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Topic: Outter appearances?!
regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Mon 05/25/15 09:27 AM
<~~~~very little bone - LOTSA skin! Pass the chicken please!... If you're a regularfeller, the rest of us MUST be wallflowers... If that chicken is fried wouldn't be none left over to pass! Wallflowers? Ha! I'd tend that garden!

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 05/25/15 10:24 AM
<~~~~very little bone - LOTSA skin! Pass the chicken please!... If you're a regularfeller, the rest of us MUST be wallflowers... If that chicken is fried wouldn't be none left over to pass! Wallflowers? Ha! I'd tend that garden! Hoe, hoe, hoe!!!

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Mon 05/25/15 11:02 AM
<~~~~very little bone - LOTSA skin! Pass the chicken please!... If you're a regularfeller, the rest of us MUST be wallflowers... If that chicken is fried wouldn't be none left over to pass! Wallflowers? Ha! I'd tend that garden! Hoe, hoe, hoe!!!

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Mon 05/25/15 11:09 PM
I think I've gotten to an age where I don't care anymore. I know what kind of man I really am. If someone judges me by how far my gut sticks out, hey, they can go find someone else. It doesn't bother me one bit. Since I know what kind of man I am, in my way of thinking, whoever you may be, you lose. Not me. I love me just like I am. If you can't see past the outer, you don't deserve the inner. I know that I am the kind of man women dream of. I don't drink myself to stupid. I don't do drugs. I don't cheat and I don't lie. It's just, my packaging is different. You never know what's in the bag until you open it. If you are the type of person that will not open the bag because it doesn't look too good to you on the outside. Then you are going to miss the gold bar on the inside. And that's just the way I see it.

Peteshavedownlo Joined Mon 05/25/15 Posts: 20	Tue 05/26/15 01:41 AM
no. no matter what if u truely love someone you won't cheat a few exceptions like insane ammounts of alcohool but honestly for most part 100% no. this is exactly why we need a 'choose wisely law' 90% F / 10% M asset split on divorce. yea how u like that now. choose wiesly :D no cheating! --- I have never cheated, but i have been a 3rd wheel. The girl i wanted to marry left me but i would have never cheated. basically a lot of people when they get older for whatever reason cannot handle the long term commitment to one person thats really all it is. they need multiple vaginas in there life

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Tue 05/26/15 02:13 AM
I think I've gotten to an age where I don't care anymore. I know what kind of man I really am. If someone judges me by how far my gut sticks out, hey, they can go find someone else. It doesn't bother me one bit. Since I know what kind of man I am, in my way of thinking, whoever you may be, you lose. Not me. I love me just like I am. If you can't see past the outer, you don't deserve the inner. I know that I am the kind of man women dream of. I don't drink myself to stupid. I don't do drugs. I don't cheat and I don't lie. It's just, my packaging is different. You never know what's in the bag until you open it. If you are the type of person that will not open the bag because it doesn't look too good to you on the outside. Then you are going to miss the gold bar on the inside. And that's just the way I see it.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 05/26/15 05:55 AM
The problem with expecting perfection is that it gets harder to find as you get older especially if you are only looking at outside

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Tue 05/26/15 07:28 AM
The problem with expecting perfection is that it gets harder to find as you get older especially if you are only looking at outside There ya go! Kinda like blue jeans...the "perfect pair" ain't the bright indigo pair you just bought, it's that faded ol wore out pair what fits you just right. Ask me and I'll tell ya, I think a lot of people is wasting a lot of valuable time on waiting for something to materialize what ain't never going to. Good relationships are built, they don't come preassembled. What we oughta look for are usable materials and make sure we got the right tools for the job. (That don't include a NAGOMETER!)

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 05/26/15 08:13 AM
There ya go! Kinda like blue jeans...the "perfect pair" ain't the bright indigo pair you just bought, it's that faded ol wore out pair what fits you just right. Yes exactly I still have about 3 pairs of jeans left over from high school and college and I love them so soft and worn like skin .. Gotta have that same feelng in my relationship.. That so warm and snug feeling

SDSCFof2 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 21324	Tue 05/26/15 08:23 AM
So, I was told today by a co-Worker "If your with some one and you don't find their looks attractive, you will end up cheating EVEN if you love what they are made of on the inside". Is this true? If so Why? Is the old saying "Its whats inside that matters" all wrong? Tell me what yall think? Im eager to know absolutely sad but true fact. i wish it wasn't so

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Tue 05/26/15 11:42 AM
So, I was told today by a co-Worker "If your with some one and you don't find their looks attractive, you will end up cheating EVEN if you love what they are made of on the inside". Is this true? If so Why? Is the old saying "Its whats inside that matters" all wrong? Tell me what yall think? Im eager to know Here is the thing about it. Many people now have no idea what real love is. If you truly know what love is, This is not a problem. I to this day have never met anyone who really loved the other that would cheat on the other. That's what it all hinges on. Do you really love each other? Do you really understand what love is? If you do, this will never happen.