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are interested in me? so that contact me as soon as possible i will wait you answer take care bye
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im care how man make me happy first
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im care how man make me happy first
Would this work? 
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im care how man make me happy first
A good man will always try and make a woman happy before themselves, when we cherish something...we put their feelings first x |
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I think it's also a disservice to raise your kids without their father. You can teach kids things but as mentioned earlier they do learn by example. Not so easy to be a single mother. But that is for another topic. Anyway, the original topic was how to make a man happy enough to stay not to go! I thank everyone for sharing your thoughts.. It is not a disservice if the father is not fit to be one in the first place. Then you would be actually saving the kids from an unhappy home. I think someone did mention that they wished their mom had got rid of their horrid father when they were young.....would apply here too! If the man is not happy enough to stay....kick him out! And you will be happier not trying to keep him happy....it is a vicious cycle! |
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I think it's also a disservice to raise your kids without their father. You can teach kids things but as mentioned earlier they do learn by example. Not so easy to be a single mother. But that is for another topic. Anyway, the original topic was how to make a man happy enough to stay not to go! I thank everyone for sharing your thoughts.. It is not a disservice if the father is not fit to be one in the first place. Then you would be actually saving the kids from an unhappy home. I think someone did mention that they wished their mom had got rid of their horrid father when they were young.....would apply here too! If the man is not happy enough to stay....kick him out! And you will be happier not trying to keep him happy....it is a vicious cycle! We are partners, not slaves.....if he doesn't cherish you, he doesn't deserve you! I know different cultures have different outlooks. For Asians and some other regions, we tend to slog it out for 'better or worse', but times have changed. And if we have to be single parents, then just do our best and our kids will know we have done what we can and appreciate it. |
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are interested in me? so that contact me as soon as possible i will wait you answer take care bye A prize in every package.... Not really, more like a never ending list of the same thing..... Oh and no answer gets no answer......got abs? 
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understanding. a little mystery. lotta happy surprises
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I think it's also a disservice to raise your kids without their father. You can teach kids things but as mentioned earlier they do learn by example. Not so easy to be a single mother. But that is for another topic. Anyway, the original topic was how to make a man happy enough to stay not to go! I thank everyone for sharing your thoughts.. It is not a disservice if the father is not fit to be one in the first place. Then you would be actually saving the kids from an unhappy home. I think someone did mention that they wished their mom had got rid of their horrid father when they were young.....would apply here too! If the man is not happy enough to stay....kick him out! And you will be happier not trying to keep him happy....it is a vicious cycle! I am the one that said I had a horrible father. I think this is why I can't be in a relatioship as I did not want to live like my mother. I would rather be single than to be married to someone that horrible. He did some major damage not only to me but all the kids in my family. My brother and I still talk about how we wished my mom had divorced him. I also agree with your comment that kick him out as no man is worth the trouble if he is making you unhappy. |
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So the consensus is- you don't keep him happy. You get rid of him and continue to live alone. And then you'll be happy.
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So the consensus is- you don't keep him happy. You get rid of him and continue to live alone. And then you'll be happy. Just because one lives alone doesn't mean they are alone. Big frigging difference. I have lots of friends and family that are very much in my life and love me unconditionally. Despite what you may think; romantic love is not the only love out there and certainly not the most important. |
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Hmmm.. I'm going with !!..sending naked pictures of yourself..to him..
yep definitely would keep me happy.. Mmmmm... but I'm a perv... so do I know..  
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Despite what you may think; romantic love is not the only love out there and certainly not the most important. Hehe that's a helluva thing to say to get a date. But yes there are many loves and we have the freedom to choose, which one we cherish the most. You have made your choice and i'll go with mine. |
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The way to keep a man happy...is to keep his woman happy...
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Despite what you may think; romantic love is not the only love out there and certainly not the most important. Hehe that's a helluva thing to say to get a date. But yes there are many loves and we have the freedom to choose, which one we cherish the most. You have made your choice and i'll go with mine. Yep; that was my point exactly. 
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I think it's also a disservice to raise your kids without their father. You can teach kids things but as mentioned earlier they do learn by example. Not so easy to be a single mother. But that is for another topic. Anyway, the original topic was how to make a man happy enough to stay not to go! I thank everyone for sharing your thoughts.. It is not a disservice if the father is not fit to be one in the first place. Then you would be actually saving the kids from an unhappy home. I think someone did mention that they wished their mom had got rid of their horrid father when they were young.....would apply here too! If the man is not happy enough to stay....kick him out! And you will be happier not trying to keep him happy....it is a vicious cycle! I am the one that said I had a horrible father. I think this is why I can't be in a relatioship as I did not want to live like my mother. I would rather be single than to be married to someone that horrible. He did some major damage not only to me but all the kids in my family. My brother and I still talk about how we wished my mom had divorced him. I also agree with your comment that kick him out as no man is worth the trouble if he is making you unhappy. OOPS!!!  
Anyway.....we did agree that we do the 'kicking'!! But it takes a lot of guts and strongwill....with support from friends, relatives and family, it can be done! When my bro-in-law abused my sis, my usually soft spoken, quiet dad went and hit him, to our surprise, and my brother wanted to beat my B-I-L. We all stood by my sis, and even though she went back to him eventually, she knew we were there for her. 10 years down the road and after adding another child to the marriage, she finally got the guts to walk away, with our blessings, as he did not change his abusive behavior. |
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...the original topic was how to make a man happy enough to stay not to go!... We've just been informed in another thread that A study has concluded that women cheat more than men, so it appears the tide has shifted and now the men had better figure out how to make US "happy enough to stay not to go!"
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... keeping women happy is easy..
... men and women's happiness parallel . each other.. happy wife happy life.... ... pissed off wife goodbye life...lmao..
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sun 10/05/14 04:01 PM
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I am the one that said I had a horrible father. I think this is why I can't be in a relatioship as I did not want to live like my mother. I would rather be single than to be married to someone that horrible. He did some major damage not only to me but all the kids in my family. My brother and I still talk about how we wished my mom had divorced him. I also agree with your comment that kick him out as no man is worth the trouble if he is making you unhappy. OOPS!!!
Anyway.....we did agree that we do the 'kicking'!! But it takes a lot of guts and strongwill....with support from friends, relatives and family, it can be done! When my bro-in-law abused my sis, my usually soft spoken, quiet dad went and hit him, to our surprise, and my brother wanted to beat my B-I-L. We all stood by my sis, and even though she went back to him eventually, she knew we were there for her. 10 years down the road and after adding another child to the marriage, she finally got the guts to walk away, with our blessings, as he did not change his abusive behavior. I agree that it takes a lot of guts to walk away from abuse. My mom was scared as she had no life skills; she couldn't even drive as he wouldn't let her. I think this is why I became so independent as I didn't want to end up like my mother who was fully dependent on my dad. He had full control of her and she was more like his slave than his wife. When he died; for the first time in years; she was happy and found indeed how she could take care of herself without him. |
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