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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up.
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. Yep and I feel the same way. 
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. May get a little lonely once in awhile. But, you look like a gal fully equipped to take care of yourself!! 
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Ever have a night where you just wish you had someone to hold under the stars? Someone just to make you feel like everything was OK, even just for a moment? Yeah, me neither. Just wondering... Nope; that is what my teddy bear is for. 
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. Yep and I feel the same way.
Yeah, its not something I planned. Just kind of happened. |
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Ever have a night where you just wish you had someone to hold under the stars? Someone just to make you feel like everything was OK, even just for a moment? Yeah, me neither. Just wondering... I read a story once, where a woman described the moment she fell in love. It was a first date. They were driving to their destination, along a dark hiway, tunes blaring. Suddenly the man pulled to the side of the road. He got out, went to her side of the car, and handed her out. He danced her under the stars, the music leading them. Silently, round and round. She was a goner :-) |
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. May get a little lonely once in awhile. But, you look like a gal fully equipped to take care of yourself!!
Its a big gun. 
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Forget turtles and whatnots. I want a gorilla.
Yabba dabba do. |
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. Yep. After a long life you realize that you have nobody else to lean on but yourself when you need a shoulder to cry on and ruby lips to kiss. |
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Edited by
wux
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Tue 05/17/11 11:40 AM
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The moon is quite spectacular here tonight! Wish I had that special someone here to enjoy it with. Our loneliness will make togetherness that much sweeter! I gots 2 pibbles (pit bulls) to cuddle though! I love animals, but we only have a turtle a snake and two bunnies. The turtle is cold and wet, the snake will coil around you quiet happily but he isnt that loving, he just pokes his tongue out all over you and tries to go down your shirt. The bunnies are cuddly How could you stop at having only 2 bunnies??? especially on a night with the first warm breeze of the summer, under the heavy scent of the eucaliptus trees and the star-studded firmament above? I mean, bunnies are people too. They auto-regenerate. 2. Forever. Never any more than 2? Amazing. |
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"Don't you have cats?" Yep Sure do!! 
Oh wait... no I don't. That will make me look clingy and insecure and then no woman will ever want me...     
OK. Then become a cat. There will be many-many benefits coming your way. |
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Ever have a night where you just wish you had someone to hold under the stars? Someone just to make you feel like everything was OK, even just for a moment? Yeah, me neither. Just wondering... Nope; that is what my teddy bear is for.
I can live without the teddy holding me. Sure beats the alternative of having some abusive man hurting me. |
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. Yep and I feel the same way.
Yeah, its not something I planned. Just kind of happened. I didn't plan it either. Just bad life experiences. |
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Ever have a night where you just wish you had someone to hold under the stars? Someone just to make you feel like everything was OK, even just for a moment? Yeah, me neither. Just wondering... I read a story once, where a woman described the moment she fell in love. It was a first date. They were driving to their destination, along a dark hiway, tunes blaring. Suddenly the man pulled to the side of the road. He got out, went to her side of the car, and handed her out. He danced her under the stars, the music leading them. Silently, round and round. She was a goner :-) i had a moment like that. it was christmas eve and snow all on the ground. a good friend of mine came in and said he had a present for me and to follow him outside. his car was running, parked in the middle of the snowy road but he went to the passenger door, reached in the car, music started playing and then said "may i have this dance". it was gladys knight and the pips 'you're the best thing that ever happened to me'. we danced right there, in the middle of the road, no coats, no cares i will never forget that. r.i.p. G |
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. Yep and I feel the same way.
Yeah, its not something I planned. Just kind of happened. I didn't plan it either. Just bad life experiences. I am quite happy being me all by myself, but will never believe I can't have what I've always wanted...just a matter of meeting the right person 
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i had a moment like that. it was christmas eve and snow all on the ground. a good friend of mine came in and said he had a present for me and to follow him outside. his car was running, parked in the middle of the snowy road but he went to the passenger door, reached in the car, music started playing and then said "may i have this dance". it was gladys knight and the pips 'you're the best thing that ever happened to me'. we danced right there, in the middle of the road, no coats, no cares i will never forget that. r.i.p. G Awwwwww, the quiet, deep moments that spice our lives :-) |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Tue 05/17/11 12:30 PM
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. Yep and I feel the same way.
Yeah, its not something I planned. Just kind of happened. I didn't plan it either. Just bad life experiences. I am quite happy being me all by myself, but will never believe I can't have what I've always wanted...just a matter of meeting the right person
I just find being in a relationship too phyiscally and mentally draining. Every guy I met has stressed me out to the point of being sick. I am also tired of the mental and physical abuse from guys because they can't cope with life. I have no desire to become a punching bag anymore. I just don't have the energy to give a relationship; to spend time with a person, to care about how their day went, to cuddle, to have discussions, or even have sex anymore. I am so tired; so damn tired of the whole situation. |
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Aww Totage; you have a heart of gold.
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For a year after my ex and I split I felt so alone and desperately wanted someone to lean on and someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok. I wanted that so much I was willing to date anyone that came along which only caused more problems. But as time went on I became stronger and learned to take care of myself. Now I'm at the point where I could not be with anyone because I'm just too used to bring alone. I like my independence and my freedom and I could not give that up. Yep and I feel the same way.
Yeah, its not something I planned. Just kind of happened. I didn't plan it either. Just bad life experiences. I am quite happy being me all by myself, but will never believe I can't have what I've always wanted...just a matter of meeting the right person
I just find being in a relationship too phyiscally and mentally draining. Every guy I met has stressed me out to the point of being sick. I am also tired of the mental and physical abuse from guys because they can't cope with life. I have no desire to become a punching bag anymore. I just don't have the energy to give a relationship; to spend time with a person, to care about how their day went, to cuddle, to have discussions, or even have sex anymore. I am so tired; so damn tired of the whole situation. Ditto. |
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