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Topic: How to be the jerk women love.
ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Mon 04/22/13 07:30 PM
You don't have to be a jerk all the time, just at the right time. Yes definitely!!! You need to have a bit of a "chip", swagger, " backbone" dont be a right fighter, pick the Fights, allways strive for that 60/40 40/60 balance. You will not hold a woman's attention long if you "roll over for them" they will find you unchallenging and will quickly loose respect. After all there's only one thing a woman wants & that what she CAN'T have!! & boys only play with other boys toys...... SAME THING SO RELAX ..LOL... What it sounds like you're trying to say is men should have confidence. This is very true. However, confidence isn't being a jerk. Not caving to her demands having that chip attitude often requires playing the jerk, so with some Ramey,headstrong weman in my past , I've found the best defence in always a good offence ..so the point was also in there ... just got to think like a guy...this is easy stuff... lol.. does anyone no any Ramey headstrong gals, I'm singal by chance & I sure hope it wasn't something I said Now it sounds like you're talking more about being arrogant. I can't speak for others, but an arrogant guy with that "chip attitude" who plays a jerk is definitely a turn off. Now, I'm not into guys who let people walk all over them, either. I'm all for confident men. Arrogance, though? No thanks. I also have no idea what ramey means. Ramey To impose ones will on another, aggressive behavior, pushy; right out of my Vancouver Island dictionary Derives from a big big horny sheep.....aahhaaaahaa , sorry i'm just funin ya Sis Think big horned Ram, with head down charging ..and no I dont want any people in my life like that, cheers

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/22/13 08:35 PM
You don't have to be a jerk all the time, just at the right time. Yes definitely!!! You need to have a bit of a "chip", swagger, " backbone" dont be a right fighter, pick the Fights, allways strive for that 60/40 40/60 balance. You will not hold a woman's attention long if you "roll over for them" they will find you unchallenging and will quickly loose respect. After all there's only one thing a woman wants & that what she CAN'T have!! & boys only play with other boys toys...... SAME THING SO RELAX ..LOL... What it sounds like you're trying to say is men should have confidence. This is very true. However, confidence isn't being a jerk. Not caving to her demands having that chip attitude often requires playing the jerk, so with some Ramey,headstrong weman in my past , I've found the best defence in always a good offence ..so the point was also in there ... just got to think like a guy...this is easy stuff... lol.. does anyone no any Ramey headstrong gals, I'm singal by chance & I sure hope it wasn't something I said Now it sounds like you're talking more about being arrogant. I can't speak for others, but an arrogant guy with that "chip attitude" who plays a jerk is definitely a turn off. Now, I'm not into guys who let people walk all over them, either. I'm all for confident men. Arrogance, though? No thanks. I also have no idea what ramey means. Ramey To impose ones will on another, aggressive behavior, pushy; right out of my Vancouver Island dictionary Derives from a big big horny sheep.....aahhaaaahaa , sorry i'm just funin ya Sis Think big horned Ram, with head down charging ..and no I dont want any people in my life like that, cheers Sis? Are you confused about who you're responding to? You're saying you don't like headstrong women, but you're advocating for men to act that way. Interesting.

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 04/22/13 08:48 PM
I'm thinking some guys just aren't entirely comfortable in the 21st century. And there are those who've barely made it into the 20th.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 08:55 PM
I'm thinking some women, Just don't like men that can and do have several options. When it comes to dating, and know how to get what they want.

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 04/22/13 09:01 PM
I'm thinking some women, Just don't like men that can and do have several options. When it comes to dating, and know how to get what they want. I'm thinking you don't have a clue what I was referring to.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 09:02 PM
possible, but unlikely

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 04/22/13 09:04 PM
possible, but unlikely More than possible; definite.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 09:05 PM
If you say so.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/22/13 09:27 PM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Mon 04/22/13 09:30 PM
You don't have to be a jerk all the time, just at the right time. well the women who tolerate that certainly are not me a jerk at any time means you get to sleep outdoors, lose my phone # and gather your belongings from the yard - heck I might even help you pack if I am not busy with my new, emotionally healthy boyfriend :) any man that premeditated is sicko el grosso

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/22/13 09:29 PM
I'm thinking some guys just aren't entirely comfortable in the 21st century. And there are those who've barely made it into the 20th. and there are those who have NO PHOTO who are quite brave from behind a computer a real man doesn't need swagger nonsense - only the insecure

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 09:31 PM
I'm thinking some guys just aren't entirely comfortable in the 21st century. And there are those who've barely made it into the 20th. and there are those who have NO PHOTO who are quite brave from behind a computer Like you, with a photo of a tree?

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Mon 04/22/13 09:32 PM
Oh now, let me see. Never hold a door open for them. Never apologize, even when it IS your fault. Fart/belch infront of her family members and then laugh. Get drunk and leave her offensive voice messages. Demand she does the housework. Tell her that certain tasks are for men only, and that she has no business trying to handle such masculine tasks. Tell her she only looks good when she wears make-up.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/22/13 09:33 PM
we should just be a jerk to all of them, that way we're not discriminating... i had a woman i know tell me i was acting like a jerk the other night... so then i told her that it was payment for her acting like a bytch a couple of nights before that... some people can dish it out, but not take it... needless to say, i wasn't very interested after her bytch night, but she couldn't understand why i was being a jerk... i treat all women the same, if they are nice and respectful to me, i'll do the same... if not, don't cry and whine about it later, it will fall on deaf ears... so instead of owning your own behavior you blame women for YOUR choices. No one else is responsible for your responses except you. how nice to know that you are so easily manipulated.....

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/22/13 09:33 PM
I'm thinking some guys just aren't entirely comfortable in the 21st century. And there are those who've barely made it into the 20th. and there are those who have NO PHOTO who are quite brave from behind a computer Like you, with a photo of a tree? ah young careless one. you must be new young dumm and too quick to come is it? lol

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 04/22/13 09:35 PM
Oh now, let me see. Never hold a door open for them. Never apologize, even when it IS your fault. Fart/belch infront of her family members and then laugh. Get drunk and leave her offensive voice messages. Demand she does the housework. Tell her that certain tasks are for men only, and that she has no business trying to handle such masculine tasks. Tell her she only looks good when she wears make-up. well are u as hot and bothered over this bunch as I am NOT

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 09:38 PM
I'm thinking some guys just aren't entirely comfortable in the 21st century. And there are those who've barely made it into the 20th. and there are those who have NO PHOTO who are quite brave from behind a computer Like you, with a photo of a tree? ah young careless one. you must be new young dumm and too quick to come is it? lol I don't know about all that. However I do know, If you're not showing your face. It could be several reasons like.. You don't like your appearance, or your married etc..

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Mon 04/22/13 09:46 PM
Oh now, let me see. Never hold a door open for them. Never apologize, even when it IS your fault. Fart/belch infront of her family members and then laugh. Get drunk and leave her offensive voice messages. Demand she does the housework. Tell her that certain tasks are for men only, and that she has no business trying to handle such masculine tasks. Tell her she only looks good when she wears make-up. well are u as hot and bothered over this bunch as I am NOT You know me well

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Mon 04/22/13 09:49 PM
Dear god, please grant me the serenity to accept that some men will never know the difference between being a jerk, and being a gentleman. :devilfork:

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 09:52 PM
Didn't you just type that? Not a man.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 09:53 PM
The whole never hold a door open paragraph?