Topic: Role playing
jacktrades's photo
Wed 09/26/12 12:15 PM
Ladies choice goes first always. Anyways a woman whos submissive is really being domienent because It what we desire is her pleasure

jacktrades's photo
Wed 09/26/12 12:15 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Wed 09/26/12 12:17 PM

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 09/26/12 12:20 PM
Jacktrades. Would you elaborate? I did not understand your post? :-)

Goofball73's photo
Wed 09/26/12 12:25 PM

This thread is eons old. But I am with Pacificstar. Being very independant does not kill that desire to be lead & just trust when trust has been established. I think a strong woman needs a strong, wise man, hence many women balk at the idea of being led.


Eons????? Really???? :tongue: laugh

blueeyes2000's photo
Wed 09/26/12 12:46 PM

For the men....Male leadership, what is it? For the Women...What do you think? Is 'submission' an option you would consider?


I've always wanted to do the Batman/Batgirl thing. I could be submissive with all that leather.

metalwing's photo
Wed 09/26/12 01:46 PM


For the men....Male leadership, what is it? For the Women...What do you think? Is 'submission' an option you would consider?


I've always wanted to do the Batman/Batgirl thing. I could be submissive with all that leather.


You just need the right bat!laugh

indianadave4's photo
Wed 09/26/12 04:32 PM


Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.


Feminists seem to dislike women being feminine: feminine does not mean being a carpet.

I do agree with the above response. A confident man can make a woman feel feminine. A feminine woman helps a man's confidence (in some areas). Both have a role to play in a man/woman relationship. If one is overbearing the relationship suffers.

navygirl's photo
Thu 09/27/12 08:15 AM



Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.


Feminists seem to dislike women being feminine: feminine does not mean being a carpet.

I do agree with the above response. A confident man can make a woman feel feminine. A feminine woman helps a man's confidence (in some areas). Both have a role to play in a man/woman relationship. If one is overbearing the relationship suffers.


I disagree that Feminists dislike being feminine. I am a Feminist but just because I am strong doesn't make me less feminine. You men still have a lot to learn about what Feminists are really about as you don't have a clue.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 09/27/12 03:02 PM


Eons????? Really???? :tongue: laugh


Why do I get the feeling your marriage vows to yourself are gonna be Star Wars related?

Hikerjohn's photo
Thu 09/27/12 03:16 PM




Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.


Feminists seem to dislike women being feminine: feminine does not mean being a carpet.

I do agree with the above response. A confident man can make a woman feel feminine. A feminine woman helps a man's confidence (in some areas). Both have a role to play in a man/woman relationship. If one is overbearing the relationship suffers.


I disagree that Feminists dislike being feminine. I am a Feminist but just because I am strong doesn't make me less feminine. You men still have a lot to learn about what Feminists are really about as you don't have a clue.


I say you and I just have a real long tug of war until we fall exhausted into each others arms, then we we can work hard on some equilibrium. I am willing to bet we can find it. happy

navygirl's photo
Fri 09/28/12 09:41 AM





Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.


Feminists seem to dislike women being feminine: feminine does not mean being a carpet.

I do agree with the above response. A confident man can make a woman feel feminine. A feminine woman helps a man's confidence (in some areas). Both have a role to play in a man/woman relationship. If one is overbearing the relationship suffers.


I disagree that Feminists dislike being feminine. I am a Feminist but just because I am strong doesn't make me less feminine. You men still have a lot to learn about what Feminists are really about as you don't have a clue.


I say you and I just have a real long tug of war until we fall exhausted into each others arms, then we we can work hard on some equilibrium. I am willing to bet we can find it. happy


I don't know if you want to fall into the arms of woman that is not considered feminine just because she believes in equal rights. I may have to turn in my dress and heels for a lumberjack shirt and jeans. Oh; I better cut my hair real short too as according to Dave, Feminists are not feminine. frustrated

oldsage's photo
Fri 09/28/12 10:12 AM






Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.


Feminists seem to dislike women being feminine: feminine does not mean being a carpet.

I do agree with the above response. A confident man can make a woman feel feminine. A feminine woman helps a man's confidence (in some areas). Both have a role to play in a man/woman relationship. If one is overbearing the relationship suffers.


I disagree that Feminists dislike being feminine. I am a Feminist but just because I am strong doesn't make me less feminine. You men still have a lot to learn about what Feminists are really about as you don't have a clue.


I say you and I just have a real long tug of war until we fall exhausted into each others arms, then we we can work hard on some equilibrium. I am willing to bet we can find it. happy


I don't know if you want to fall into the arms of woman that is not considered feminine just because she believes in equal rights. I may have to turn in my dress and heels for a lumberjack shirt and jeans. Oh; I better cut my hair real short too as according to Dave, Feminists are not feminine. frustrated


DON"T YOU DARE CHANGE A THING.tears offtopic :thumbsup: waving winking

no photo
Fri 09/28/12 10:17 AM



Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.


Feminists seem to dislike women being feminine: feminine does not mean being a carpet.

I do agree with the above response. A confident man can make a woman feel feminine. A feminine woman helps a man's confidence (in some areas). Both have a role to play in a man/woman relationship. If one is overbearing the relationship suffers.


What does this have to do with feminists? Do you think submission makes a woman feminine?

navygirl's photo
Fri 09/28/12 01:50 PM







Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.


Feminists seem to dislike women being feminine: feminine does not mean being a carpet.

I do agree with the above response. A confident man can make a woman feel feminine. A feminine woman helps a man's confidence (in some areas). Both have a role to play in a man/woman relationship. If one is overbearing the relationship suffers.


I disagree that Feminists dislike being feminine. I am a Feminist but just because I am strong doesn't make me less feminine. You men still have a lot to learn about what Feminists are really about as you don't have a clue.


I say you and I just have a real long tug of war until we fall exhausted into each others arms, then we we can work hard on some equilibrium. I am willing to bet we can find it. happy


I don't know if you want to fall into the arms of woman that is not considered feminine just because she believes in equal rights. I may have to turn in my dress and heels for a lumberjack shirt and jeans. Oh; I better cut my hair real short too as according to Dave, Feminists are not feminine. frustrated


DON"T YOU DARE CHANGE A THING.tears offtopic :thumbsup: waving winking


Aww; you are a sweetie. I just was angry that he thought Feminists were no longer feminine. Feminists are about equality and nothing else. Thank you. flowerforyou love

msharmony's photo
Fri 09/28/12 04:54 PM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 09/28/12 05:37 PM

For the men....Male leadership, what is it? For the Women...What do you think? Is 'submission' an option you would consider?




I would consider any option to please my partner as long as it didnt involve inanimate objects, animals, potentially harmful behavior (cutting, hitting, biting, injesting things not meant to be injested) additional persons or cameras


with a strong preference toward a dominant and confident male...

kirk443's photo
Fri 09/28/12 04:59 PM
be a nurse and strangle me :)

no photo
Fri 09/28/12 05:54 PM
Don't get it, If you are in a relationship and you have that trust.....why? There is really no need for fantasy if you have the real thing...then all of the play becomes natural. Please don't bite back....it's just my opinion....hehe.

Hikerjohn's photo
Fri 09/28/12 06:52 PM
Navy girl

That's my point. He was wrong. Being strong and independent doesn't mean you don't like being a woman while with a man. And sometimes a lady wants to take charge and be the aggressor in bed or on the kitchen counter top. And what man wants a dead fish that just lays there every night.


Not too sure we are still taking about what lady wind started with.

indianadave4's photo
Fri 09/28/12 07:20 PM




Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.


Feminists seem to dislike women being feminine: feminine does not mean being a carpet.

I do agree with the above response. A confident man can make a woman feel feminine. A feminine woman helps a man's confidence (in some areas). Both have a role to play in a man/woman relationship. If one is overbearing the relationship suffers.


I disagree that Feminists dislike being feminine. I am a Feminist but just because I am strong doesn't make me less feminine. You men still have a lot to learn about what Feminists are really about as you don't have a clue.


There seem to be numerous levels of "feminists". The extremely vocal and anti-male are the ones I am referring to. Unfortunately they, also, seem to dominate the news media so men assume they are one in the same.

My daughter chose to be a stay-at-home mother soon after she became pregnant. A couple of the women in the family immediately labelled me as coercing her into this philosophy. Unknown to them I had asked my daughter to attend college after high school but she chose to marry and have two kids and be a stay at home mother.

To this day they criticize her (and me) for not "joining in the struggle against male dominance in the work place". She replies "let me be what I've chosen to be".

To some "feminists" being feminine is looked down on. To me they are placing the same discriminatory attitude on other women that they accuse men of.

Hikerjohn's photo
Fri 09/28/12 10:55 PM







There seem to be numerous levels of "feminists". The extremely vocal and anti-male are the ones I am referring to. Unfortunately they, also, seem to dominate the news media so men assume they are one in the same.

My daughter chose to be a stay-at-home mother soon after she became pregnant. A couple of the women in the family immediately labelled me as coercing her into this philosophy. Unknown to them I had asked my daughter to attend college after high school but she chose to marry and have two kids and be a stay at home mother.

To this day they criticize her (and me) for not "joining in the struggle against male dominance in the work place". She replies "let me be what I've chosen to be".

To some "feminists" being feminine is looked down on. To me they are placing the same discriminatory attitude on other women that they accuse men of.


Thank you for clarifying where your coming from. And I hope your daughter has gained the wisdom to be who she wants to be and that those who put her down for it don't need to be part of her life.