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Just out of curiosity, should a man be paid to mow his own yard? Should a man be paid to cook on his own outdoor grill? Should a man be paid to perform repair jobs in and around his own home? I suppose he should be paid for work at home, but do you guys have to jump at every opportunity for women that might somehow benefit you? Are you that selfish? Anyway, men created money. Should anyone be paid? Women are the only ones whose work is meant to be done out of the goodness of their hearts without pay. |
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Women are the only ones whose work is meant to be done out of the goodness of their hearts without pay.
Meanwhile, back in this universe ... |
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Feminists accomplished not even respect for women obviously.
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Searches*for butterflies again...
Oh there goes one... |
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Just out of curiosity, should a man be paid to mow his own yard? Should a man be paid to cook on his own outdoor grill? Should a man be paid to perform repair jobs in and around his own home? With dinner..n sex n stuff.. So, does a stay-at-home wife go without food, clothing and shelter because she doesn't work outside the home? No, of course not? So, how can one say that a stay-at-home wife isn't somehow compensated? in my honest opinion if I was able to be a stay at home mom or wife it would be an honor for my husband to provide all these things for me and in return I would try to keep a clean house dinner and do all the other things and help out with the outside chores as well when I was married I was the one at home so yes, this meant keeping house and doing errands like the shopping and planning the majority of the meals. Did we have a traditional division of household chores? probably...he did the car maintenance, the grilling, mowing, yard work and most of outside jobs and I did the cooking, cleaning and laundry |
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all I know !!is unless you have young children at home.. both parties need to work.... for a lot of different reasons financially.. socially... and own sense of self worth....
.... housework.. can always be shared.. . if I was home first I would start supper and do some dishes... . and vice a versa... easy peasy.. |
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trish send me your resume please and i'll send mine
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Just out of curiosity, should a man be paid to mow his own yard? Should a man be paid to cook on his own outdoor grill? Should a man be paid to perform repair jobs in and around his own home? With dinner..n sex n stuff.. So, does a stay-at-home wife go without food, clothing and shelter because she doesn't work outside the home? No, of course not? So, how can one say that a stay-at-home wife isn't somehow compensated? in my honest opinion if I was able to be a stay at home mom or wife it would be an honor for my husband to provide all these things for me and in return I would try to keep a clean house dinner and do all the other things and help out with the outside chores as well when I was married I was the one at home so yes, this meant keeping house and doing errands like the shopping and planning the majority of the meals. Did we have a traditional division of household chores? probably...he did the car maintenance, the grilling, mowing, yard work and most of outside jobs and I did the cooking, cleaning and laundry |
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when I was married I was the one at home so yes, this meant keeping house and doing errands like the shopping and planning the majority of the meals. Did we have a traditional division of household chores? probably...he did the car maintenance, the grilling, mowing, yard work and most of outside jobs and I did the cooking, cleaning and laundry So, did your husband do "the car maintenance, the grilling, mowing, yard work and most of outside jobs" out of the goodness of his heart? |
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all I know !!is unless you have young children at home.. both parties need to work.... for a lot of different reasons financially.. socially... and own sense of self worth.... .... housework.. can always be shared.. . if I was home first I would start supper and do some dishes... . and vice a versa... easy peasy.. |
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all I know !!is unless you have young children at home.. both parties need to work.... for a lot of different reasons financially.. socially... and own sense of self worth.... .... housework.. can always be shared.. . if I was home first I would start supper and do some dishes... . and vice a versa... easy peasy.. Then women should be paid when the children are young. |
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all I know !!is unless you have young children at home.. both parties need to work.... for a lot of different reasons financially.. socially... and own sense of self worth.... .... housework.. can always be shared.. . if I was home first I would start supper and do some dishes... . and vice a versa... easy peasy.. Then women should be paid when the children are young. When my son was a baby, I took care of him while my wife was away at work. So, should I have been paid to take care of my son? |
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ok just to be clear .. who is supposed to be paying you exactly.....
...... I don't think you can get a divorce and use this.. tactic..for back pay..lol |
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Edited by
TMommy
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Fri 04/17/15 01:54 PM
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when I was married I was the one at home so yes, this meant keeping house and doing errands like the shopping and planning the majority of the meals. Did we have a traditional division of household chores? probably...he did the car maintenance, the grilling, mowing, yard work and most of outside jobs and I did the cooking, cleaning and laundry So, did your husband do "the car maintenance, the grilling, mowing, yard work and most of outside jobs" out of the goodness of his heart? odd question depends on how you look at it when we stood before God and family and spoke our vows we pledged to love one another and as a family you try to take care of each other we kind of just looked at as a necessary evil..like cleaning the toilet or throwing next load into dryer household chores are just things that have to get done to keep things going oh and there was no HIS money or HER money the paychecks went into the joint checking acct and were used for whatever needed to be paid |
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Ohhh.. the division of housework..
as is followed... outside work and turning of a screw mens work.. inside house women's work... laundry cooking cleaning dishes.. . not that I'm saying it is only women's work... but I believe it is their responsibility the same as it is the man's responsibility to do the outside work |
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Ohhh.. the division of housework.. as is followed... outside work and turning of a screw mens work.. inside house women's work... laundry cooking cleaning dishes.. . not that I'm saying it is only women's work... but I believe it is their responsibility the same as it is the man's responsibility to do the outside work So, does a man get paid to do chores at his own residence, or does he do them out of the goodness of his heart? |
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* Dang, I'm sad now, I wanna cry * Me too... But what you said..rings real true. I would love it if I didn't have to work. Wish I could home school him too. ((((Crystal))))) Hiya ((((2Kids))))! |
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Ohhh.. the division of housework.. as is followed... outside work and turning of a screw mens work.. inside house women's work... laundry cooking cleaning dishes.. . not that I'm saying it is only women's work... but I believe it is their responsibility the same as it is the man's responsibility to do the outside work So, does a man get paid to do chores at his own residence, or does he do them out of the goodness of his heart? if I do not do them who will..? |
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* Dang, I'm sad now, I wanna cry * Me too... But what you said..rings real true. I would love it if I didn't have to work. Wish I could home school him too. ((((Crystal))))) Hiya ((((2Kids))))! Hiiii Beautiful.love your pic! ((((Crystal)))) |
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trish send me your resume please and i'll send mine I am not saying mine is best way or only way if both are working then obviously chores are being done by both If it's mama who is working and daddy home taking care of house and home then fantastic really is whatever works best for you as a family |
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