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Topic: If a stranger found you attractive...
Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 03/26/11 06:44 PM
This is the reverse of your recent previous post, I am wondering if you read those responses? There was a lot of response to the other post on this topic. Just saying..... Stay with your posts a bit and you might get the hints you need. I was just curious about the responses is all.

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Sat 03/26/11 06:54 PM
Make me laugh

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 03/26/11 06:58 PM
i wanna a cabana boy! OK,,,,IF thas what ya want,, there!and HE dances well...lol

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Sat 03/26/11 08:11 PM
Come up to me and say...."hey baby...wanna wrestle?" I'll melt in your arms. LOL!!

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Sat 03/26/11 08:20 PM
They could say Hi and then we can get some coffee and chill :-)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/26/11 08:29 PM
Come up to me and say...."hey baby...wanna wrestle?" I'll melt in your arms. LOL!! hey baby wanna wrestle careful I'm kickass

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 03/26/11 08:48 PM
If he just came up and started talking to me, that would be a good start.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 03/26/11 08:55 PM
Asking an opened question, eye contact and a smile. See my looooooong post in this thread: http://mingle2.com/topic/show/299388

nessa5207 Joined Sat 03/26/11 Posts: 12	Sat 03/26/11 08:56 PM
it just depends, if either person is single or not, but in my case id want to be treated with respect and spoken to politely.

FETTS61 Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 31425	Sat 03/26/11 09:00 PM
just come and say hi, tell me their name and say whatevers on their mind

SPovek Joined Fri 03/18/11 Posts: 128	Sat 03/26/11 09:06 PM
I'd hope he would start with the estimated yearly weight accumulated by our solar system each year. That way it's not a corny pick up line lol

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sat 03/26/11 09:37 PM
If she cam up and asked me if I was looking for a date and had no badge or wasn't a hooker, that would be great!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 03/26/11 09:38 PM
How would you want to be approached by them? How did this stranger find me attractive?...was it on here? or in person? My answer would depend on which it was...

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 03/26/11 09:39 PM
in person

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 03/26/11 09:43 PM
I would prefer he just out and told me so....and why. I don't respond well to the 'you're hot, I'm attracted to you' thing... I respond much more openly to someone who is attracted to the way I think, the way I perceive my world, how I get about in my life, and wants to know more.... Visual attraction is fleeting, character/personality/person attraction is sustainable.

actionlynx Joined Wed 08/18/10 Posts: 5448	Sun 03/27/11 12:46 AM Edited by actionlynx on Sun 03/27/11 12:47 AM
I would prefer he just out and told me so....and why. I don't respond well to the 'you're hot, I'm attracted to you' thing... I respond much more openly to someone who is attracted to the way I think, the way I perceive my world, how I get about in my life, and wants to know more.... Visual attraction is fleeting, character/personality/person attraction is sustainable. Bingo! This is what I was getting at. I do need physical attraction, but looks aren't everything. Personally, I think the woman above is attractive, I like her philosophy, but we would drive each other nuts. Even so, I love her because I know damn well that she would probably be one of truest friends I could ever have in real life.

Troublebug Joined Sat 09/11/10 Posts: 10911	Sun 03/27/11 06:11 AM
With honesty and sincerity!! He could just walk up and say "Hi", "I love your tattoo" "I just wanted to tell you Hello"(if I have my son " Wow does he ever tire out?" Anything to start a conversation. I'm 1/2 Irish and kinda a chatter box myself, never met a stranger.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 03/27/11 09:57 AM
How would you want to be approached by them? when all is said and done - I don't care, really- mentioned some suggestions before but the bare bones truth is I Don't Care .... I'm old school so I generally prefer to be approached and a man to take initiative- I don't care what he does- it's his prob, to figure it out amen totage why r u pink?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 03/27/11 10:00 AM
I'd hope he would start with the estimated yearly weight accumulated by our solar system each year. That way it's not a corny pick up line lol [/quote well it beats economic statistics <failed me in the past as a topic starter I think I'm the only person on the planet who really cares about how & what the Dept of Labor doesfrustrated:

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 03/27/11 10:27 AM
How would you want to be approached by them? when all is said and done - I don't care, really- mentioned some suggestions before but the bare bones truth is I Don't Care .... I'm old school so I generally prefer to be approached and a man to take initiative- I don't care what he does- it's his prob, to figure it out amen totage why r u pink? Ha! Must be the lighting or my cam. I don't see the pink in my pic.