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I think there are "leagues," in a way. Compatibility "leagues." I've run across people who found me attractive, and I found them attractive, but we each recognized that our goals and way of living our lives just wouldn't work. Especially when a person's lifestyle is on such a different level financially that they can't conceive of how you live your life (whether above or below them in money), it feels just like real "leagues." It has nothing to do with snobbery, as the idea of leagues in public school days did. These are mindset leagues. In other words money controls your dating prospects. |
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Never sell yourself short bunny girl .. You are sooo beautiful to me  
Thank you 
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I know I'll never be hot, but I am ok with that, some guys like lukewarm 
* *Warbling Joe Cocker's rendition of 'Youuu arrrre so beautiful, toooo meeee!* 
Bunny rocks!
 .......I can hear you singing.....lol....thank you!
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I know I'll never be hot, but I am ok with that, some guys like lukewarm
If you were closer my friend I would smack you on top of your cute little head to see if your brains would rattle you are wonderful and gorgeous.. So stop that... I'm sorry, I'll behave Miss Rain  .........lol
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I just read through all of these posts, many I would love to Reply to, many I laughed my *** off to! I agree with more than one theory, in the end I think there is always a physical attraction that sparks something between two people, however I also agree that attraction can grow, you may meet someone whom you don't find attractive but you become friends, start hanging out a lot, then one day realize, "hey I'm kind of attracted to this person" attraction doesn't have to be looks, it can grow and soon the person you didn't think you would even give a second look becomes the most beautiful person you had ever met! Beauty is def inside, attraction isn't based on looks... And for the record I'm 5'11" and have and would date someone shorter than myself, I prefer a tall man but if the right guy came along and stole my heart, and he was 5'8" would I toss that away?! No way in hell! Nice to know us short guys have a chance. 
Some guys have so much heart and soul you think they are ten foot tall even if they aren't. Some guys have all the packaging but the box is empty. True that. Then there is the third combination which plain people love to overlook. Heart, soul, brains and beauty. |
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Is there some meter out there we can all go to and find out where we rate on the so called scale? Yes, it's in your brain and made up of your choices. I know my meter...I am curious on the consensus of this.. I have heard for years about leagues, hot and not.. I have yet to figure it out.. You should know better than to ask, Ms. Mensa. Symmetrical face, ripped body on men, athletic, slim to curvy body on women who are in shape and take care of themselves. You don't have to be perfect like models in a magazine but it is nice when you take care of yourself, you don't let your body go. You should understand that. You take care of yourself with workouts and exercise. Sadly, a lot of people let their bodies go. |
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Is there some meter out there we can all go to and find out where we rate on the so called scale? Yes, it's in your brain and made up of your choices. I know my meter...I am curious on the consensus of this.. I have heard for years about leagues, hot and not.. I have yet to figure it out.. You should know better than to ask, Ms. Mensa. Symmetrical face, ripped body on men, athletic, slim to curvy body on women who are in shape and take care of themselves. You don't have to be perfect like models in a magazine but it is nice when you take care of yourself, you don't let your body go. You should understand that. You take care of yourself with workouts and exercise. Sadly, a lot of people let their bodies go. Some people just ArewhotheyAre1...and EVERYBODY is beautiful to somebody (even "hot" people get cheated on, abused, dumped, etc., just like us "ugly fat bodies"  )
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Is there some meter out there we can all go to and find out where we rate on the so called scale? Yes, it's in your brain and made up of your choices. I know my meter...I am curious on the consensus of this.. I have heard for years about leagues, hot and not.. I have yet to figure it out.. You should know better than to ask, Ms. Mensa. Symmetrical face, ripped body on men, athletic, slim to curvy body on women who are in shape and take care of themselves. You don't have to be perfect like models in a magazine but it is nice when you take care of yourself, you don't let your body go. You should understand that. You take care of yourself with workouts and exercise. Sadly, a lot of people let their bodies go. I've heard the en vogue word at the moment is 'dadbod'. I suppose or at least I like to think that I fall into this category, or league. :-) |
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Mon 05/25/15 03:54 AM
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Is there some meter out there we can all go to and find out where we rate on the so called scale? Yes, it's in your brain and made up of your choices. I know my meter...I am curious on the consensus of this.. I have heard for years about leagues, hot and not.. I have yet to figure it out.. You should know better than to ask, Ms. Mensa. Symmetrical face, ripped body on men, athletic, slim to curvy body on women who are in shape and take care of themselves. You don't have to be perfect like models in a magazine but it is nice when you take care of yourself, you don't let your body go. You should understand that. You take care of yourself with workouts and exercise. Sadly, a lot of people let their bodies go. it is sad when people let their bodies go. even with my spinal injuries, ive never let go, ive always kept in shape, and im limited to what exercise i can so, i swim most days, and that works great for me for keeping in shape, and it helps my spine and the pain. however i don't like skinny men. i like a man with some weight, nothing worse than hugging bones and skin. I would always cook well for my man, but not to the extent to make him unhealthy and obese. |
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<~~~~very little bone - LOTSA skin!
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Buddha bodies are of course exempt from my statement.
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No extremes. Too skinny is not attractive, either. If not athletic then average is fine, not skinny and not overweight. Again, Buddha bodies are exempt from this statement.
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<~~~~very little bone - LOTSA skin!
lol
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No extremes. Too skinny is not attractive, either. If not athletic then average is fine, not skinny and not overweight. Again, Buddha bodies are exempt from this statement.
yes I agree with that, but if he was a little bit over weight that's okay. a few extra pounds is no harm. |
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Buddha bodies are of course exempt from my statement.
No, no, no dear lady! Do not bend to prevailing wind! I just meant that some of us are merely who we are, gristle and all. Doesn't make us less of a person or less worthy of affection and proper treatment. Just as I don't believe any of us should be ashamed of ourselves, I don't believe that anyone with a preference for a svelte physique should be shamed into changing their minds about one of "us". Besides, if opposite DO attract, oughta be a lot of "Laurel and Hardy" couples walking about!
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Cut the crap. Let me oil you down... Right before you stuff me.
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That's what I like to hear!
What I lack in animal magnetism I make for with gravitational pull! I  Stuffing
You did mean Stove Top, right? |
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<~~~~very little bone - LOTSA skin!
 Pass the chicken please!...
If you're a regularfeller, the rest of us MUST be wallflowers...
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Edited by
PacificStar48
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Mon 05/25/15 07:30 AM
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I think there are "leagues," in a way. Compatibility "leagues." I've run across people who found me attractive, and I found them attractive, but we each recognized that our goals and way of living our lives just wouldn't work. Especially when a person's lifestyle is on such a different level financially that they can't conceive of how you live your life (whether above or below them in money), it feels just like real "leagues." It has nothing to do with snobbery, as the idea of leagues in public school days did. These are mindset leagues. This going to mean nothing if the person wants to be with you. I often date men who have ten times+ what I have and because they seek what I have to offer they are more than glad to share what they have, that I don't; just like I share what I have that they don't. Success often comes at the price of home and family and a true friend. Loneliness doesn't just live in one financial district. Sure nobody wants to be some one's meal ticket unless that someone is giving them a meal and a home to enjoy it in. |
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I am not perfect so I would not expect him to be but he should care about his health and at least be trying but a little fluff n stuff around middle does not bother me
tall or taller than I am with sense of humor and a good guy that I think is cute 
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