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i've read every post on here, and still don't know what this thread is about....
  
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i've read every post on here, and still don't know what this thread is about....
Do you change your personailty for the online community?? |
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I try to maintain myself within the rules of the site, but other than that its full tilt ahead, Dinah blow your horn..... 
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Well you can't curse and you can't tell anyone "bite me". So I would say I am toned down here. You're cursing is toned down but are your comments? I think that most people choose their words carefully on here but when you comment. Are you saying what you mean/mean? Yes everything I say is what I mean. I may not always say it just right but I don't change my personality online. 
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I talk waaaaay too much on real life
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Who I am is not set in stone, its adaptable and always growing its complex and cant all be expressed in any one moment so I am always myself, the myself of that moment,,, I understood what you wrote..I just don't think I fully understood what (all of) it meant - if that makes sense.. 
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Edited by
wux
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Thu 11/17/11 03:07 PM
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I am not restricting myself in terms of toning down. But I still don`t give myself. I don`t, and that is so because I don`t know myself. I can`t give what I don`t know for its substance and essence. Whatever I give is not me, not mine to give, in fact, my entire existence is a theived, stolen property. I did not steal it, but I know that all I know is that I don`t know myself.
So... toning is really down the very long list of important things to do about, with, by, and for myself. First things first: I must find out A.S.A.P. who I am, why I am here, and what planet I come from. |
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What you see is what you get i.e. WYSIWYG. I consider myself to be one…a what you see is what you get type of person. Obviously I’m not totally myself. I do hold back my STFU’s, WTF’s etc but my comments and online persona is petty much who I am in real life. I know it may seem a weird thread/question but I read something on here earlier that made me wonder..How much of who you are is toned down and user friendly? I am the same here as I am in person. There's no need to be different. Those I've met in person from here were also the same here and in person. |
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I try to maintain myself within the rules of the site, but other than that its full tilt ahead, Dinah blow your horn.....
You don't.....everybody else does...you're the exception
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What you see is what you get i.e. WYSIWYG. I consider myself to be one…a what you see is what you get type of person. Obviously I’m not totally myself. I do hold back my STFU’s, WTF’s etc but my comments and online persona is petty much who I am in real life. I know it may seem a weird thread/question but I read something on here earlier that made me wonder..How much of who you are is toned down and user friendly? I am the same what you see is what you get and I don't hold anything back but the nice thing is I have nothing to gain or lose. I should probably tone down but too damn set in my ways too. 
It’s not about having something to loose or gain, more how well someone can get to know you online (as it's you...I'll say as a friend  ) if what you write doesn’t reflect who you offline.
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i've read every post on here, and still don't know what this thread is about....
Do you change your personailty for the online community?? Thank you
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I try to maintain myself within the rules of the site, but other than that its full tilt ahead, Dinah blow your horn.....
You don't.....everybody else does...you're the exception
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i've read every post on here, and still don't know what this thread is about....
It may not be a coincidence that most of the posts have been from women… 
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i've read every post on here, and still don't know what this thread is about....
It may not be a coincidence that most of the posts have been from women…
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I rarely say what is on my mind. I try to be user friendly. Polite, and kind. Here for the long run. Ruthie, you can bite me :-) I tried to express that in a short story once. I presented that the hero, first person singular, had a dirty, despicable inner world, and his poetry was world famous for its beauty. When they asked him how he does it, he said, you know how they say that to write well you must make your mind into a landscape of beautiful and interesting things, and then just write down whatever comes to mind. Well, my hero, (I), said in the story, my mind is disgusting, despicable, ugly, replusive and vile. So whenever I write, I use my adopted method of writing down only those things that are not on my mind, and bang, the rest is history. |
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I am not restricting myself in terms of toning down. But I still don`t give myself. I don`t, and that is so because I don`t know myself. I can`t give what I don`t know for its substance and essence. Whatever I give is not me, not mine to give, in fact, my entire existence is a theived, stolen property. I did not steal it, but I know that all I know is that I don`t know myself. So... toning is really down the very long list of important things to do about, with, by, and for myself. First things first: I must find out A.S.A.P. who I am, why I am here, and what planet I come from. I would take me a while to think up some of your comments . It probably comes naturally - I'm gonna leave as it even though I realise that it (my comment) can be taken out of context
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i've read every post on here, and still don't know what this thread is about....
It may not be a coincidence that most of the posts have been from women…
I thought that was a given
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i've read every post on here, and still don't know what this thread is about....
It may not be a coincidence that most of the posts have been from women…
I thought that was a given
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Well you can't curse and you can't tell anyone "bite me". So I would say I am toned down here. You're cursing is toned down but are your comments? I think that most people choose their words carefully on here but when you comment. Are you saying what you mean/mean? Yes everything I say is what I mean. I may not always say it just right but I don't change my personality online.  I'm the same
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What you see is what you get i.e. WYSIWYG. I consider myself to be one…a what you see is what you get type of person. Obviously I’m not totally myself. I do hold back my STFU’s, WTF’s etc but my comments and online persona is petty much who I am in real life. I know it may seem a weird thread/question but I read something on here earlier that made me wonder..How much of who you are is toned down and user friendly? I am the same what you see is what you get and I don't hold anything back but the nice thing is I have nothing to gain or lose. I should probably tone down but too damn set in my ways too.
It’s not about having something to loose or gain, more how well someone can get to know you online (as it's you...I'll say as a friend ) if what you write doesn’t reflect who you offline.
I guess its my way of saying that I won't be anything different online than offline. Its because I am not looking for dating that I can be straight forward without worrying about scaring off men for example. This is what I meant about nothing to gain or lose but I suppose that would be the same for friendship. |
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