They deserve the same respect as a single mom, since they both have to endure the hardships and triumphs being a single parent calls for. The reality is, it doesn't matter if you are a single mom or dad becuz it takes dedication, courage, and endurance being one. So kudos to all single parents everywhere!!

This is where I am a hypocrite. I would never date someone with kids. Not cause I don't like kids. (Well I like my own) Just I know the drama my ex and I went thru. And our partners got put in the middle. My kids were hurt and I didn't wanna date someone with kids and put them thru the same thing. My fianc� has no kids, my kids don't need another father, just a friend and role model. And he is now the best Grampy to our grandkids.

I just became a single father. I'm a great guy that bad things have happened to, but my 2 girls make all those bad things irrelevant. I never knew how much u could love someone until I had my daughters. And all I've ever wanted to be is a good father. And I think I've done pretty good so far cuz both my girls want to live with their daddy instead of their mother. And that's usually the other way around. I was married for 15 years and have recently ended it. And to have both my girls tell me that , was the greatest feeling of accomplishment I've ever had. So I am workin on finding a place and getting settled so that I can make it happen for them. In the mean time I spend as much time as I can with them. I see them every day because their mother can't stop them from seeing me cuz both of my baby's are strong willed and will do what it takes to get to their daddy.

I rate you x

I too am a single Dad, Widowed, it's not been easy. I can assure you my girls are everything to me. I would like to find a lady to date and spend adult time with. If it happens great, if not my life is still full of Love. This path was chosen for me, I am honored to walk it.

being a single mom i know how tough it can be.. i was ditched by 2 cowerds who couldnt be responsible 4 anyone but themselves... a single dad is something 2 be proud of and and i think its loyal and unselfish and attractive .. smile and be proud of ur situation.. ur kids will be proud of u 2 x

Single dads are amazing. I love to see a ma n indulged in spending quality time with his kids. Its very attractive to me

Hmm.. honestly for myself not a big adjustment... my ex traveled a lot for her job.... which left me at home to do everything... sometimes I felt like a single parent even know I was married.... it is no different than those women.. whose husbands are in the service... or work.. out of town... the hard part is when your spouse comes home... how to include them back into the everyday.. so for myself after the separation... apart from being in a different house... not much has changed... I mean apart from having to do everything now...lol..
.. I am primary... but I know it is not easy on my. Ex either.....
.. my heart goes out. to those weekend parents..... I cannot. and would not.... want to see my children only on every second weekend.... I want to see them everyday and kiss them goodnight every night.... I enjoy hearing about their day... I enjoy watching them grow.. learn new things.. discover their strengths.. discover how they fit into this world.... I'm not looking for replacement mother for them.. they have a mother.... I date women. women date me.. not my kids.... I am very upfront about this..... I do not bring women to my house... I do not talk to them when my children are present...
.. not even on the phone.... I will text.... or leave and go into a private room...... I just do not wish to confuse my children... they don't even know I date... well maybe my eldest .. thinks he knows....lol

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very well said!!!

Respect you for that....wish all men are like that though!

There are a lot more single dads now more than years past, it seemed there for a while sooo many dads just walked away from their kids...now it's the opposite...a lot of mothers are walking away...I think the men that have stepped up and are raising their children alone deserve a big round of applause...my only hope with any single parent household is that the parent puts the child above their own needs and wants, don't bring whoever your dating around the kids...it really does mess with them...and no matter how angry you may be with the other parent don't hate on eachother to the kids...the kids usually love both parents and don't need to hear your issues...but to all the single dads that really put their heart into being dads you totally rock...

a good person dat bad things happen 2.. i hear you loud and clear.. we seem 2 attract alot more bad than gud! i often wonder why but there is no logical explination.. only answer i can think of is that people who cant say NO, attract people who cant hear NO.. we are 2 good thats the problem!..

As a single mother....I admire and respect all single dads..it really makes them stand out in the crowd as being a very special man..thumbs up for all single dads.
Any man can be a father but it takes an awesome man to be a dad.!

A person must understand that children are part of the package but also must understand they are in no way, shape or form the said children's parents. If the boy/girl friend hooks up with someone with children they are the child/rens friend nothing else.
They also must understand that no matter what in some cases the other parent will be forever in your potential partners life
If the parents have separated and are on best buddy terms that's excellent so therefore there is no need for jealousy.
Single parents both single mums and single dads will always put their children first. If anyone runs a parent down (without due cause)they are not worth anyone's time.
If a potential partner can not accept your ex being in your life move along.
If anyone thinks dating single parents is a hassle does not understand life.

Totally agree and totally understand, and respect your way and feelings. I did the same thing when I was a single mother, after my divorce. And it's all easy when you're 'just' dating, having a bit of fun. It becomes an entirely different ballgame when you get involved with someone .. Would you still keep that person out of your family life? How would you go about it? How much of a say would your children have in her being in your life and so on and so forth. So as long as you're 'just' dating, it's relatively easy.
I've learned that if you want a new relationship to succeed with children involved, the parent has to 'pave' the way for the new partner. You got to allow that person in and you have to mediate. And that's no small task, cos at some point you'll get the "You're not my parent!!!" stuff come up .. Yet if you don't mediate and pave the way, the new partner can never ever build a relationship with her/his stepchildren, which is imperative for the new relationship to succeed.
Been there, done that, I paved the way for him with my kids, I mediated when necessary, didn't automatically choose my kids' side, because they are not always right. So you may get in troubled water because then you're kids feel you let them down. They will have to learn to deal with that stuff and accept there's someone new in mom/dad's life who also has a right to be there, because mom/dad loves that person .. as well.
My ex and my kids built up a rather good relationship, cos I allowed him to, and helped him with it.
My ex didn't pave the way, he obstructed it in every possibly way ... Made my life a living hell, cos both his kids were living with us too and f*** was it hard! In the very beginning I connected really well with his son, his reaction: jealousy! Total utter emotional and verbal explosion. Both his son and me were flabbergasted, totally uncomfortable, felt like we'd done something wrong while we were actually just connecting, and it was beautiful :/ That was the last time that ever happened!! ... Kid got too scared to ever go there again and I wasn't too comfy about it anymore either. He sabotaged it in every possible way.

So I have a lot of respect for single fathers who are doing a great job, like you are.
But I'd only ever go there again if my partner was going to be there next to me, supporting me and helping me to build a relationship with his kids.
In a way it would be easier now, as my own kids are older, kind of like "been there, done that" --> My ex's kids were older than mine, so I felt totally out of my depth, suddenly having to deal with an obnoxious 18 year old girl while my own girly was only 10. How the heck you deal with an 18 yr old? I didn't have a clue ..
I had my first in my early 20s, boy and a girl, so I kinda now what to expect, that would make it a tad easier.
But because I know what to expect, including how difficult it is in its entirety, I would be cautious, would totally depend on the attitude of my new man.

Because of all that, I don't seek out single dad's for dating either. Would be different if I'd fall in love with one, lol. Then you're simple just ... f*(ked lmao

WOW! You said it all!

a great guy is a great guy, with or without kids

at this state, my preference is LARGELY towards dads because I feel there wont be the competition for attention that may be present in someone who has always been able to be the center of their own world

another person who knows how and what its like to always make decisions around the well being of others,, is more likely to understand and fit into my and my childrens lives,,,,

Regardless of the reasons for any parent to be a single parent, the bottom line is always the same. It's bloody hard.
Sometimes, a situation is forced upon you and choices may be limited. It's those parents that push through and strive to improve their situation whilst looking after their children's needs as best as possible that get my respect.
The only issue is, those single parents are less likely to realise they can date and look for love due to their parental dedication.
So if you see a single parent that you like, make the first move. You may be surprised ;-)

For me its kind of a bonus if a man is a single dad as i am a single mum. Im not the loudest of people so when im on this app, i find it easier to talk yo men and i feel like i have more of a connection with young single dads as there is more to talk and relate to with them. Also,they are either more likely to be looking for a relationship or dating (not interested in guys looking for intimate encounters).

All I got to say is I am raising a 16 year old son on my own. It is difficult at times but also a lot of fun. I know for a fact women look at me differently when they find out I have a child at home. But you know what? Screw em...he is my priority and everything and everyone else comes second. Except of course my other kids and grandkids...I just gotta learn to use my left hand and give my right one a break...