I think that love doesn't really exsist no more and its all bout sex! That's the way I have been feeling for over a year now! And I just want to know how will I be able to settle down when all I care for is sex! how will I get love back into my life?

Find someone that shares your views on love vs sex and love will develop from your mutual enjoyment until one of you waves the "I'm bored with you" flag.
Compatibility is the basis of a loving relationship

Well i have made a fair few mistakes in this thinking that I loved someone, only to find that i just loved the idea of being in love,

dont keep looking for it, just wait for it.

it is still there,

it's knowing that you have no doubts about your man,
its, feeling safe and protected in his presence,
It's knowing that you can spend the rest of your life with him and still want to spend longer.
It's not seeing anything that you would like to change.
it's being so thankful that he loves you,
it's knowing that you are his life,
Its being held and not thinking about anyone else
You will know when you love someone as he will fill every spot that has felt empty, he will laugh at your mistakes, He will hold you when you need him, and he will make mistakes, but still be there.
You will know that he is what you have been waiting for and you will hand your heart to him, and know that he will treasure it.
He will love you with his body mind and soul, And you wont wonder if he really loves you as it will show in everything you both do and say and feel for each other.
You will both make mistakes but you will work through them together. Always as one.

Love is worth waiting for and the only way to get it is to just wait and be patient. Wish there was an easier way

Love does exist...and is always there. It is said that mankind is created out of the love of its Creator. We, as the unique creations on earth is abound by this wondrous feeling. The greatest sexual pleasure can be achieved when it is coupled by love. Only... loving can be a very painful process to those who do not learn to love selflessly Those who do not give up easily reap happiness...real happiness in life

Go on and do not despair for the right one comes at the right time.

Truly, Love as it's called does not exist.

It all starts with pheromones these are a smell (I think) And when the male smells it the female looks more attractive.

Then comes the replication value. If the other human looks healthy they are more attractive. And there for able to create more healthy offspring.

Now when we look at another human being we don't think of this. We are driven at that time by instinct. And the drive to re produce.

This part is true. The love for your fellow man. The love for your friends. Jesus said that there is no greater love than a man lay down his life for his friends.

But the kind of love that results in sex takes place in the brain that's why its more than just "friend love"

love exists only in the heart.....or some baloney like that

exactly

it will be there if u want it to be

it;s all around if u open your eyes and mind and heart to see

it exists as much as any other emotion does

I'm starting to believe neither love or sex exist anymore!!

It does.

For a little while though.

Wrap your head around this one Honey.....

Love exists....but it is earned.

It isn't free and it isnt a right. It is something you gotta work hard for. It MUST be earned. It must be recognized and enjoyed every damned minute you are lucky enough to be in love.

People forget this basic concept and cling to the retarded notion that love should just blindly find them and they just sit back and let it all happen......then they wonder why they are lonely.

LOVE IS HARD WORK.......

and there are a lot of lazy people out there.

<----still wants a "free" BJ

LOVE,,,,,is a four letter word,,,that ONLY lives in the mind,,whos heart is attached to it....

Yes, His name is Jesus!

I think it exists as a hypothetical concept, like "equality" or "freedom"....and is therefore ultimately unattainable in any real sense of the word.

Delusions exist.

Well, until you start to "want" love again, all you are gonna get is sex. So, get over the pain of what happened in the past (whatever it was, you need to just realize that it happened and move onward), take comfort in the belief that love exists (cause it does), and quit shagging every guy who is shaggable to you. Thank you, and may you have a blessed day.

I do love my delusions...although denial sure does seem tempting....


i bet its the pheromones.....

i agree..u must do everything for the love..or you will never know,the train has left already and you were left alone...

When done properly, sex is a part of love. If you're having sex simply for physical pleasure, you will not find love.

Don't give up on love, keep seeking and you will find it.