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Still on the defensive huh? Maybe men and women just have different definitions on what nagging is. You are kinda nagging now. Telling us you don't nag over and over until we give in...'ok sorry i was wrong, you don't nag, forgive me please baby' Is it nagging when the guys tell us over and over that we nag? Damn we got a smart one here! Who was it that allowed women to be educated?! |
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I love winding you lot up! Nothing could touch the cloud where Im floating...Im in the best mood ever...but nice of you to try. |
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It doesn’t sound like a gender related issue to me. The behavior of the women you described is typical of the behavior of every child (male and female) who have never been taught limits and how to compromise and therefore they continue behaving the same way based on what they experienced. It is very common for men, or anyone, to attract people they are familiar with from their past. It may very well be that you are searching out these women who seem to push your buttons or feel the need to nag until they get their way. Furthermore, your expectations and tolerance for problem solving sounds typical of someone who is struggling with control issues. The question is, does this life style work for you? I mean according to your profile, you’re looking for an intimate encounter, yet you wrote you’re not interested in meeting anyone and that you’re here for the forums to discuss, learn and grow. I’m trying to figure out the purpose of your post. Are you trying to understand women better or are you trying to let off steam? I am involved with an attractive young lady and we are very happy together. I'm not here to meet anyone. I'm here because I enjoy the forums and I also like to discuss subjects that people are often touchy about. Those that have been here for a few years may remember my milk thread. |
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Still on the defensive huh? Maybe men and women just have different definitions on what nagging is. You are kinda nagging now. Telling us you don't nag over and over until we give in...'ok sorry i was wrong, you don't nag, forgive me please baby' Is it nagging when the guys tell us over and over that we nag? Damn we got a smart one here! Who was it that allowed women to be educated?! Who gave birth to the men who thought they allowed women to be educated? |
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I love winding you lot up! Nothing could touch the cloud where Im floating...Im in the best mood ever...but nice of you to try. uuuughhhhh! ^^you made that 'sound'. That was enough for me! |
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It doesn’t sound like a gender related issue to me. The behavior of the women you described is typical of the behavior of every child (male and female) who have never been taught limits and how to compromise and therefore they continue behaving the same way based on what they experienced. It is very common for men, or anyone, to attract people they are familiar with from their past. It may very well be that you are searching out these women who seem to push your buttons or feel the need to nag until they get their way. Furthermore, your expectations and tolerance for problem solving sounds typical of someone who is struggling with control issues. The question is, does this life style work for you? I mean according to your profile, you’re looking for an intimate encounter, yet you wrote you’re not interested in meeting anyone and that you’re here for the forums to discuss, learn and grow. I’m trying to figure out the purpose of your post. Are you trying to understand women better or are you trying to let off steam? I am involved with an attractive young lady and we are very happy together. I'm not here to meet anyone. I'm here because I enjoy the forums and I also like to discuss subjects that people are often touchy about. Those that have been here for a few years may remember my milk thread. What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? |
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What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? He likes to get people all wound up. |
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It doesn’t sound like a gender related issue to me. The behavior of the women you described is typical of the behavior of every child (male and female) who have never been taught limits and how to compromise and therefore they continue behaving the same way based on what they experienced. It is very common for men, or anyone, to attract people they are familiar with from their past. It may very well be that you are searching out these women who seem to push your buttons or feel the need to nag until they get their way. Furthermore, your expectations and tolerance for problem solving sounds typical of someone who is struggling with control issues. The question is, does this life style work for you? I mean according to your profile, you’re looking for an intimate encounter, yet you wrote you’re not interested in meeting anyone and that you’re here for the forums to discuss, learn and grow. I’m trying to figure out the purpose of your post. Are you trying to understand women better or are you trying to let off steam? I am involved with an attractive young lady and we are very happy together. I'm not here to meet anyone. I'm here because I enjoy the forums and I also like to discuss subjects that people are often touchy about. Those that have been here for a few years may remember my milk thread. What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? This is just off topic. If you want to know this kind of information you should send a PM. Please stay on topic. |
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What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? He likes to get people all wound up. Agreed |
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It doesn’t sound like a gender related issue to me. The behavior of the women you described is typical of the behavior of every child (male and female) who have never been taught limits and how to compromise and therefore they continue behaving the same way based on what they experienced. It is very common for men, or anyone, to attract people they are familiar with from their past. It may very well be that you are searching out these women who seem to push your buttons or feel the need to nag until they get their way. Furthermore, your expectations and tolerance for problem solving sounds typical of someone who is struggling with control issues. The question is, does this life style work for you? I mean according to your profile, you’re looking for an intimate encounter, yet you wrote you’re not interested in meeting anyone and that you’re here for the forums to discuss, learn and grow. I’m trying to figure out the purpose of your post. Are you trying to understand women better or are you trying to let off steam? I am involved with an attractive young lady and we are very happy together. I'm not here to meet anyone. I'm here because I enjoy the forums and I also like to discuss subjects that people are often touchy about. Those that have been here for a few years may remember my milk thread. What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? This is just off topic. If you want to know this kind of information you should send a PM. Please stay on topic. You said that you like to discuss subjects that people are often touchy about. I'd say it's on topic to ask why the subject you made a thread about is interesting to you. |
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What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? He likes to get people all wound up. There are also more than a few that enjoy being wound up. I can think of one that has asked me to start a controversial thread or two. So many threads are dull. This one is about a real issue between men and women in their relationships. Everyone has an opinion and is welcome to join the discussion. |
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What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? He likes to get people all wound up. There are also more than a few that enjoy being wound up. I can think of one that has asked me to start a controversial thread or two. So many threads are dull. This one is about a real issue between men and women in their relationships. Everyone has an opinion and is welcome to join the discussion. I don't know, it seems pretty messed up to me, to come here to get people wound up, and quite disturbing that it gets some people off. |
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What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? He likes to get people all wound up. He has no idea what kind of crowd he's dealing with. |
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What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? He likes to get people all wound up. He has no idea what kind of crowd he's dealing with. Have you looked at my post count? I've been here for years. I know exactly what I'm dealing with. But again, we're off topic. Let's stick to the point shall we? |
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What makes this subject interesting to you? It sounds like it's no longer an issue in your life. Is it the touchiness you're interested in? He likes to get people all wound up. He has no idea what kind of crowd he's dealing with. Have you looked at my post count? I've been here for years. I know exactly what I'm dealing with. But again, we're off topic. Let's stick to the point shall we? Well, you know what they say. It's not the quantity but the quality that counts. I hope this discussion has provided you with useful info and growth. I'm out of here. |
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I was here before it was mingle or one plus you or whatever and came back recently....has nothing to do with seniority....most of your posting is to create conflict....and not too many people like it. Your topic sux!
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Ok, back on topic. If you're willing to end a relationship over something that you disagree on, such as having a pet, then there wasn't a whole lot to the relationship to deal with. Find some sort of compromise, if possible. While you don't like women nagging you for something they want, I'm sure they don't like you saying no without any discussion at all.
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I was here before it was mingle or one plus you or whatever and came back recently....has nothing to do with seniority....most of your posting is to create conflict....and not too many people like it. Your topic sux! If you want my topic to go away the best thing to do is ignore it. If no one posts it disappears. But, I'm not a troll or a flamer. I post questions I'm interested in discussing. Yes, they are often controversial. But, that's why they are interesting. Because people have strong opinions. We can discuss and debate and learn and grow. Nothing makes me happier than being proven wrong on a subject. For some reason though, what often happens is people don't want to talk about the topic and instead want to discuss why I'm asking the question. This answer is always the same; because the subject interests me. Some people get off on discussing politics. I get off on discussing the way humans interact with one another. I'm a student of human behavior. Especially where sex is involved. So much of it is counter intuitive and I'm fascinated by it. |
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One sure way to ensure an end to a relationship is to eliminate compromise. To insist that everything must be to your liking and all decisions be given your stamp of approval is archaic and destructive.
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One sure way to ensure an end to a relationship is to eliminate compromise. To insist that everything must be to your liking and all decisions be given your stamp of approval is archaic and destructive. Well said KC And thank you. (((Hugs))) |
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