Topic: Outter appearances?!
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Sat 05/23/15 02:08 PM
50 to 100??? Where do you find all these hot women? shocked

Could you direct me to the hot men? I will worry about their personalities later. shades

proudmom83's photo
Sat 05/23/15 11:10 PM
I just read through all of these posts, many I would love to Reply to, many I laughed my *** off to! I agree with more than one theory, in the end I think there is always a physical attraction that sparks something between two people, however I also agree that attraction can grow, you may meet someone whom you don't find attractive but you become friends, start hanging out a lot, then one day realize, "hey I'm kind of attracted to this person" attraction doesn't have to be looks, it can grow and soon the person you didn't think you would even give a second look becomes the most beautiful person you had ever met!
Beauty is def inside, attraction isn't based on looks... And for the record I'm 5'11" and have and would date someone shorter than myself, I prefer a tall man but if the right guy came along and stole my heart, and he was 5'8" would I toss that away?! No way in hell!

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Sat 05/23/15 11:13 PM

I just read through all of these posts, many I would love to Reply to, many I laughed my *** off to! I agree with more than one theory, in the end I think there is always a physical attraction that sparks something between two people, however I also agree that attraction can grow, you may meet someone whom you don't find attractive but you become friends, start hanging out a lot, then one day realize, "hey I'm kind of attracted to this person" attraction doesn't have to be looks, it can grow and soon the person you didn't think you would even give a second look becomes the most beautiful person you had ever met!
Beauty is def inside, attraction isn't based on looks... And for the record I'm 5'11" and have and would date someone shorter than myself, I prefer a tall man but if the right guy came along and stole my heart, and he was 5'8" would I toss that away?! No way in hell!

Nice to know us short guys have a chance. bigsmile

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Sun 05/24/15 05:55 AM

So, I was told today by a co-Worker "If your with some one and you don't find their looks attractive, you will end up cheating EVEN if you love what they are made of on the inside". Is this true? If so Why? Is the old saying "Its whats inside that matters" all wrong? Tell me what yall think? Im eager to know:unamused:


Okay, wait a darn minute.

This sounds to me to be another attempt to sneak in blame for cheating, on the person being cheated on. It's complete BS.

I hold everyone (especially myself) personally responsible for all of their choices and actions.

That means that there is ZERO justification for cheating. Zero. Nada. Null set. All cheaters are scumbags, liars, and at best, self-deluded self-centered egotists. No exceptions.

In this particular excuse scenario, the person who ends up cheating, STARTS by lying to the person they cheat on, when they declare that they are committed to them. They are not committed, or it would never even cross their mind to cheat. They are dishonest people from the start, long before they actually hit the sheets with their eventual target.

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Sun 05/24/15 06:08 AM
:angel: oops

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Sun 05/24/15 06:45 AM
I agree, there is no excuse, it's a lowly thing to cheat on someone. The father of my child cheated on me while I was pregnant (before and after too I'm sure).

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Sun 05/24/15 11:34 AM

50 to 100??? Where do you find all these hot women? shocked

Could you direct me to the hot men? I will worry about their personalities later. shades



I can't help you with the men. All I can tell you is, Women are everywhere. God made millions of them.shades happy

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 05/24/15 05:27 PM

Do hot people ever talk about personality, the heart and the soul this much? Just wondering. Maybe the hot ones want other hot ones because they know that they can get them. The rest talk about the heart and the mind. Just a thought. But we all know the plain ones wouldn't exactly kick the hot ones to the curb if they knew they had a chance with them. It's called reality and living in denial so you can settle for what you can get.
Before I can answer this ..
Who decides who is hot and who isn't

Is there some meter out there we can all go to and find out where we rate on the so called scale?

rug212001's photo
Sun 05/24/15 05:29 PM

Is there some meter out there we can all go to and find out where we rate on the so called scale?

Yes, it's in your brain and made up of your choices.

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Sun 05/24/15 05:35 PM


Is there some meter out there we can all go to and find out where we rate on the so called scale?

Yes, it's in your brain and made up of your choices.

I know my meter...I am curious on the consensus of this..
I have heard for years about leagues,
hot and not..
I have yet to figure it out..

regularfeller's photo
Sun 05/24/15 05:41 PM
FEAST YOUR EYES LADIES! :banana: I'M HOT....

...to somebody bigsmile

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Sun 05/24/15 06:34 PM
I know I'll never be hot, but I am ok with that, some guys like lukewarm:tongue:

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Sun 05/24/15 06:54 PM

So, I was told today by a co-Worker "If your with some one and you don't find their looks attractive, you will end up cheating EVEN if you love what they are made of on the inside". Is this true?

LoL!!

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Sun 05/24/15 07:04 PM


So, I was told today by a co-Worker "If your with some one and you don't find their looks attractive, you will end up cheating EVEN if you love what they are made of on the inside". Is this true?

LoL!!

Different reasons for cheating

regularfeller's photo
Sun 05/24/15 08:46 PM
A large, dark brown "weasel" with long, slender body; long, thick, tapering tail; webbed feet; head broad and flat; neck very short; body streamlined; legs short, adapted for life in the water; five toes on each foot, soles more or less hairy; pelage short and dense; upperparts rich, glossy, dark brown, grayish on lips and cheeks; underparts paler, tinged with grayish. Dental formula: I 3/3, C 1/1, Pm 4/3, M 1/2 X 2 = 36. External measurements average: total length, 1,168 mm; tail, 457 mm; hind foot, 124 mm. Weight, 6-7 kg, occasionally as much as 10 kg.....

Oops...thought it said "OTTER" appearances...slaphead

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 05/24/15 08:49 PM


I just read through all of these posts, many I would love to Reply to, many I laughed my *** off to! I agree with more than one theory, in the end I think there is always a physical attraction that sparks something between two people, however I also agree that attraction can grow, you may meet someone whom you don't find attractive but you become friends, start hanging out a lot, then one day realize, "hey I'm kind of attracted to this person" attraction doesn't have to be looks, it can grow and soon the person you didn't think you would even give a second look becomes the most beautiful person you had ever met!
Beauty is def inside, attraction isn't based on looks... And for the record I'm 5'11" and have and would date someone shorter than myself, I prefer a tall man but if the right guy came along and stole my heart, and he was 5'8" would I toss that away?! No way in hell!

Nice to know us short guys have a chance. bigsmile


Some guys have so much heart and soul you think they are ten foot tall even if they aren't.

Some guys have all the packaging but the box is empty.

rug212001's photo
Sun 05/24/15 09:32 PM



I just read through all of these posts, many I would love to Reply to, many I laughed my *** off to! I agree with more than one theory, in the end I think there is always a physical attraction that sparks something between two people, however I also agree that attraction can grow, you may meet someone whom you don't find attractive but you become friends, start hanging out a lot, then one day realize, "hey I'm kind of attracted to this person" attraction doesn't have to be looks, it can grow and soon the person you didn't think you would even give a second look becomes the most beautiful person you had ever met!
Beauty is def inside, attraction isn't based on looks... And for the record I'm 5'11" and have and would date someone shorter than myself, I prefer a tall man but if the right guy came along and stole my heart, and he was 5'8" would I toss that away?! No way in hell!

Nice to know us short guys have a chance. bigsmile


Some guys have so much heart and soul you think they are ten foot tall even if they aren't.

Some guys have all the packaging but the box is empty.

Truer words have rarely been spoken.

JustScribbles's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:08 PM

I know I'll never be hot, but I am ok with that, some guys like lukewarm:tongue:

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*Warbling Joe Cocker's rendition of 'Youuu arrrre so beautiful, toooo meeee!* flowers

Bunny rocks! waving

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:12 PM

I know I'll never be hot, but I am ok with that, some guys like lukewarm:tongue:

If you were closer my friend I would smack you on top of your cute little head to see if your brains would rattle you are wonderful and gorgeous.. So stop that...

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sun 05/24/15 10:22 PM
I think there are "leagues," in a way. Compatibility "leagues."

I've run across people who found me attractive, and I found them attractive, but we each recognized that our goals and way of living our lives just wouldn't work. Especially when a person's lifestyle is on such a different level financially that they can't conceive of how you live your life (whether above or below them in money), it feels just like real "leagues."

It has nothing to do with snobbery, as the idea of leagues in public school days did. These are mindset leagues.