Topic: Im seeing a married man but I know he loves me
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Sat 02/22/14 07:25 PM





I posted this..not to cause conflict but really just to proclaim it. Ive never told anyone I love them and actually mean it. I think I wanted to hear what others would say considering its not an ideal relationship. I know he loves his kids.... I would never come between them. I knew people wouldn't "approve" of our relationship but I was expecting a little compassion of our circumstance.I just can't bring myself to be ashamed of falling for this man. Who just happens to have the misfortune of being married to the wrong woman.
ha! its not that you fell for him, its that you cheated with him. and he doesnt have the misfortune to be married, he chose to be and to remain married while engaging in an affair with you and who knows who else.


Getting his tofu and eating it too.

I mention tofu, cake is bad for you.



Listen McClintock, I don't mean to be rude, but everything in moderation babeshades ...enough with the healthy lifestyle cookbooks,ill it's the weekend hot pants....love


That is when people slack off in their eating habits, :wink:


As for you body beautifulwhoa ...Stop distracting us with those torso shotsdrool ....Leave the head shot up, it's easier to deal with.....glasses

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Sat 02/22/14 07:29 PM
Ohhhh LaLa!
Sweet cheeks glasses

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Sat 02/22/14 07:34 PM
oops.. my finger slipped..lol..

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Sat 02/22/14 07:56 PM
Edited by BettyB on Sat 02/22/14 07:57 PM
I would not be surprised if this whole thing is a made up story.
Any Doctor cheating on his wife would not want his mistress posting this on a dating site because her co worker likes it here. Not to mention the fact that she is blabbing this affair to people she works with which could ruin this so called Doctor's reputation.
This just does not make any sense to me.


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Sat 02/22/14 07:57 PM
does anything make any sense really!!!!lol

BettyB's photo
Sat 02/22/14 08:01 PM

does anything make any sense really!!!!lol

Good point!

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Sat 02/22/14 08:10 PM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Sat 02/22/14 08:11 PM

does anything make any sense really!!!!lol


Does anything have to make any sense, really??....Answer...No, it does not, this is a social networking site, not a court of law...laugh We are here for the entertainment value only!!....:tongue:

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Sat 02/22/14 08:12 PM
so does that mean I can keep the torso shot up.lol

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Sat 02/22/14 08:23 PM

so does that mean I can keep the torso shot up.lol


You had a torso shot up too!!surprised ...And I missed it?!!#$!!???$#!sad

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Sat 02/22/14 08:25 PM
really.. whyi don't know what to say to that.. I think my feelings are hurt.. I have to go check.

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Sat 02/22/14 09:02 PM
It sounds like someone is getting baby fever and is trying to turn up the heat on this Doctor to get him to jump ship.

Reality is much more likely to be that this Doctor knows full well that his wife will get a fat alimony settlement. Probably supporting him through medical school. Also more than likely has more dirt on him than a dust mop.

And the fact that she has the kids and will get to keep them pretty much means your cash bull is not going to hand out "perks" too much longer.

Even if the wife is stone crazy, which I sincerley doubt, She is probably smart enough to have cut him off in the sex department a long time ago. Guarantee you are not the first or last boom boom girl he has and the "gifts" he is giving you, maybe loaning you, are cheaper than him jeapordizing his practice screwing the surrounding females, paying for motels, and a string of hookers including whatever diseases he might get that would end his career faster.

My guess is the wife will divorce him as soon as his medical school debts are paid, there is enough equity in the house, or he is tenured at the hospital.

If he doesn't hold the title on you shack up spot and car he is just hedging his bets he won't end up with no place to land. A really dumb move because I bet if you really didn't have and excuse to twist him for more money you would dump him for the next guy you can lead around by the handle between his legs.

So keep telling yourself how much he really loves you. Chances are he has already made sure he is not going to knock you up so you can just get older and older by the day and end up too old to have your own kid. I assure you if you do get pregnant it will not change a thing. He obviously doesn't give a hang about his kids so not likely he is going to yours. Sure not going to care if you parade around pregnant because I guarantee doctors having a couple illegitimate kids hardly cause a ripple in most medical circles. I would not go to any of his friends for care if you really don't want to end up having a miscarriage if he isn't so hot with you being pregnant.

So yea he is coming over late on Saturday nights to boink you and have a place to sleep rather than in the residents racks. For all you really know he is divorced and she has a live in lover. The "crazy" cover is just too good a way to keep you from knowing the facts. If anything she is crazy like a fox. And you are going to end up the fat old hen has been mistress that no judge in the world will feel sorry for.

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Sat 02/22/14 09:02 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sat 02/22/14 09:05 PM
Sorry double post.

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Sat 02/22/14 09:46 PM
These are not difficult observations to make, it pains me to repeat them.

You are being used, like a weekend fling. You will be disappointed if you decide to continue...And it will all, every bit of it, go up in flames in front of you.

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Sat 02/22/14 09:52 PM
Love? It doesn't matter at all when you create a pain for her wife and kids. You will understand how silly you were when you will get a pain and sorrow same as people you hurt. No any money he gave will make you happy...or it's just really your "job"

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Sat 02/22/14 10:41 PM

Im making this declaration because no one seems to understand. I wish to explain it. Ive been seeing a married man for a year. He is the sweetest, sexiest guy Ive ever known! And the best lover Ive ever had. Ive come to the realization that I love him! If he would just hurry already and leave that woman he's married to we can finally be happy! I know what you may say.... hes married...you shouldnt be with him blah blah blah but no one knows our love. I wanted to post this because my co worker loves this site. And she talks to you guys all of the time... she said you people make her look at things she hadnt thought of before. I love Bobby very much...other than his wife..who he is divorcing soon. I dont see a downside.

He has all the hallmarks of a pure bastard. It won't be long before he hurts you too.
I would like to wish you well but I won't, you don't deserve it.

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Sat 02/22/14 10:46 PM
nobody turns a phrase better than you Frankie..lmao..

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Sat 02/22/14 10:50 PM
u r fool,, i he leave his wife in ur love ,he will also leave u in another woman loveee,,dont take wrong step,,dont beleive

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Sat 02/22/14 11:23 PM
I hope you don't think I'm trying to put you down. It's just I think you enjoy the sex with him, so much, that you can't get yourself out of it. It's clear you and him get along pretty well. Actually, I almost went and got myself into a similar situation, where he asked me if I'd ever want an affair with him, but we only kissed while drunk, and I told him I couldn't have an affair with him, because the right guy would want ALL of me, not just certain parts of me. It's okay for HIM, having two women at once, but do you really feel loved? How do you feel, every time he gets back into bed with his wife? Apart from sexually satisfied. It must be very difficult. I think a talk with a therapist might help. Incase you end up feeling suicidal. I'm not being dramatic. These situations can end up with one of them trying to commit suicide, because the suicidal person can't express openly, how hurt they can end up feeling. As not many around them will listen. And also, the two people who had the affair, sometimes feel very bitter towards each other, for keeping it a secret.

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Sat 02/22/14 11:25 PM
Edited by Shy_Emo_chick on Sat 02/22/14 11:30 PM

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Sun 02/23/14 02:11 AM

I hope you don't think I'm trying to put you down. It's just I think you enjoy the sex with him, so much, that you can't get yourself out of it. It's clear you and him get along pretty well. Actually, I almost went and got myself into a similar situation, where he asked me if I'd ever want an affair with him, but we only kissed while drunk, and I told him I couldn't have an affair with him, because the right guy would want ALL of me, not just certain parts of me. It's okay for HIM, having two women at once, but do you really feel loved? How do you feel, every time he gets back into bed with his wife? Apart from sexually satisfied. It must be very difficult. I think a talk with a therapist might help. Incase you end up feeling suicidal. I'm not being dramatic. These situations can end up with one of them trying to commit suicide, because the suicidal person can't express openly, how hurt they can end up feeling. As not many around them will listen. And also, the two people who had the affair, sometimes feel very bitter towards each other, for keeping it a secret.

Yeah, but her case is different, as it isn't an affair, he loves her and they're going to get married and have babies
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I steer clear from married/involved men. And it never seizes to amaze me how many are looking for some excitement 'on the side' because things got boring with the missus.
But the risk of falling in love with a married bloke, no way am I going there!
Her case is exactly where you'd end up and you'd waste years of your life before you get out and over it.
So sad that so many women still fall for this BS and even defend the w@nker that's simply using them.