I am wodering what you guys think about one night stands..

could two people wake up the following morning with a possibility of being serious after a hot night
OR is it generally, one fun thing ?

'appreciate your thoughts ')

Everything has to start somewhere.........

Was it a date?
This might show intention.

Or an incidental hookup?
Either way, a spark can light a fire.

I once had a one night stand I found it was to painful to stand all night so I sat down. On a serious note though I don't think having a one night stand is good for the soul. I think it's better to find someone who you can care for.

Maybe not for the soul but it sure is nice to bust a nut every now and again.........

Never know until you try it!

There. I said it!



But with a ONS I would not count on finding love. Sex yes but love? That is a whole different ball of wax.

one of the best adult halloween costumes i ever saw,
a woman with a table made of cardboard build around her waist,
complete with alarm clock and a lampshade on her head.
i bet she got some that night.

I did that once, I just don't have the emotional fortitude to boink indiscriminately.

I would never boink indiscriminately. I am no racist. I am an equal oppurtunity employer........

28 years ago I had what I thought was going to be a one night stand.
We ended up staying together for 8 years and had a son together.

I have no regrets.

My one night stand lasted longer than my only marriage. : )

I believe in them.

This ain't the days when everything you do is scrutinized and criticized. Lots of people have had one night stands. I vote for them.

People casually write them off as wrong....HAH!

Sexuality IS a part of any relationship. At least with the "Hi! Nice to meet you! Care to f**k?", relationships...you will know immedieately if you are sexually compatible.

It is no worse than spending months of getting to know someone, gaining trust..only to figure out after all that effort that the other person is no damned good in bed.

I say, get the physical part of love out in the open. It is something that WILL be part of your relationship for as long as you know that person.

Take the chance.....at the very least....you get laid.

(to the inevitable whining about STD's...nice guys got VD too)

Yes they can really damage your joints huh?

I can't tell you that my last one night stand lasted for 3 days lol and every so often we have a reunion because its an addiction that is hard to quit

If he's good looking,nice, got all his teeth still n great SEX...go for it....if u had to wake up n do the coyote ugly (he's really F***kin' UGLY)....RUN!!!!!!! DO NOT give him any 411 about u....and RUN as fast as u can (had that f***in' experience...I was wasted) and try not to remember the incident....

I Have Two Night Stands. . . . .

I have two night stands; one on each side of my bed.

More power to y'all; it's a personal thing. It's just not for me.

Yes indeed. Also a bedding box at the front.

W2F!

I had a friend wake up in a bed full of swingers one morning. Needless to say he quit drinking. He claims to not remembering what happened. I thought the funny part was his refusal to describe the group. This goes with a camping trip I was on YEARS ago. On the far end of the camp ground we were at in Frazier Park there was a party going on as was one going on on our end of the camp ground. There were about 20 of us. being drunk I wandered off to see what was going on at the other party. I had been drinking my share and I thought that affected my sight becasue what I walked upon in the other party made no sense. All I could see was a writhing pink mass of naked human flesh (Like something out of Dante's Inferno) punctuated by piercings and tattoos. When I made sense of what I was seeing a full blown orgy was going on. Not one single person in the group was anywhere near close to being Plain Jane. We are talking a lot of corpulent flesh and Aesthetically Challenged to the last one. I didn't vomit but man did that kill my buzz and I walked away while mother nature played out in a Calligulan Festival. I returned to our camp and people mistook my dazed expression for one of someone who was polluted drunk. I was dead sober before getting back to my camp. I was asked what I had seen so I said "An Orgy" which resulted in several of the others who were stag on our trip like me to head on over to see what was up (and get in on some action). Those who didn't leave asked me why I wasn't enjoying myself so I told them to wait for an answer on that becasue they would not believe me if I told them. It wasn't long before the group arrived and described what I had seen and were pissed as hell at me for not warning them. One guy was actually mad enough to want to pick a fight with me. I flatly told him to his face none of them would have believed me if I had warned him and on top of that I was still grappling with almost having my eyes melt down on me. That was one trip we talked about for a long time. Seeing those folks in day light compounded the mental devastation I suffered from that night. They were not bad people per say. Its just the whole sea of flesh thing was so...

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It was funny though how several guys had their hopes up and then had them dashed on the rocks. There is dark comedy in this. The kind of stuff a movie producer would do in a flick for shock value. Kind of like a warped version of Porkies!

You just gotta stop standing up for so long. You know?