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Topic: What do women think of single dads?
kimdaisy's photo
Wed 03/05/14 11:30 AM
Oopsie Daisy. Yes my comment was on the end of your responsible,he wears the gonch and the panties story..Don't be upset I'm a nice girl. Like I said there's not very many breeds of fish in the sea like you. Us ladies better put on good bait!!!! Lmao...

etuvieoke's photo
Thu 03/06/14 12:08 AM
Single dad are the best I love single dad becos am a single mom and they no are 2take care of hrt feeling more 27f4a839

etuvieoke's photo
Thu 03/06/14 12:09 AM
Single dad are the best I love single dad becos am a single mom and they no are 2take care of hrt feeling more

Dan1416's photo
Sat 03/08/14 06:46 PM
amen to that one

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 03/09/14 01:34 PM
I support single Dad's custodial or other wise if they are really doing the job as parents just like I do single moms.

In my years of dating I have seen a lot of Dad's; honestly I felt sorry for some (truthfully many) of the kids. They were dragging half a dozen women in and out as bed buddies and unskilled babysitters and the kids were more running the house and looking out for Dad sometimes than the other way around. I saw a lot of dad's that just completely treated their parents or siblings like on call slaves. Some actually threw a lot of money around on their toys while their kids ran around in rags and I got the distinct impression they were just looking for a new wife/nanny that they would step out the back door on once the new wore off. They thought my well behaved look alike sons would be cool to parade around and I sometimes got the feel that they would be more than glad to use them to spite their own older kids who had got tired of their stuff so I often just faded away real quick.

Now that I am moved into the pleasant years of being grandmother I am still indundated with guys 40-Something who seem panicked about being Daddy in charge. Seems wanting me to back track and walk them through the teens and twenty something years. Which I really don't understand because it would be so unfair to the kids as much as me. Sorry I have done it, got the t-shirt true, but I don't need another one and kind of mystified with so many age appropriate women able and willing I don't get running for cover with an older "girlfriend". I have backed away but I have to wonder if it is spending or other habits Single dad's are tired of supporting. Maybe they are just tired of the crazy drill and they think they have the option. Not with me I don't want to do the parent thing right up to the day I drop in my tracks.




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Sun 03/16/14 09:16 AM
everytime I see dads with his kid/s , it always make me smile. U don't, well I don't usually see dads walking alone with their kids. And I grew up raised just by my dad. So,for me, if I'll ever be in a relationship again, I'd definitely choose single dads. Because for me, there's a lot of chance that they'll be more sensitive with a single mums feelings

tckinney951's photo
Thu 03/27/14 07:37 AM
hell yeah bro we sound like we are in the same boat. my kids are lucky to get a phone call on Christmas or their birthdays . I am glad to see there are more single dads out there who aren't afraid to speak there mind . we should start up the coalition for single dads so single dads have somewhere to get info from everything is geared towards single moms. alright im out stand strong bro tim

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Fri 03/28/14 07:35 PM


I think single dad's are hardworking, they didn't put in much effort in their relationship with their ex wife, lonely, second hand, not as young, wiser, insensitive to emotions, immune to crap. But he's a good man if he takes care of his kids.



I'm sorry, but that seems not only contradictory, but extremely biased.

First of all, hats off to all single full-time fathers out there...some of us single moms know what you are going through.

I have always found single fathers more attractive than single men w/o children.

Single fathers have given up any freedom they had to care for and raise their child/ren. The ones I have been privileged to meet and get to know are extremely hard working, sensitive to their children's needs, and are actually willing to talk to someone to get to know them first rather than trying to get the perspective mate in the sack first.

So I say, WAY TO GO DADS:heart:



i think so too

numbers14's photo
Sat 03/29/14 01:06 PM

.. I don't know I have to pinch myself to make sure I'm real.. pinch. ouch that hurt.. yep I'm real.. time to go get the kids ready for school.. clean up the house quick.. pull something out for supper.. go to work.. come home.. make supper. well I tidy up the house again... serve supper.. talk to my boys.. post a little bit on here.. do dishes.. make lunches.. go online pay some bills.. then have a coffee. put my boys to bed.. tidy up the house once again. post this message.. think how nice it would be to have some help... and then listen to you women complain.. about how I don't exist... then think to myself. why I'm better off by myself... laugh to myself.. and then go post somewhere else..lol.. oh look it's time for me to go to bed.. so I can get up tomorrow and repeat.. and repeat. and repeat.. I love dishes.. vacuuming . dusting.. mopping. making beds.. oh yes and doing laundry


Didn't realise you were a single parent too!

It always pulls at my heart-strings when I see dads interacting well with their children

clairxd's photo
Thu 07/03/14 07:39 PM

All I have to say about single full-time fathers is..... WE ARE THE BEEZ KNEEZ! ya know?

Really though, I would do ANYTHING for my daughters. Their mother didn't even send them gifts for Xmas, or even bother coming to visit them. Dead beat daddies?? There are just as many dead beat mommies out there as well.

As far as what women think about single dads....... I have heard many many nice things being said, how lucky my girls are to have the best dad, how I am doing so good, and that one day I will find someone. Blah blah blah. To tell you the truth, now that my head is screwed on tightly, I could give a rats *** if I find someone. I get to spend each waking day with the 2 most beautiful girls I have ever laid my eyes upon.

If someone wants to be a part of OUR lives, that would be bless, but I am through looking. Let them look for me. I am the catch. ;)

God bless every single full-time parent.


Always nice to hear about dad's that put their kids first :smile:

no1phD's photo
Thu 07/03/14 08:03 PM
Edited by no1phD on Thu 07/03/14 08:36 PM
my ex and I are still close.. but my two sons stay with me!..
my ex's job entails a lot of traveling.
. and we both thought it best..
that it should be this way..
and there is nothing that I would not do for my 2 boys.. I would throw myself down upon my sword.. to keep them from harms way...
.. they are not even aware that I am dating... although my oldest does have.. his suspicions... I do not phone women when I'm at home with my boys.. I will text them.. I do not wish to confuse my sons.. their mother is their mother... but yes! there is no difference between us single dads and single moms... we have to make the bacon.. supply the bacon.. and cook the bacon... so to speak.lol.. I will admit it is hard.. working full time..
.and then there's the running of the house.... however i do think the differences between single moms and dads..Is us dads still have to do the maintenance work.. the fixing of the vehicle.. the repairs around the house. plumbing electrical.. traditionally we have always been the fixers.. so to speak.. now I'm not saying women don't know how to work a hammer.. it's just we do double duty.. housework and the repairs..
.. I think that's the only real difference that I can notice...
.. well there's this as well..
my wife was really good at arranging playdates.. doctors appointments.
after school activities...me not so much..lol.. but I know ,I spend a lot of time feeling very very tired...
. And sometimes very lonely..
well that was until I discovered...M2..
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Jesusprincessmt's photo
Thu 07/03/14 08:35 PM
A single father is forced to be a caretaker of their child(ren).

A single dad enjoys being the best they can for their child(ren).

an1993's photo
Fri 07/04/14 02:50 AM
a single dad is a hero to his children and a treasure for a woman. not only is he caring enough to raise his kids alone but hes loving and these qualities can not be owned by all men.hes simply one in a million

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sun 07/06/14 10:39 AM
I'm gonna speak from a place I know all too well, I adore single dads. They are hard workers and often have a lot of responsibility on their shoulders. They are rare where I come from, some families don't have this as it's so needed in a child's life and for that they are extremely fortunate.

What I find really troubling with the majority of single dads out there sometimes is the lack of a maternal role model. The single dad often plays in two parts as to act for the replacement of a mother being absent in the child's life, especially in cases of divorce. Some don't have this and they are fundamentally lucky to still have both. The single dad has a rough lifelong job of acting as both if the mother is not fit to be a proper caretaker. It's really heartbreaking to see a single dad go through this because their relationship tore this bond apart.

I think there is nothing more comforting than a man stepping up and taking charge in their child's life. Be it finances, feeding, washing, school, life advice, bonding, just about anything. Parents are there to be our saving grace when life becomes too problematic. Even when they are not his biological children, it means something to hear when a father is present and attentive in their child's life as they grow up. Not everyone has that luxury and fortunate situation.

A single father provides stability, protection, nurturing, patience, self-importance, guidance and most importantly, unconditional love. They are loyal and I can't explain what it feels like when I hear a story of a father never straying from his responsibility.

dreamerana's photo
Thu 07/10/14 12:07 AM
Sometimes I think that initially, single dads have it tougher than single moms.
Women are taught and/or grow up playing dolls and mommy and such. It's a little more natural to do many if the things required in the care and well being of a child.
Plus there is usually a network of other moms, single or not where they can turn to.
Guys don't often have this and it takes a bit to get the hang of it.

Single moms and single dads deserve respect.

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Tue 07/15/14 03:21 AM
Hats off to you single dads!
By being a single parent, you have shown your absolute unselfishness and any smart lady should consider herself lucky to be with one of you.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 07/16/14 04:33 PM

Hats off to you single dads!
By being a single parent, you have shown your absolute unselfishness and any smart lady should consider herself lucky to be with one of you.



:thumbsup:

Fallgirl81's photo
Mon 09/08/14 01:36 PM
I tip my hat to any father who takes on the responsibility of looking after his children full time :). It def is hard work!! But is the most rewarding!! And any woman who doesn't know that doesn't deserve a good man who puts the needs of his children before his own!!

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Mon 09/08/14 07:46 PM

Just wondering what women think of a single dad, I was reading a lot of these posts and theres a lot of questions about single moms, so just wondering.


I find them among the finest of men. There is a sense of responsibility in them you can't find in any other man... I almost feel that they are able to love much deeper, maybe because they have something so amazing to live for!

dreamerana's photo
Mon 09/08/14 07:59 PM
it's more than the fact that they are a dad or that they talk about their children or grandkids.
it's hearing the affection in their voice, and hearing beyond the words to understand the deep bond they have.
any man who can love like that, just think about how much love he can give.

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