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Topic: Old Fashioned Dating Rules
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Wed 09/24/14 12:10 AM
If we both want to have sex on the first date then it's ok.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 09/24/14 06:41 AM

If we both want to have sex on the first date then it's ok.


I see no flaw in this logic.

Do you agree Blondey? :tongue: laugh

green407's photo
Wed 09/24/14 12:53 PM

Agree? Disagree? All? Some? None? Outdated? Timeless?




I agree with them. But then again I was raised to be a gentlemen, I may not be one all the time but I try.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 09/24/14 02:19 PM



1-4 obsolete
5 Yes!!
6 not applicable to a first date
7 keep it short & sweet, I'm not really into poetry
8 Yes yes yes!! Switch off that effing phone!!!
9 Ask permission? What for??? I don't do role play on a first date. Not on a second or third either. Don't like role-play all that much
10 well yes, unless it's me who wants sex at some point in time? shades


I would be happy with just a..
. rotary dial phone. with the headset attached to the phone. buy a cord.
no caller ID.. and hoping it is my date who is calling ...lol.. you want to talk about nervous anticipation..lol..
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#1.. women don't want men they have just met online coming to their homes..
.#2.. nobody really puts on suit and tie.. to go on a date.. anymore...
.. because simply all restaurants are casual.... you would be a little overdressed... but you should always look nice though... showered shaved clean clothes....
.#3. I'm buying you dinner and you want me to bring you flowers too..omg.. we are just meeting.. what happens if I don't like you... this could get expensive..lol..
#4.. yes dancing.. let me show you right off the bat... how little rhythm and timing.. not to mention lack of coordination... I have on the first date..
. so smexy...lol
.. I don't have enough time to finish I'll get back to this later...lol..

Tall one, you are hilarious! laugh
Lack of coordination, little rhythm & timing? Hmm ... Kinda makes me wonder if this bothers you in other erm ... situations as well?

Indeed flowers, suit, restaurant and dancing would be way over the top. I prefer to meet someone over a cappuccino. Dinner could be the next step.
And defo not pick me up at my home. I'm careful whom I give my address, phone nr as well for that matter.


Candiapples's photo
Wed 09/24/14 06:25 PM

Agree? Disagree? All? Some? None? Outdated? Timeless?



I agree with most of them, wow times have changed sad2

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Wed 09/24/14 06:41 PM

Agree? Disagree? All? Some? None? Outdated? Timeless?




1. If I know them, sure. I'm not inviting a first date to come pick me up, though.

2. Depends on what we're doing.

3. Flowers would be nice. Most guys don't do that these days. And it doesn't necessarily have to be the first date.

4. Personal preference. If they like dancing, go dancing.

5. Yes.

6. Yes.

7. Not necessary. Could be nice if genuine.

8. Yes.

9. Asking for permission for what?

10. Yes.

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Wed 09/24/14 06:44 PM



1. Said it before, but first date, unless you've known that person previously, you should be meeting in a public place. After that and she feels comfortable enough, then yes, I always pick her up.

2. I don't wear suits and ties, but I do wear nice clothes and clean myself up.

3. Flowers are boring and predictable, I never bring flowers on a first date, but if the relationship seems to be going somewhere I do bring her something I've learned that she would like from our previous conversations. With my current girlfriend who is an artist, I brought gave her my own art I made for her, and still do.

4. Yeesh. I hate dancing. Fortunately my girlfriend hates it too, so neither of us have to worry about it.

5. I've always asked a lady out on a date, and let her know I'm asking as a date and not a hang out.

6. When it gets to that point yes, communication is key. Nothing should ever be assumed.

7. See 3, plus when we were still long distance my current girlfriend and I wrote handwritten letters to each other.

8. Yes definitely, but this should be true for all relationships including regular friends. Nothing more annoying than trying to have a conversation with someone face to face and they take a call or text in the middle of it.

9. I would hope this is common sense, sadly it's probably not with some.

10. I never assume anything.


I don't think flowers are boring, or predictable. Most guys never bring them. It would actually be a nice change.

jayneiniowa's photo
Thu 10/02/14 07:08 PM
Flowers are best when received randomly, and for no special reason other than the other person was thinking about you and wanted you to feel special.

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