Well, you did say that most relationships end due to cheating, so it does seem like you're saying at least most people will eventually cheat.

Just teasing Ruth about being confused like me.

Ok so both of you are on board with this...correct?

If so, I don't get it myself, but who am I to judge

Wait....what??

I'm now on board with something and I don't know what it is!!

dang it...stop confusing me lol. I was talking to the OP.

It depends on what you consider cheating. Is an emotional realtionship cheating event thought there no sexual contact?

IMO yes. If it is done behind your other half's back. If she is aware of it and ok with it, then I wouldn't consider it cheating....JMO

I know this question wasn't directed at me....but I wanted to answer any way. That's how I roll

Depends on what you mean by an emotional relationship.

I thought that was HIS quote! Omg....I need a beer.

So you have a congruent agreement? Those are interesting.

What if it was done behind a quarter back?

I did quote the OP didn't I???? Now I need a drink

Then you better have a good blocker

Let's try it this way....


lowdrag79, do you want an open relationship and your girlfriend/wife is not into the scene?

In this day and age of so many STDs, people are looking for one person at a time to be involved with, sexually, to cut down on risks of catching something soap won't wash away. In my opinion, most people consider RESPECT to be a big part of a relationship and if one is willing to go out and sleep with someone other than their partner, there is a lack of respect. No respect = no relationship... IMHO.

Congruent describes something that agrees with or is in harmony with another.
An example of congruent is two people sharing a similar opinion about something.

Okay, here's MY opinion. That's all it is.

Open realtionships are a recipe for disaster.

Emotional cheating is cheating. Innocent flirtations with others are not necessarily cheating, but they can lead to an emotional attachment to someone that could be cheating. Sometimes they are just a nice little boost for the ego and don't mean anything.

If you are not sexually satisfied by your partner and there is no fixing it, then you need to leave.

a relationship where you have the "need" to stay in contact with them.

Hopefully you have a blanket or are inside a huddle...otherwise you are giving everyone a free show!

where is the "like" button when you need it lol

I have known some people in an open relationship...and didn't turn out well

I just read your profile. You are a married guy looking for an intimate encounter. First of all, good for you for being honest with your prospective dates.

Now, does your wife know?

you ain't helping