Topic: Im seeing a married man but I know he loves me
no1phD's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:20 PM
Aew I can smell the rabbit boiling right now...lol

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Sat 02/22/14 04:22 PM

Aew I can smell the rabbit boiling right now...lol


laugh

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Sat 02/22/14 04:23 PM
There is just so much you guys don't know. His wife is mentally ill and hes afraid to leave her right now. They have children and he worries for his girls. Im his only happiness. I can't just abandon him. Im not that type of person! Seems like noone in this forum will ever understand. Im not crazy..there will be no boiled bunnies... maybe Ill post my wedding pics and baby :tongue: announcement after that

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:24 PM
Having an affair with a married man is one thing, thinking he will leave his nice and comfy life for you is another.
Now he's got a wife and marriage that is comfy, a house and money (otherwise he wouldn't be able to pay your bills as well as his own), he's got a mistress, what more could a guy want?
And sure he might tell you he loves you, and in a way he probably does. But that doesn't mean he's going to leave his wife for you!
I also don't understand why you felt the need to post this here as you clearly knew upfront what kind of reactions you would get. So what is it you're trying to achieve? What is it you're after? I don't get the feeling you're open for other opinions and common sense, but simply enjoy the conflict?

no1phD's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:25 PM
Touche.. the gauntlet has been thrown down..hmm. better than watching the Olympics..lol

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Sat 02/22/14 04:27 PM

There is just so much you guys don't know. His wife is mentally ill and hes afraid to leave her right now. They have children and he worries for his girls. Im his only happiness. I can't just abandon him. Im not that type of person! Seems like noone in this forum will ever understand. Im not crazy..there will be no boiled bunnies... maybe Ill post my wedding pics and baby :tongue: announcement after that


rofl rofl You're not crazy, but you are bored as hell!LMAO !!!

Post your piccy honey....smokin

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:32 PM
Seems like noone in this forum will ever understand.


Oh, we understand perfectly.

You are choosing to commit adultery with a married man, and you claim that "love" is an excuse for the adultery.

 Maria195's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:34 PM

No..no... you guys dont understand. I am happy... He is a good guy. He gives me everything! New car... pays my bills. Im just anxious for him to be just mine alone.. then HE can truly be happy. I know how it sounds but he really is a great person.

Thanks for :smile: listening




Just by reading some of your post make me think you have no respect for yourself to start with...They're so many single men out there, why do you have to be between him and his wife and probably little kids? just think for a moment...you must be looking for a "sugar Daddy"

In the past this woman came between my ex-husband and I, later he cheated on her with another woman...so have you ever heard about KARMA IS A *****? so be ready for, because wherever we do in this World good or bad it comes right back at us! JMO

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:44 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sat 02/22/14 04:46 PM

There is just so much you guys don't know. His wife is mentally ill and hes afraid to leave her right now. They have children and he worries for his girls. Im his only happiness. I can't just abandon him. Im not that type of person! Seems like noone in this forum will ever understand. Im not crazy..there will be no boiled bunnies... maybe Ill post my wedding pics and baby :tongue: announcement after that

Geesh... where have I heard that sob story before?? Oh wait! On Oprah, Dr Phil, magazines, and from nearly all the scammers on Mingle.
He'll have you wait for at least another 10 years, cos his wife's condition just got worse, and his girls need them because of blablabla, you will have to wait, and yes, he really truly loves you!!
I think it takes women like you an average of 10 years before they get the baws to say "No!" and then realize they wasted half their adult life on a total loser.
Oh well, these things have to run their course. And you won't believe anything anyone says anyway, not for the next 9-10 years.

Still didn't get an answer to my question: Why did you post this here? What are you after? You feel like being rebellious and like conflict? You need attention?

BettyB's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:47 PM

No..no... you guys dont understand. I am happy... He is a good guy. He gives me everything! New car... pays my bills. Im just anxious for him to be just mine alone.. then HE can truly be happy. I know how it sounds but he really is a great person.

Thanks for :smile: listening

You obviously made up your mind , and are so convinced he is a good guy. So what it is you want from us?
If you are looking for a pat on the back for sticking with him ,don't think you will find it here.


no1phD's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:47 PM
just one question did anybody bring marshmallows just wondered.. I can smell that rabbit it's about done lol

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Sat 02/22/14 04:49 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Sat 02/22/14 04:50 PM


He might love you but something is making him stay with his wife. Has he given you a date or time when hes going to be starting his divorce proceedings?

I'm not going to say that you are in La La land and he probably does love you and his wife. Maybe he can't decide who he loves more. Most likely he is going to say negative things about his wife to you but that may be or not be true.

When you fall in love and you want someone so badly..sometimes you don't see things clearly.

like leigh said..I agree


This man does not love anyone but himself...Sorry if the truth hurts H8MREKR, but you started the thread..Watch out for that boomerang when it hits, could make you a little light above the eyebrows, karma being the bigger biotch and all..:wink:

I would never commit adultery but I do believe people can love and be in love with more than one. I wouldn't be so harsh and say that he only loves himself but he is definately selfish.

Hes with you sweety because theres something in his marriage thats missing and hes with his wife still because shes giving him something you are not

And that is just my opinion of course. Its just so much easier to stay away from marred men. You basically did this to youself if he doesn't leave.

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Sat 02/22/14 04:52 PM


No..no... you guys dont understand. I am happy... He is a good guy. He gives me everything! New car... pays my bills. Im just anxious for him to be just mine alone.. then HE can truly be happy. I know how it sounds but he really is a great person.

Thanks for :smile: listening


You're a well paid call girl....Just enjoy your "job" while it lasts and start a savings account, you're going to need it...


Straight to the point and spot on Leigh.

Candiapples's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:54 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Sat 02/22/14 04:58 PM
Ok his wife is mentally ill..any proof of that or his word only?

Sorry I don't buy the kids excuse..

no1phD's photo
Sat 02/22/14 04:58 PM
I'm about to jump in that boiling pot with the rabbit.. .
. nothing wrong with having your cake and icecream too is there???

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Sat 02/22/14 04:59 PM
Edited by BettyB on Sat 02/22/14 05:01 PM

I'm about to jump in that boiling pot with the rabbit.. .
. nothing wrong with having your cake and icecream too is there???

If you are stealing it from another family, you bet your booty its wrong!
Its not YOUR cake and ice cream to have.

no1phD's photo
Sat 02/22/14 05:02 PM
technically she's not stealing it he's kinda giving it away.. kinda like serving cake at a kids party if you know what I mean.

BettyB's photo
Sat 02/22/14 05:04 PM

technically she's not stealing it he's kinda giving it away.. kinda like serving cake at a kids party if you know what I mean.

So if you know somebody robbed a bank its ok for you to take the money because the robber gave it to you?
Thinking the judge might think otherwise.

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 02/22/14 05:05 PM

technically she's not stealing it he's kinda giving it away.. kinda like serving cake at a kids party if you know what I mean.

He is giving away cake that belongs to someone else.

no1phD's photo
Sat 02/22/14 05:05 PM
Edited by no1phD on Sat 02/22/14 05:07 PM
it's his cake he shares it with whoever he wants his wife or mistress.... in this case both.