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I think you are just trying to rationalize here do u just like to pick arguments? if u think the love for kids is the same as love beween intimate partners we got no more to talk about that's just some sick shyte yes i do like arguments and debates thank you |
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so no reply so you use personal attack? there is no personal attack there but your false accusation and attempt at diversion form the issue is all the proof I need that I am right men don;t like women who are right but hell I've always known that meh - doesn;t mean the sex isn't good 
you you should only 1 person at time?? you lost me .. and what does you being a woman have to do with anything?? |
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so no reply so you use personal attack?
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i knew a couple once, they were swingers. it eventually led to jealousy hurt anger. i think if you really love someone, it's not meant to be shared. JMHO zactly bastet it is a very special bond between 2 people that is unique to the 2 of them - it cannot be shared or duplicated with another and if u love each other it cannot be equalled by being with another it is unique AND qualitatively preferred that is why it is so hurtful when you desire another or are unfaithful if your partner is not qualitatively preferred then u are not in love (my opinion) if you can readily share your partner and be OK with that you are not in love Why does it have to just 2? for those who are " poly" or have multiple people in there relationships...ie some men with multi wifes , or a wife with multi hubby s ?? or even thoes who have multi wifes and hubbies in one relationship??? is it that we can only have 1 love at a time? reread the thread unique no two people are the same every one on one bond we have is unique as is the love relationship the love bond is qualitatively unique - if you love someone else as well as me (for exmple - I in no way mean this personally ) - then you do not have a unique and qualitatively strong bond -that cannot be duplicated - no one wants to share something that special with a 3rd prty poly - they are not in love- if u are OK wiht sharing me I am not OK with that it would mean that you do not place enough value on our bond and I have never seen it last mire than a few weeks anyway - SO does that apply when you have children, do you only have 1, or do have only 1 to love?? |
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blackmail the picture as I want it OR you lose coercive - if she wants a relationship with you she has to comply - that's emotional blackmail if she does not see it that way then perhaps you lucked out so me telling her everything and her telling me nothing and wanting more is not unfair? I am supposed to risk myself when she won't even show me a picture? How is it blackmail? you can't get what you want for nothing, you can't expect someone you want a relationship with someone they don't know. That like going up to a random door in a city you never been to and telling the person inside that you love them. You can't have feeling for someone you don't know. I an not a guy looking for sex or cyber where who you are does not matter. I am a guy who wants to open himself up and share his life good and bad. can't do that with a stranger and a stranger can't expect it. So what does a picture have to do with any thing?? she has issues due to her scares.. the question should be will you accept her with her issues? what is it she wants from you ?? and really i can walk down the street and ask any one to hold a sign so i can take a pic... |
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Edited by
lowdrag79
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i knew a couple once, they were swingers. it eventually led to jealousy hurt anger. i think if you really love someone, it's not meant to be shared. JMHO zactly bastet it is a very special bond between 2 people that is unique to the 2 of them - it cannot be shared or duplicated with another and if u love each other it cannot be equalled by being with another it is unique AND qualitatively preferred that is why it is so hurtful when you desire another or are unfaithful if your partner is not qualitatively preferred then u are not in love (my opinion) if you can readily share your partner and be OK with that you are not in love Why does it have to just 2? for those who are " poly" or have multiple people in there relationships...ie some men with multi wifes , or a wife with multi hubby s ?? or even thoes who have multi wifes and hubbies in one relationship??? is it that we can only have 1 love at a time? |
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Im truly happy and if your woundering we have discussed being exclusive in the future. Im taking this more as way to grow become whole.
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Edited by
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With that said i do feel we are stonger for it, as she said to me it's not that we have to come home its we want to. I would like thank all of you for your input. But it still doesn't answer why this topic is so taboo.
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I just read your profile. You are a married guy looking for an intimate encounter. First of all, good for you for being honest with your prospective dates. 
Now, does your wife know? Well yes she knows, talk about everything. Is she for or against the idea of an open relationship? If she is the one who ignores the subject, then she is probably against it. honestly she was the one who first suggested it, She felt there some needs of mine that were not meet.   Also im not saying life is perfect either we still have the same issues as other couples.
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I just read your profile. You are a married guy looking for an intimate encounter. First of all, good for you for being honest with your prospective dates.
Now, does your wife know? Well yes she knows, talk about everything. Then there's no reason to worry about what any of us think. My guess is that you do not find too many ladies willing to have a sexual or emotional relationship with you while you intend to stay with your wife. But, you are being honest with your wife, yourself and the other women. So, good luck to you and don't worry what others think.
thank you 
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I just read your profile. You are a married guy looking for an intimate encounter. First of all, good for you for being honest with your prospective dates.
Now, does your wife know? Well yes she knows, talk about everything. |
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Let's try it this way.... lowdrag79, do you want an open relationship and your girlfriend/wife is not into the scene? In this day and age of so many STDs, people are looking for one person at a time to be involved with, sexually, to cut down on risks of catching something soap won't wash away. In my opinion, most people consider RESPECT to be a big part of a relationship and if one is willing to go out and sleep with someone other than their partner, there is a lack of respect. No respect = no relationship... IMHO. To address the STD aspect it would be the same as being single and dateing, so would you tell a single person not to date? With the issue of respect i fully aggree with you. |
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It depends on what you consider cheating. Is an emotional realtionship cheating event thought there no sexual contact? Depends on what you mean by an emotional relationship. a relationship where you have the "need" to stay in contact with them. |
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It depends on what you consider cheating. Is an emotional realtionship cheating event thought there no sexual contact?
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wait....is the wife/girlfriend on board with this? I don't even know if there is a wife/girlfriend or we are just speaking hypothetically. I'm so confused.  |
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Fair enough a relationship is hard work no matter how many ppl are in it, but in most relationships it ends due to the fact that either someone cheated or someones needs are not meet. So why not take that out of the issues you have? So you're assuming that everyone is going to cheat? Not at all. I just beleve you should be true to who you are. There are some people who know that they cant be with one person for the rest of there life but they dont want to be without some one either. |
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Also why does it always have mean your having sex or thats the only need that is being fill with a second or third relationship? What need is it that you and your significant other need filled that is not being filled by each other? Humans have many needs and one person cannot fill them all. Men usually have a need for "guy time" and whatever recreation they enjoy and that may or may not include his wife. People have relationships at work that fill needs for professional recognition. Is that what you are talking about? Yes!!!!  and of course for every one it's different needs. differnt social groups,and different activites.
Maybe you should explain exactly what it is you need that you are not getting. Is this a hypothetical question or are you currently in a relationship where your needs are not being met? You brought up sex outside of your relationship first. That is very different than having friends and social activities that do not include your wife/girlfriend. True i did bring sex and other relationships, also jealousy is part of most relationships in some form. I also know that relationships are created when you have common interest. Also there are some out there who have sexual likes that are not meet. i read a post about friends with benefits, is that not a need to be filled? |
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Edited by
lowdrag79
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Also why does it always have mean your having sex or thats the only need that is being fill with a second or third relationship? because if you're truly in love then all other needs should be met. Sex is physical so it has no place in love, with love you share an emotional bond and if you're not getting that then you can't call it love. If you're needs are not being met continue looking, do not simply add more people. So sex isnt Emotional? So what is the big deal when your partner has sex with someone elese? |
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Also why does it always have mean your having sex or thats the only need that is being fill with a second or third relationship? What need is it that you and your significant other need filled that is not being filled by each other? Humans have many needs and one person cannot fill them all. Men usually have a need for "guy time" and whatever recreation they enjoy and that may or may not include his wife. People have relationships at work that fill needs for professional recognition. Is that what you are talking about? Yes!!!! and of course for every one it's different needs. differnt social groups,and different activites.
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Also why does it always have mean your having sex or thats the only need that is being fill with a second or third relationship?
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