Topic: How to be the jerk women love.
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Thu 04/25/13 02:28 AM
Typical doormat a.k.a. nice guy mentality. Let me go against the guys so I can get brownie points from the girls. Who cares whos right or wrong as long as I get patted on the back by a female. Any female! lol

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Thu 04/25/13 02:35 AM
Typical jerk...Criticizing and ridiculing.

How's that working out for you, chief?

See, that's what I don't understand...So he has a different opinion than your own, why go and throw personal attacks out there? Diversity piss you off that much? Or should we all just think like you do?

Just from a spectator point of view, but I can't imagine that endears you towards too many people.

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Thu 04/25/13 02:39 AM
Go back and read his post, He was attacking me. saying i'm calling people wrong because I want to throw blame on someone else. I clearly did not say anything of the sort. Its very possible to have a different opinion without attacking someone else. Now if you want to attack me. Should I not defend myself? Try reading things clearly before you pass judgement.

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Thu 04/25/13 02:40 AM
So what?

You're a big boy, walk it off.

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Thu 04/25/13 02:48 AM
I did do just that with your insulting post did I not? I didn't insult you back nor did I say anything offensive to you. You might want to learn how to be a bigger person too

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Thu 04/25/13 02:49 AM
Cool; if I wanted your advice...I'd ask for it.

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Thu 04/25/13 02:51 AM
Funny you should say that. I didn't want your opinion but I got it anyway didn't I?

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Thu 04/25/13 02:51 AM
Just comming of as real condescending , right from his first post, that you no it all and were
Lost kids. I think that first post was 90% accurate and 10%..bombed...la la land... never never. Land on
Woman issues.

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Thu 04/25/13 03:14 AM
Funnier that you think I care.

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Thu 04/25/13 03:18 AM
I really don't care if you care. Its a blog, Not a Dear john letter from your x. If you'd like to get all wound up out of shape over something. That didn't even concern you. Go ahead, Last I checked its still a free country.

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Thu 04/25/13 06:53 AM
You are very smart for a man. (I'm sorry if that sounds sexist, but you are almost smart enough to be a woman.) I am guessing you are a deep thinker. You could be a writer or an artist.


Thanks for the compliment, although I noticed it's a classic woman compliment—it starts with a compliment to me, but then it ends by implying that I could only be that smart if I were a woman.

Hilarious...

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Thu 04/25/13 06:54 AM
I'm sorry guys... I'm gonna hafta take your man cards away now

The only thing you're attracting with your rough & rugged ways

Are other "like minded" men indifferent

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Thu 04/25/13 07:52 AM
Alright .....

You kids fight nice or I swear to God....

I WILL TURN THIS CAR AROUND RIGHT NOW!!!!

Back on topic...

Loveable jerk.

This is easy.....be crude and shallow with a hint of sexism....but, MAKE THEM SMILE AND LAUGH.

Otherwise ...it is just being a dousche.

That is what guys don't understand .....being with someone is supposed to be fun.

I realize this advice won't help the ones with no sense of humor.

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Thu 04/25/13 08:36 AM

You are very smart for a man. (I'm sorry if that sounds sexist, but you are almost smart enough to be a woman.) I am guessing you are a deep thinker. You could be a writer or an artist.


Thanks for the compliment, although I noticed it's a classic woman compliment—it starts with a compliment to me, but then it ends by implying that I could only be that smart if I were a woman.

Hilarious...



Yes its called "a backwards compliment" which is a classic tactic taught to pick up artists.

And it was done on purpose simply because of the battle of the sexes that is going on in this thread. I suggested that the battle end and everyone just try to be human but I was totally ignored so I joined in with everyone else just to stay on topic.

I'm surprised you didn't notice. I guess you aren't as smart as I thought.

:tongue: waving

Okay I'm sorry and I'm out of here.

Be human.


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Thu 04/25/13 08:38 AM

Alright .....

You kids fight nice or I swear to God....

I WILL TURN THIS CAR AROUND RIGHT NOW!!!!

Back on topic...

Loveable jerk.

This is easy.....be crude and shallow with a hint of sexism....but, MAKE THEM SMILE AND LAUGH.

Otherwise ...it is just being a dousche.

That is what guys don't understand .....being with someone is supposed to be fun.

I realize this advice won't help the ones with no sense of humor.


drinker drinker

Yes, good tip. Unlike the bitter remarks I see in this thread.

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Thu 04/25/13 09:19 AM



Don't forget about accountability, Seems to be a challenge for some women.


What I've noticed in this thread is rather than trying to discuss things, you keep trying to put women down who disagree with you. Perhaps that kind of attitude works for some women, but probably not most. Good luck with it, though!

All i'm saying is if you say something own up to it. Don't try to blame someone else or change your story. But hey, If twisting it around to make you sleep better at night. Helps you then so be it.


No need to be condescending. All I can do is go by what you've written here. If you meant something else instead, perhaps you should be more clear.

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Thu 04/25/13 09:24 AM

Some women, Want to go on rants talking badly about men. They get angry when they get called out on their b.s. The logic behind this, Is the idea that women are always right. Which means even when they're wrong. They sport a "how dare you call me out" attitude. Well just because I called you out. Does not mean I dislike women or that I speak badly about them. It simply means You are wrong. Too many ladies are used to doormat men. That say nothing but "yes dear" regardless if they are wrong or not. Which does nothing but promote this immature lack of accountability. If you ladies would like to impress us men? Try saying something more like.. "Well yes I cannot say all men are like that" or "Yes I was wrong let me rephrase it"

Believe me I for one would be incredibly impressed!


I can only speak for myself and I'm certainly not always right. I don't have a problem admitting when I'm wrong. I've also not been talking about all men in this thread. I said that earlier, though. And it seems to me that what women here have been disagreeing with are the specific things that specific men are saying in this thread, not all men.

I also don't want a "doormat" kind of man. As I've already said, confidence is sexy. However, arrogance is a turn off. I've seen some arrogance in this thread, rather than confidence.

Can you admit when you're wrong? :wink:

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Thu 04/25/13 09:28 AM

Go back and read his post, He was attacking me. saying i'm calling people wrong because I want to throw blame on someone else. I clearly did not say anything of the sort. Its very possible to have a different opinion without attacking someone else. Now if you want to attack me. Should I not defend myself? Try reading things clearly before you pass judgement.


Except it does seem like you were trying to insult him in your previous post. I get it, you were offended and wanted to do the same. You seem to get condescending toward people who disagree with you.

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Thu 04/25/13 09:28 AM

Funny you should say that. I didn't want your opinion but I got it anyway didn't I?


Psssst, you're using a public forum. Anyone can give their opinion. They don't have to be asked for it.

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Thu 04/25/13 10:08 AM


Funny you should say that. I didn't want your opinion but I got it anyway didn't I?


Psssst, you're using a public forum. Anyone can give their opinion. They don't have to be asked for it.

Pssst don't tell me tell him. He's the one who said when he wanted my opinion he'd ask for it. Yes it is a public forum