Topic: Needing someone to hold
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Mon 05/16/11 10:41 PM
I have my big giant cat Dusty Diamond. He loves to cuddle.smitten

josie68's photo
Tue 05/17/11 12:01 AM





The moon is quite spectacular here tonight! Wish I had that special someone here to enjoy it with. Our loneliness will make togetherness that much sweeter!

I gots 2 pibbles (pit bulls) to cuddle though!


I love animals, but we only have a turtle a snake and two bunnies.
The turtle is cold and wet, the snake will coil around you quiet happily but he isnt that loving, he just pokes his tongue out all over you and tries to go down your shirt.
The bunnies are cuddly




I had a turtle once with one eye we called cyclops! That was a great pet bigsmile She had a curiosity for toes and freaked a few people out with that laugh

not cuddly though flowerforyou You got a great guy and will be with him soon enough, well never soon ENOUGH tears




Two weeks 2 days and 23 hours,, not that I am counting or anything..

Hmmmm dont think I will let him go back to America though..noway


Didn't you say you were going to handcuff him when he got there??? :tongue:



Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh don't tell him, he might not let me put them on him:wink:

mylifetoday's photo
Tue 05/17/11 03:11 AM






The moon is quite spectacular here tonight! Wish I had that special someone here to enjoy it with. Our loneliness will make togetherness that much sweeter!

I gots 2 pibbles (pit bulls) to cuddle though!


I love animals, but we only have a turtle a snake and two bunnies.
The turtle is cold and wet, the snake will coil around you quiet happily but he isnt that loving, he just pokes his tongue out all over you and tries to go down your shirt.
The bunnies are cuddly




I had a turtle once with one eye we called cyclops! That was a great pet bigsmile She had a curiosity for toes and freaked a few people out with that laugh

not cuddly though flowerforyou You got a great guy and will be with him soon enough, well never soon ENOUGH tears




Two weeks 2 days and 23 hours,, not that I am counting or anything..

Hmmmm dont think I will let him go back to America though..noway


Didn't you say you were going to handcuff him when he got there??? :tongue:



Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh don't tell him, he might not let me put them on him:wink:


Ok, you're secrets safe with me. bigsmile

navygirl's photo
Tue 05/17/11 05:59 AM

Yep, every night, I hate being alone, Hmmmmm I have a big pink puppy that I cuddle but it's just not quiet the same as having someone hold me and love me..:smile:


Not me. I am a bed hog and love having my bed all to myself. bigsmile

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Tue 05/17/11 06:09 AM


Yep Sure do!! sad

Oh wait... no I don't. That will make me look clingy and insecure and then no woman will ever want me...

noway whoa sad2 frustrated rant


I second this!



we like u guys in those moments- private moments - there are times when clingy is OK....to let us know that u need us:wink:


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Tue 05/17/11 06:13 AM

I work entirely too much I'm told and don't have time for a woman..that comes from women themselves laugh So I guess I'll cradle a beer in my hand every night after work and pass out, go to work, and repeat!


I hear ya - you'd think they'd just be glad ur working - I've had men want to meet me at all kinda weird times and I work till like 8 or 9 at night and then usually hit the gym

almost afraid to get involved cuz I don't wanna hear itgrumble

so...lovelife??? what's that?

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Tue 05/17/11 06:18 AM


I work entirely too much I'm told and don't have time for a woman..that comes from women themselves laugh So I guess I'll cradle a beer in my hand every night after work and pass out, go to work, and repeat!


I hear ya - you'd think they'd just be glad ur working - I've had men want to meet me at all kinda weird times and I work till like 8 or 9 at night and then usually hit the gym

almost afraid to get involved cuz I don't wanna hear itgrumble

so...lovelife??? what's that?


While it's definitely good to have a job, I'm not sure I could date someone who is a workaholic. Or who has really odd work hours.. or an opposite schedule than me. For a while, it would probably be ok, but I doubt it would work long term if I didn't see them much.

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Tue 05/17/11 06:23 AM



I work entirely too much I'm told and don't have time for a woman..that comes from women themselves laugh So I guess I'll cradle a beer in my hand every night after work and pass out, go to work, and repeat!


I hear ya - you'd think they'd just be glad ur working - I've had men want to meet me at all kinda weird times and I work till like 8 or 9 at night and then usually hit the gym

almost afraid to get involved cuz I don't wanna hear itgrumble

so...lovelife??? what's that?


While it's definitely good to have a job, I'm not sure I could date someone who is a workaholic. Or who has really odd work hours.. or an opposite schedule than me. For a while, it would probably be ok, but I doubt it would work long term if I didn't see them much.


it's not easy - I did for 5 years and ultimately it was not the schedule variance that was the reason for our break up

but I think it is easier if there is at least enough overlapping time in the schedules to get some couple time in everyday. unfortunately for many of us the traditional 8-5 day is a luxury we can't find....and a lot of cute guys work 2nds anyway:tongue: laugh

good morning singmeflowerforyou nice new photo!

josie68's photo
Tue 05/17/11 06:26 AM


Yep, every night, I hate being alone, Hmmmmm I have a big pink puppy that I cuddle but it's just not quiet the same as having someone hold me and love me..:smile:


Not me. I am a bed hog and love having my bed all to myself. bigsmile


Nope I hate being alone, I have to be snuggled up safe to sleep properly..
Normally one of my kids jumps in with me, I hate beoing alone and I hate the dark.. Yuck

josie68's photo
Tue 05/17/11 06:30 AM





The moon is quite spectacular here tonight! Wish I had that special someone here to enjoy it with. Our loneliness will make togetherness that much sweeter!

I gots 2 pibbles (pit bulls) to cuddle though!


I love animals, but we only have a turtle a snake and two bunnies.
The turtle is cold and wet, the snake will coil around you quiet happily but he isnt that loving, he just pokes his tongue out all over you and tries to go down your shirt.
The bunnies are cuddly




I had a turtle once with one eye we called cyclops! That was a great pet bigsmile She had a curiosity for toes and freaked a few people out with that laugh

not cuddly though flowerforyou You got a great guy and will be with him soon enough, well never soon ENOUGH tears




Two weeks 2 days and 23 hours,, not that I am counting or anything..

Hmmmm dont think I will let him go back to America though..noway


Josie, who is this mystery man? Anyone we know?biggrin Glad to see you so happy!!!flowerforyou


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl Oh yep he is on here, he is Anacondaarms, :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: My Knight in shining armourlaugh

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Tue 05/17/11 06:43 AM

Ever have a night where you just wish you had someone to hold under the stars? Someone just to make you feel like everything was OK, even just for a moment?


Only for the last 2 years....

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Tue 05/17/11 06:46 AM
Yes,me too..I think we all can understand.:heart: drinker

mylifetoday's photo
Tue 05/17/11 06:47 AM

Ever have a night where you just wish you had someone to hold under the stars? Someone just to make you feel like everything was OK, even just for a moment?




Yeah, me neither. Just wondering...



Just realized there is something worse...

When you have someone that doesn't want to be held...

I would rather long for something I am missing.

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Tue 05/17/11 06:54 AM


Ever have a night where you just wish you had someone to hold under the stars? Someone just to make you feel like everything was OK, even just for a moment?




Yeah, me neither. Just wondering...



Just realized there is something worse...

When you have someone that doesn't want to be held...

I would rather long for something I am missing.


I guess I just don't miss.......but my heart can still be broken.

I've never had someone who did not want to be held. I mean some men aren't real cuddly all the time...but often they r

navygirl's photo
Tue 05/17/11 08:11 AM



Yep, every night, I hate being alone, Hmmmmm I have a big pink puppy that I cuddle but it's just not quiet the same as having someone hold me and love me..:smile:


Not me. I am a bed hog and love having my bed all to myself. bigsmile


Nope I hate being alone, I have to be snuggled up safe to sleep properly..
Normally one of my kids jumps in with me, I hate beoing alone and I hate the dark.. Yuck


Ahh now it makes sense being afraid of the dark. Me I love the dark which is why I went to the dark side. (a little star wars reference) laugh

navygirl's photo
Tue 05/17/11 08:12 AM


Ever have a night where you just wish you had someone to hold under the stars? Someone just to make you feel like everything was OK, even just for a moment?




Yeah, me neither. Just wondering...




When you have someone that doesn't want to be held...



Guilty as charged!!!!pitchfork

TattooedDude81's photo
Tue 05/17/11 09:13 AM




I work entirely too much I'm told and don't have time for a woman..that comes from women themselves laugh So I guess I'll cradle a beer in my hand every night after work and pass out, go to work, and repeat!


I hear ya - you'd think they'd just be glad ur working - I've had men want to meet me at all kinda weird times and I work till like 8 or 9 at night and then usually hit the gym

almost afraid to get involved cuz I don't wanna hear itgrumble

so...lovelife??? what's that?


While it's definitely good to have a job, I'm not sure I could date someone who is a workaholic. Or who has really odd work hours.. or an opposite schedule than me. For a while, it would probably be ok, but I doubt it would work long term if I didn't see them much.


it's not easy - I did for 5 years and ultimately it was not the schedule variance that was the reason for our break up

but I think it is easier if there is at least enough overlapping time in the schedules to get some couple time in everyday. unfortunately for many of us the traditional 8-5 day is a luxury we can't find....and a lot of cute guys work 2nds anyway:tongue: laugh

good morning singmeflowerforyou nice new photo!


How'd you know I worked 2nd shift?! laugh (I really do)

josie68's photo
Tue 05/17/11 09:20 AM




Yep, every night, I hate being alone, Hmmmmm I have a big pink puppy that I cuddle but it's just not quiet the same as having someone hold me and love me..:smile:


Not me. I am a bed hog and love having my bed all to myself. bigsmile


Nope I hate being alone, I have to be snuggled up safe to sleep properly..
Normally one of my kids jumps in with me, I hate beoing alone and I hate the dark.. Yuck


Ahh now it makes sense being afraid of the dark. Me I love the dark which is why I went to the dark side. (a little star wars reference) laugh


LOL I love the dark in the bush as nothing can get me, but in town it's just plain scary, to many wierd noises and stuff out there that I dont know what it is..I need someone snoring beside me so I can't hear the noiseslaugh

TattooedDude81's photo
Tue 05/17/11 09:23 AM





Yep, every night, I hate being alone, Hmmmmm I have a big pink puppy that I cuddle but it's just not quiet the same as having someone hold me and love me..:smile:


Not me. I am a bed hog and love having my bed all to myself. bigsmile


Nope I hate being alone, I have to be snuggled up safe to sleep properly..
Normally one of my kids jumps in with me, I hate beoing alone and I hate the dark.. Yuck


Ahh now it makes sense being afraid of the dark. Me I love the dark which is why I went to the dark side. (a little star wars reference) laugh


LOL I love the dark in the bush as nothing can get me, but in town it's just plain scary, to many wierd noises and stuff out there that I dont know what it is..I need someone snoring beside me so I can't hear the noiseslaugh


Hahah, you'd hate trying to sleep here then! Also noisey in Chicagoland at any time of day/night.

Tessa02's photo
Tue 05/17/11 10:08 AM






The moon is quite spectacular here tonight! Wish I had that special someone here to enjoy it with. Our loneliness will make togetherness that much sweeter!

I gots 2 pibbles (pit bulls) to cuddle though!


I love animals, but we only have a turtle a snake and two bunnies.
The turtle is cold and wet, the snake will coil around you quiet happily but he isnt that loving, he just pokes his tongue out all over you and tries to go down your shirt.
The bunnies are cuddly




I had a turtle once with one eye we called cyclops! That was a great pet bigsmile She had a curiosity for toes and freaked a few people out with that laugh

not cuddly though flowerforyou You got a great guy and will be with him soon enough, well never soon ENOUGH tears




Two weeks 2 days and 23 hours,, not that I am counting or anything..

Hmmmm dont think I will let him go back to America though..noway


Josie, who is this mystery man? Anyone we know?biggrin Glad to see you so happy!!!flowerforyou


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl Oh yep he is on here, he is Anacondaarms, :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: My Knight in shining armourlaugh


Glad you've met someone who makes you happy!!flowerforyou