Role play only works if everyone is actually playing....otherwise....it is just a horny dork creeping everyone out.
been there...done it.

I always liked cowgirl and indian

I like being submissive & dominant - depending on my mood.

He bangs his chest, women swoon. Lion King roars, movie title credits roll.

He puts his chest out, and she melts by the sight. Lion lifts a paw.

He takes her bra off, and licks her teats. Lion brings out the violin or mouth organ and serenades on the Serengeti.

He roars and rips of her silken panties. Lion smiles, and throws kisses to passing American tourists in hummers that constantly buzz in the dusty vapid air above the dry Savannah grassland.

He inserts his manli rod, and lion explains the advantages of KY jelly over Petroleum Jelly, with the proper use of a condom, to avoid feline FIV. (Same as aids in humans.) The demonstrates on a round-ended broomstick the technique of properly applying prophilectics; first with his paws, then using only his mouth.

At the moment of ecstasy the male human roars, the lion shows his children how to do the coitus interruptus, in case his den's religious persuasion is Roman Catholic. Protestant and Jewish lions usually count their money, fall asleep, and count their money again when they wake up.

What do you think? Is 'submission' an option you would consider?

Submissive and weak and compliant??? No way

Eat those cheese grits!!!! .... Now!!

Wux, do you always have to take the mickey out of everything? Your posts amuse you, but to others did you ever think some are just vulgar.

I certainly agree here. And yes especially this thought line.

Scoundrel you hit the nail on the head several times. It does seem smart to me to figure out who's strengths to follow in a relationship. Can be one of the best perks about having a mate; gives us balance and rounds out our skill sets.

I don't know if anyone addressed when in and impass how they decide who will submidt because sometimes it is required in relationships but I kind of think again it comes down to who is best qualified and trust and some compromise. Don't think I could ever just live on a steady diet of compromise but sometimes it does make a relationship which is over all good work better. I know it probably sounds out of character for me but there were numerous times where I trusted my best interests were being served letting my mate take the lead role even when it was a streach. And that sometimes I actually enjoyed letting go of the reins and doing that delicious drifting you can do when you really know and trust your partner.

All for free speech but with you on this one ladywing. Couple lines in I am like and . Thanks for saying so.

For me

the preference is the man to set the course and I will walk beside him


BUT ONLY, if he has set the right course,,,lol,,,,

What would you do, if he led you the wrong way? Would you still walk beside him?

I still want my whip

I don't like screwing calves. For me sex starts above the knee-line.

I don't know what to say to that.

I apologize for beign offensive. The trouble is twofold though, why this happens:

1. I am a mentally and emotionally sick man. Have been all my life. sometimes when my mood changes, I think I am funny, and I am not. I am repulsive. But I say my jokes anyway, because my sickness stops my ability to tell me what is funny, what is not.

2. My earlier post in this thread WAS disgusting. But there are lots of times when I say something funny, and it disgusts those who don't get the joke. In those instances, if they got the joke, they would be not disgusted. This is not ideal, either.

Unfortunately it is very hard for me to notice my severe change in mood. So if one of you, any one, would remind me, "andrew, you are sickening", then two things might happen: If I am still not too much around the bend, I shall take heed and thank the person and stop posting for a while. This is ideal. Especially if you consider the very likely alternative, which is, that when you remind me, "Andrew, you are sick", I am already TOO sick, so I come back with a rude and obnoxious attack on the person who reminds me in a well-meaning way.

This is the nature of mental disease. It takes the better of the person who suffers in it, and the diseased makes the life of those around him miserable, too. it can't be controlled. In the old days that's why they locked up mental cases, because they were too disruptive, and did not allow society to do its job, and did not allow healthy people do their job in society either. So they got locked up.


Now we have wonderful medication, but they don't do the job of making mentally sick people feel well very well. People are better, and their mental disease can be managed so they can move about in normal society, but by and large, they (we) are still disruptive, and obnoxious sometimes.

So this is what it is. I am sorry to wreck the fun of many. It is not fair to you all, to have one insane guy spoil everyone's fun.

But I can't help this very much. Sometimes my disease beats me.

So... instead of me agonizing over how I could improve my behaiviour, do you or anyone else have any positive, useful, constructive ideas what I shoul do? Please say so if you do.

Personally I like to play the Bard, Medieval Fairs. Should have titled this thread B&D. I don't mind B&D a little, but if the girl has to have it, NO! I have already walked out on one girl for that.

I could certainly go the rest of my life without B&D, other then in my Art. However if I truly found a girl that wanted such as just play, and not a way of life, I might try again. In real life I want a girl to be my partner, equal, but different, with each of us being each others compliment.

Wux; Ok fair enough.

Keep in mind you ask for this response.

If you have an mental illness that keeps you from having approriate impulse control you might want to chart your behavior in a journal.

Then If the reactions you are starting to get are cooling, being ignored, subtely hostile you might want to note and see if you are doing every thing you can to keep yourself in check early rather than later.

With practice you will learn to see patterns and maybe pick up signals that things are heading in the wrong direction. A lot of things can effect impulse control and if you know you are triggered by certain things (like lack of rest, poor diet, stress, suggestive conversation) you may want to avoid being on line when you are likely to put your foot in your mouth.

Medication is often helpful and keeping your doses fine tuned to what ever changes are going on in your life can be helpful. I am not huge on being so drugged down you are never going to say something you wish you hadn't just try to get whatever relief you can.

It is my personal opinion that People with Disabilities have a lot of Personal Responsibility to do what they can to be tolerable in Society. Nothing wrong for asking for help or and rightfully expecting a little Grace but if it is chronic then you have Responsibilities just like you have Rights.

And when you mess up an explanation that you are a Person with a Disability doesn't get you a pass without the typical consequences. Often saying sorry is not enough. Sorry wears real thin, real fast, if the offending behavior is repetative. Sometimes the responsible adult behavior is to make the person sacrifice of your freedom so that others get to enjoy theirs. that is a drag but if it makes you more welcome in society on your good days and keeps you from having to shut down or loose freinds you hopefully can have a better quality of life. Kind of better to be welcome sometime than never welcome.

If you feel you have trusted friends on Mingle you might want to ask them or even the moderators to give you a signal such as in a personal email or the words "Self Check" of "Time Out" to tell you hey you are going were you have said you don't want to go.
The bummer on this is you are on an adult site and you have to decide if you really are going to honor someone who tells you this or feel picked on. Since you seem to really enjoy being on line it might be worth it to you. It can be a lot to ask and some folks are just not going to bother.

Through Assisted Technology for people with Disabilities you may be able to get filter programs on your computer that override your ability to use certain phrases or words which could possibly help you.

Good Luck.

no, my kids go with me and I cant lead them wrong or walk beside someone who is,,,,,

Wux. Big hugs. I love you. I had an inkling something like that was going on. I am all for looking the other way.

Is there any other way?

I like to be dominant. I just gotta wear the uniforms.