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Topic: The things that make you.....you
Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Sun 04/22/12 04:53 PM
Really I think it comes down to how people find me. In a ditch?

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/22/12 05:09 PM
I am, however, smart enough not to tempt the wrath of a hottie girlfriend like you've got (as if she had a worry about me - OR you! NOT!) for what it's worth...I would bone you like a bone in ham....just saying.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sun 04/22/12 05:27 PM
I was raised with love and guided for independence. Mission accomplished.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/22/12 05:29 PM
well i was raised up with Love ,Respect and honesty to care for others when in need of help but also to be strong and smart and to have wisdom and strength from the heart and soul and to love God always and to have inner strength to learn new things about life and also to accept every race and to love all and to be humble but can be very powerful and strong when i need to be also i have outer strength and muscle too but my inner strength can be so strong too but in a good way of forgiveness ,helping,loving,wisdom,caring,honesty,Loyalty,smartness,thinking,Laughter,Respect,humbleness ,and protection,and don't put up with crap,but always remember no 1 is perfect so always think before you say or do something:) i helped so many in my life homeless and also people in need or just for talking too i also broke up a lot of fights too not just fists but verble:)people have a lot of respect for me as they know i am there for them in so many ways :) but was raised that way too :)life is way to short be happy and never give up! i sure try not too:) i saw so much and learned so much but theres so much more to learn ,i had a awesome dad who was loved and respected by so many till he passed away years ago and a awesome mom who survived cancer and still is living i was so lucky ,as i know some people have such a tough hard life but a lot of my friends i hung with were tough they saw all new my respect and toughness from inner to outer too that i accept people no matter rich or poor or homeless i treated them the same and stood up for them the same cause was also raised not to be a phony and cause everybody is a somebody in my books :) have a awesome night all cheers:)

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/22/12 05:40 PM
well i was raised up with Love ,Respect and honesty to care for others when in need of help but also to be strong and smart and to have wisdom and strength from the heart and soul and to love God always and to have inner strength to learn new things about life and also to accept every race and to love all and to be humble but can be very powerful and strong when i need to be also i have outer strength and muscle too but my inner strength can be so strong too but in a good way of forgiveness ,helping,loving,wisdom,caring,honesty,Loyalty,smartness,thinking,Laughter,Respect,humbleness ,and protection,and don't put up with crap,but always remember no 1 is perfect so always think before you say or do something:) i helped so many in my life homeless and also people in need or just for talking too i also broke up a lot of fights too not just fists but verble:)people have a lot of respect for me as they know i am there for them in so many ways :) but was raised that way too :)life is way to short be happy and never give up! i sure try not too:) i saw so much and learned so much but theres so much more to learn ,i had a awesome dad who was loved and respected by so many till he passed away years ago and a awesome mom who survived cancer and still is living i was so lucky ,as i know some people have such a tough hard life but a lot of my friends i hung with were tough they saw all new my respect and toughness from inner to outer too that i accept people no matter rich or poor or homeless i treated them the same and stood up for them the same cause was also raised not to be a phony and cause everybody is a somebody in my books :) have a awesome night all cheers:) ????? Your Canadian! Jesus don't like it when you lie.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/22/12 05:59 PM
well i was raised up with Love ,Respect and honesty to care for others when in need of help but also to be strong and smart and to have wisdom and strength from the heart and soul and to love God always and to have inner strength to learn new things about life and also to accept every race and to love all and to be humble but can be very powerful and strong when i need to be also i have outer strength and muscle too but my inner strength can be so strong too but in a good way of forgiveness ,helping,loving,wisdom,caring,honesty,Loyalty,smartness,thinking,Laughter,Respect,humbleness ,and protection,and don't put up with crap,but always remember no 1 is perfect so always think before you say or do something:) i helped so many in my life homeless and also people in need or just for talking too i also broke up a lot of fights too not just fists but verble:)people have a lot of respect for me as they know i am there for them in so many ways :) but was raised that way too :)life is way to short be happy and never give up! i sure try not too:) i saw so much and learned so much but theres so much more to learn ,i had a awesome dad who was loved and respected by so many till he passed away years ago and a awesome mom who survived cancer and still is living i was so lucky ,as i know some people have such a tough hard life but a lot of my friends i hung with were tough they saw all new my respect and toughness from inner to outer too that i accept people no matter rich or poor or homeless i treated them the same and stood up for them the same cause was also raised not to be a phony and cause everybody is a somebody in my books :) have a awesome night all cheers:) ????? Your Canadian! Jesus don't like it when you lie. Yes i an Canadian why you say that bro? lolllllll who care where a person is from ? i mean theres good and bad in all the world in every Country cheers

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 04/22/12 06:15 PM
Yeah but Canadians are... well, you know... Canadian.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/22/12 06:38 PM
I thought canadians were just evil....it's in the bible!

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Sun 04/22/12 06:49 PM
everything i was showed/told to do, i've done the opposite. i'm simply stupid/crazy/naive according to my family. meh. i don't wish to have their approval.

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sun 04/22/12 06:50 PM
i don't wish to have their approval. That is OK, you have our approval.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Sun 04/22/12 06:53 PM
That is OK, you have our approval. this isn't very comforting.

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sun 04/22/12 07:01 PM
That is OK, you have our approval. this isn't very comforting. What if we add peanut butter cookies with the approval?

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 04/22/12 07:06 PM
That is OK, you have our approval. this isn't very comforting. What if we add peanut butter cookies with the approval? With milk for dunking????

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sun 04/22/12 07:06 PM
With milk for dunking???? Yus!

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Sun 04/22/12 07:08 PM
you back away from my cookies, woman!

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/22/12 07:28 PM
I thought canadians were just evil....it's in the bible! Well bro see you learn new things everyday lolll they can be just as evil or just as nice as the next person as could any person in any country as for bible thing you don't read the bible lollllll i thought so not going there and what you mean evil Canadians in the bible? not sure what your reading lollllll you must be drinking tonight? cheers hahaha

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45397	Sun 04/22/12 09:49 PM
I firmly believe that we are what we were raised to be. (we learn by example...not ideology) I was raised to be stubborn, indepedant, concieted and self-confident. I was also raised to give gratitude and loyalty. I was raised to give love as good as I can give hate. I am good at both. What where you raised to be? All of us are gonna play it up to the best light but, please be honest. Are you a lover? A fighter? A push over? An @$$hole? There are no wrong answers here. Just be honest. You will be respected and loved anyway. By the age of 5 I had been lathered with so much confidence by my Mother, the center of the universe, that I was pretty certain there was nothing on earth I could not be the best at. Which is good because when divorce enters your life as a helpless child, all changes. Then, traveling between battling exes. I went to 5 high schools, every other year with a different parent. New experiences, the value of money, one parent was rich, one struggled in poverty. I am a lover, never a fighter. Definitely a push-over. Until. hahaha Krupa is right about examples. My favorite saying: "The best example is a bad one." I have earned that one.

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Sun 04/22/12 11:27 PM
I was raised to rely on my intelligence and figure things out on my own. The only praise I ever got was for schoolwork. Other than that I was just expected to be a "good girl." Mainly that seemed to mean doing whatever adults told me and not having a personality. Strangely enough, I rebelled, but all that got me was locked out of the house. Those of you who had loving, affectionate, supportive parents, I hope you realize how lucky you were.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 04/22/12 11:44 PM
I was raised to be honest. Other than that; I was told I would amount to nothing and that my only purpose in life was to marry and have kids. Thank goodness I found the military and they showed me I could do whatever I wanted. They gave me pride, confidence, knowledge, and independence.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 04/22/12 11:46 PM
a lady, a logical thinker, a peace keeper,,,,,,