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Topic: How to be the jerk women love.
Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Mon 04/22/13 05:50 PM
A normal conversation is usually funny, charming, or witty, at least if done right.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/22/13 05:51 PM
Yes singmesweet, You grabbed it. Its about teasing and having a good time. Not about cheesy pick up lines or boring people to death. Teasing a little is fine and can work. I would stay away from the phrase "busting your chops," though, as it sounds like you want to insult women.

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 04/22/13 05:53 PM
Maybe you do, Because iv'e had some people bore me to tears. Discussing normal boring conversation. They had no spark, No humor and no wit. Just like that would boreme. It will bore a woman as well. I don't like boring conversations either. But when I mentioned openers like the weather, that's just to get the other person talking. Once you do that, you get to ask questions to figure out what that person is interested in and then you know what to talk about that won't bore him or her.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/22/13 05:53 PM
Maybe you do, Because iv'e had some people bore me to tears. Discussing normal boring conversation. They had no spark, No humor and no wit. Just like that would boreme. It will bore a woman as well. What is normal conversation to you?

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 05:56 PM
Kind of like, When you work at an office. You have that boss who's most humorous interesting idea. To boost moral in the office. Is to tell everyone that on Friday it's Hawaiian shirt day. I often wonder if a guy like that even ever gets any lol

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 04/22/13 05:56 PM
A normal conversation is usually funny, charming, or witty, at least if done right. This. Teasing a little is fine and can work. I would stay away from the phrase "busting your chops," though, as it sounds like you want to insult women. And this!

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Mon 04/22/13 05:58 PM
Is to tell everyone that on Friday it's Hawaiian shirt day. People still do this? I thought that was something people made up to scare bad employees.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 06:00 PM
Is to tell everyone that on Friday it's Hawaiian shirt day. People still do this? I thought that was something people made up to scare bad employees. Not only do they do it. They get pist off if you don't wear the corny shirt.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/22/13 06:00 PM
Kind of like, When you work at an office. You have that boss who's most humorous interesting idea. To boost moral in the office. Is to tell everyone that on Friday it's Hawaiian shirt day. I often wonder if a guy like that even ever gets any lol So, normal conversation to you is idle office chatter about what to wear to work? No wonder you think actual conversation is boring.

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 04/22/13 06:01 PM
What is normal conversation to you? Kind of like, When you work at an office. You have that boss who's most humorous interesting idea. To boost moral in the office. Is to tell everyone that on Friday it's Hawaiian shirt day. I often wonder if a guy like that even ever gets any lol Ah. That isn't normal conversation to me. For me, normal conversation is talking about current events (whether local, national or global), politics, one's philosophy of life, books one has read, films one has seen, music one likes, etc. And yes, it includes joking around. If a guy has no sense of humor, or his isn't compatible with mine, we aren't going to be a good match.

ViaMusica Joined Sat 03/09/13 Posts: 3341	Mon 04/22/13 06:01 PM
Kind of like, When you work at an office. You have that boss who's most humorous interesting idea. To boost moral in the office. Is to tell everyone that on Friday it's Hawaiian shirt day. I often wonder if a guy like that even ever gets any lol So, normal conversation to you is idle office chatter about what to wear to work? No wonder you think actual conversation is boring.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 06:05 PM
No that's my idea of normal boring conversation. Normal conversation is talking about the weather. Exciting conversation is more like laughing, teasing and having a good time.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/22/13 06:09 PM
No that's my idea of normal boring conversation. Normal conversation is talking about the weather. Exciting conversation is more like laughing, teasing and having a good time. You keep inserting the word boring, which makes me think that you don't really like to have much of a conversation. No one else was saying they liked boring conversation. You are the one who kept bringing that up for some reason.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 06:12 PM
I used the word boring in reference, To the boring boss scenario. If you'd like to think to yourself. That I do not like conversations. Well that's your prerogative. Think what you like.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/22/13 06:18 PM
I used the word boring in reference, To the boring boss scenario. If you'd like to think to yourself. That I do not like conversations. Well that's your prerogative. Think what you like. All I can do is go by what you've said here, as I do not know you. Like I said, you're the one who kept inserting the word boring when people were talking about normal or even interesting conversation.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 06:23 PM
I explained it once already, I'm not going to repeat myself. Choose what you like stick with that.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/22/13 06:26 PM
Despite all the arguing here, it seems as we're all in agreement about funny, witty, interesting conversation being a good thing.

xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 06:29 PM
That is correct

pkirk1225 Joined Wed 09/07/11 Posts: 72	Mon 04/22/13 06:30 PM


xtreme305 Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 388	Mon 04/22/13 06:34 PM
Either way, Ive had most of you in this thread. For at least 2 hours, So there definetly had to be something interesting about this whole conversation.