yes i do like arguments and debates thank you

well really I do not and it is childish just to pick arguments for the sake of it

and it is rude to people who are sincerely trying to share their feelings

so knowing that this topic is not sincerely a topic but just a wind up thread - I'll just leave quietly and not come back

I am not sure why this even turned into an arguement. Its obvious that people here are not into swinging and that should be the end of it. He can try to justify it all he wants but no one really is going to care so Sweetest; I wouldn't let what he says bother you.

Wasn't Taboo the name of Tattoo's little brother on Fantasy Island?

it does not bother me. thank you but I do not like people who argue for the sake of it and wanted to express that

yes I agree with you as I said in my first post I think he's better off going to a site that caters to that unique niche

it is pretty much a silly fantasy

Yeah; then if its an arguement just to get a rise out of someone; they are certainly not worth the effort.

exactly

Hummm it is Taboo for me cause I missed the class on sharing~~~~~~~~~~~~I do not share well with others at all when it comes to the man in my life......... And if I catch him sharing I assure you I will help him pack and walk him out the door...........

It is seen as taboo, because most religions teach that it is wrong. This is your life, If you choose to live that way-- then live it.
There are also some people that are considered poly amorous.


(Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [love]) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. It is not to be confused with polysexuality, which is attraction towards multiple genders and/or sexes.

Polyamory, often abbreviated as poly, is often described as consensual, ethical, or responsible non-monogamy. The word is sometimes used in a broader sense to refer to sexual or romantic relationships that are not sexually exclusive, though there is disagreement on how broadly it applies; an emphasis on ethics, honesty, and transparency all around is widely regarded as the crucial defining characteristic.

The term "polyamorous" can refer to the nature of a relationship at some point in time or to a philosophy or relationship orientation (much like gender or sexual orientation). It is sometimes used as an umbrella term that covers various forms of multiple relationships; polyamorous arrangements are varied, reflecting the choices and philosophies of the individuals involved.)

So if you are into an open lifestyle and someone disapproves, then you have to find out if they can just accept its part of you. If not then move on.

Thank you, Troublebug. I was about to post this type of definition, too.

An Open Relationship can take many forms. Being in love with more than one person at a time is possible, and since love is a commodity in high demand, why would you not give it freely? (I'm talking love, not sex).