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Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Tue 08/21/12 08:41 PM
I heard people discussing how many lovers is it ok for your partner to have had in the past. The people came up with a median number lol. What would your acceptable number be?

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Tue 08/21/12 08:45 PM
The past would be the past. Hell I'm too old to worry about that......

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45428	Tue 08/21/12 08:54 PM
However many it took for them to get good at it.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Tue 08/21/12 08:57 PM
The past would be the past. Hell I'm too old to worry about that...... They were dead serious and came up with 7 as acceptable. I found it amusing.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Tue 08/21/12 08:57 PM Edited by Ladywind7 on Tue 08/21/12 09:01 PM
Is it important? These people thought so

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Tue 08/21/12 08:59 PM Edited by Ladywind7 on Tue 08/21/12 09:04 PM
Is it more important for men than women?

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 08/21/12 09:02 PM
Mah Daddy told me it don't matter cuz you can't miss what you can't measure. Can't measure any poontang given away. If ya' care for the person, numbers don't count.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 08/21/12 09:33 PM
Is it important? These people thought so Who are these people? I don't personally care to really ask a man how many partners he has had. It could possibly gross me out. I have had boyfriends as well. Many of them long term and I don't think it's an issue unless they were a stripper or prostitute. Than the number could be 2 and it would still be a problem.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Tue 08/21/12 09:41 PM
I don't think it's an issue unless they were a stripper or prostitute. Well sometimes a brother just has to bust a nut. It is actually very important for prostate health........

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 08/21/12 09:43 PM
I heard people discussing how many lovers is it ok for your partner to have had in the past. The people came up with a median number lol. What would your acceptable number be? I don't have a number where I draw the line. I also never bother to ask someone how many people they've slept with, as it just doesn't matter.

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Tue 08/21/12 10:12 PM
However many it took for them to get good at it. I think the men would like there woman to have had as little partners as possible,and the women would like there man to have had as many as possible

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Tue 08/21/12 10:24 PM
Ya reckon Scotti?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 08/21/12 10:24 PM
However many it took for them to get good at it. I think the men would like there woman to have had as little partners as possible,and the women would like there man to have had as many as possible Having many partners doesn't guarantee anything. Having few partners also doesn't guarantee anything.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 08/21/12 10:27 PM
as long as she doesn't have hooker status,it's all good all though even if she does,i'm open minded

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Tue 08/21/12 10:29 PM Edited by Scotti71 on Tue 08/21/12 10:30 PM
Ya reckon Scotti? Na,not really,but I thought it was funny though.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Tue 08/21/12 10:30 PM
assuming you mean in an intimate relationship, what would concern me more is, how many she is still having. (or plans to have in the future)

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Tue 08/21/12 10:31 PM
However many it took for them to get good at it. I think the men would like there woman to have had as little partners as possible,and the women would like there man to have had as many as possible Having many partners doesn't guarantee anything. Having few partners also doesn't guarantee anything. It wasnt supposed to be taken seriously

Tribbles Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 7349	Tue 08/21/12 10:32 PM
You can't turn a ho into a housewife...

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Tue 08/21/12 10:35 PM
assuming you mean in an intimate relationship, what would concern me more is, how many she is still having. (or plans to have in the future) lol, that would be an issue.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 08/21/12 10:38 PM
However many it took for them to get good at it. I think the men would like there woman to have had as little partners as possible,and the women would like there man to have had as many as possible Having many partners doesn't guarantee anything. Having few partners also doesn't guarantee anything. It wasnt supposed to be taken seriously You're fairly new here, so it will take us a while to be able to tell when you're joking, since many of us don't know you :).