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If someone asked you to be a F.W.B, Would you? OR, Would that be a turn off to you? Seems like a common thing now. I'm curious to how people in general really think about this subject.
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I prefer FWB.
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If someone asked you to be a F.W.B, Would you? OR, Would that be a turn off to you? Seems like a common thing now. I'm curious to how people in general really think about this subject. Its a turn off to me. ITs a way of saying upfront they want the privileges (sex, companionship) With no responsibility (commitment, loyalt), and thats not how I roll. Its getting the milk for free, so to speak. Which is a turn off. |
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it would depend on the person....sometimes it works, other times it doesn't.
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Never.
Can't take in the whole concept. Turn OFF. |
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It doesn't work, so NO...
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the only benefit i want with my friends is the ability
to call them up at 3am and they will post bail. otherwise, no, not for me. lovers rock :) |
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Seems contradictory to me. Friends don't treat each other like that and remain friends for long.
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It is a big turn off!!! |
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If someone asked you to be a F.W.B, Would you? OR, Would that be a turn off to you? Seems like a common thing now. I'm curious to how people in general really think about this subject. No, that's certainly not what I want. I'm much more content with an asexual relationship. It just makes things so much easier. |
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If someone asked you to be a F.W.B, Would you? OR, Would that be a turn off to you? Seems like a common thing now. I'm curious to how people in general really think about this subject. It would be a turn off to me. I have more self-respect for myself. |
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Friends first, I respect myself to much for FWB, I am not a sex toy, I am a lady.
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I guess I'm not a lady....I have no plans to make a commitment. I've had FWB for several years now....nothing wrong with it..at our age, who cares anyway..We don't see each other often at all..his job has him traveling and I travel a lot too..But we have the same interests and are on the same page on most everything...I'm sure not ashamed of it..all my family have met him and everyone likes him.
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Boy, I'm a little surprised at the answers. The people who are turned off to the concept are really turned off. Not sure I understand. I would think this type of thing would work well for a lot of folks.
Second thought, really a question. Do you guys think Pepper (my doggie) is using me for a good time? |
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I guess I'm not a lady....I have no plans to make a commitment. I've had FWB for several years now....nothing wrong with it..at our age, who cares anyway..We don't see each other often at all..his job has him traveling and I travel a lot too..But we have the same interests and are on the same page on most everything...I'm sure not ashamed of it..all my family have met him and everyone likes him. I completely respect that. Good for you! It took me a long time to get over the notion that "good girls don't and bad girls do" even though I haven't been NEARLY as "bad" as I'd like to be! 
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Boy, I'm a little surprised at the answers. The people who are turned off to the concept are really turned off. Not sure I understand. I would think this type of thing would work well for a lot of folks. Second thought, really a question. Do you guys think Pepper (my doggie) is using me for a good time? Was Pepper raised by cats? |
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I guess I'm not a lady....I have no plans to make a commitment. I've had FWB for several years now....nothing wrong with it..at our age, who cares anyway..We don't see each other often at all..his job has him traveling and I travel a lot too..But we have the same interests and are on the same page on most everything...I'm sure not ashamed of it..all my family have met him and everyone likes him. I completely respect that. Good for you! It took me a long time to get over the notion that "good girls don't and bad girls do" even though I haven't been NEARLY as "bad" as I'd like to be!
ya know...I don't sleep around...but if I wanted to, I guess I still could..my life is my own. I don't have to answer to anyone anymore.. but I date very seldom. All my grandkids want to 'find' me someone and wonders why I don't want anyone for a long term basis. But I've been there, and now am pretty content with my life like it is. |
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I guess I'm not a lady....I have no plans to make a commitment. I've had FWB for several years now....nothing wrong with it..at our age, who cares anyway..We don't see each other often at all..his job has him traveling and I travel a lot too..But we have the same interests and are on the same page on most everything...I'm sure not ashamed of it..all my family have met him and everyone likes him. I completely respect that. Good for you! It took me a long time to get over the notion that "good girls don't and bad girls do" even though I haven't been NEARLY as "bad" as I'd like to be!
ya know...I don't sleep around...but if I wanted to, I guess I still could..my life is my own. I don't have to answer to anyone anymore.. but I date very seldom. All my grandkids want to 'find' me someone and wonders why I don't want anyone for a long term basis. But I've been there, and now am pretty content with my life like it is. awww viv you are a trollop just admit it 
Seriously ,what you do and with whom is your business,that does not make you any less of a lady then someone who does not like FWBs. It just boils down to what works for you and what doesn't. As for myself it doesn't work for me , but that doesn't make me better than you, just different. |
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I guess I'm not a lady....I have no plans to make a commitment. I've had FWB for several years now....nothing wrong with it..at our age, who cares anyway..We don't see each other often at all..his job has him traveling and I travel a lot too..But we have the same interests and are on the same page on most everything...I'm sure not ashamed of it..all my family have met him and everyone likes him. I completely respect that. Good for you! It took me a long time to get over the notion that "good girls don't and bad girls do" even though I haven't been NEARLY as "bad" as I'd like to be!
ya know...I don't sleep around...but if I wanted to, I guess I still could..my life is my own. I don't have to answer to anyone anymore.. but I date very seldom. All my grandkids want to 'find' me someone and wonders why I don't want anyone for a long term basis. But I've been there, and now am pretty content with my life like it is. awww viv you are a trollop just admit it
Seriously ,what you do and with whom is your business,that does not make you any less of a lady then someone who does not like FWBs. It just boils down to what works for you and what doesn't. As for myself it doesn't work for me , but that doesn't make me better than you, just different. Well now Betts, you know I've tried to get you to Texas so I could teach you how to be a trollop too!! 
How do you know it's not for you unless you try it???
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The problem is most adults can't do it.
If you hump em...love must surely be involved. I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves. |
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