Last nite and today. Actually right now. Sorry the screen is becoming blurry to see, and honestly I just don't seem to care who wants to make fun of me for it. Just tired of being wrong, or at fault, or being an insipid piece of crap.

Tonight... Just feeling exhausted and overwhelmed and discouraged ... I've been a widow for three years I'm tired of this I just wish I could find the right person

Okay, put the champagne and bunting away, I'm not in a relationship, lol.
But there's this thing that keeps bugging me. Let's say you'd find a partner again and - eventually - move in together. Most have been single for some time, so we've learnt to do things that our exes used to do.

So how do you deal with the new situation when it comes to chores? Would you automatically start doing the so called 'men things' like fixing a fence, oil a squeaky door, fix a blocked drain, car maintenance of your woman, put out the garbage etc. etc. etc.
Or would you expect her to keep doing these things herself, unless she asks for your help?
And vice versa of course.
As a woman, would you expect your new man to start doing these things?
And as a man, would you expect your woman to do the so called 'woman things', meaning i.e. you'd never cook anymore, help cleaning etc.

Sometimes it's just weird how we can have these routines in our head --> The other day I had a blocked drain. And I found myself wishing I had a man so he could fix it. Yes I know, horrible, pathetic, cos I can easily do that myself. It doesn't require strength, it's just a gross and smelly job.

Anyways, how do you divide all these chores that we usually automatically did in the past with our first partner, and learnt to deal with ourselves because we were single.
Do you just wait and see how it goes? Do you discuss it? If so, when?

I want to take her from behind until we have no more dishes

Well I am not trying to brag or anything...but this one time I used the handicapped button to open a door. I am not handicapped.

Bad boy 4 life!