out of the date and move on.

Now lets take the best scenario

He is drop dead gorgeous. smarter than a whip,with charisma
Financially secure, great teeth, and manner of a prince.
and you two click..

You still are going to go out and enjoy yourself.Right

Ring god lord woman you don't even know if he smells nice or not..
Remember first instructions
Breathe...
And then breathe again

You will do fine and oh yes I do expect to hear all the lovely details

no photo
Tue 09/15/15 02:45 PM
Like SitkaRains said...


Breathe in...
Breathe out...

Repeat...

Smudge yourself... Smudge your home...

Let me do the freaking out for you.. I have time on my hands at the moment.. Until the 20th... Then I have a date...


Breathe in...
Breathe out...

Repeat...

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 09/15/15 02:58 PM

Like SitkaRains said...


Breathe in...
Breathe out...

Repeat...

Smudge yourself... Smudge your home...

Let me do the freaking out for you.. I have time on my hands at the moment.. Until the 20th... Then I have a date...


Breathe in...
Breathe out...

Repeat...


Then we will be breathing for you...flowerforyou

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 09/15/15 03:12 PM

I Should really start a fan club for This stupid dog...

wait a minute who you calling stupid stupid.. lol..


I Wasn't really calling you stupid Milo!
I'm just referring to the fact that you have more fans.... then and air conditioning factory..ok..


.. I know I have a lot of fans! what's the matter PhD jealous?..aww.. is the little PhD going to pout.. poor little boy.. do you want to chew on my Play Toy?. it always makes me feel better...


Milo did you just hold up the L sign to your forehead at me..Lol


Yes I too love Milo
He's adorable.
Where's milo?
No offense brother but look at the dog's big brown puppy eyes. Cute little nose.
He's the type you can take in the car. Walk in the park with and the kids will love him .
I would take him to school everyday for the kids. He can help them with their work.

Can I have Milo? Please?