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I would have never given him that second chance.
A relationship built on lies is like a castle built out of sand. 
heh 
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tell me if i'm boring? :|
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You dont'sound boring or anything, you come across as a normal everyday fella. Don't let idiots that cant accept you are gay ruin your life. Be proud of who you are and be happy. I second that.  x2 Welcome guys!
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No Reply -vs- Reply
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I've always heard guys say that they would rather get a reply back from a girl letting them know that they're not interested in them, rather than not getting a reply back at all.
From my experience, even with a nice simple reply that I'm not interested, the guy gets butt hurt and replies back angrily 
What's a girl to do? 
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does love exsist?
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It does.
For a little while though.
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Cause Nice Guys Finish Last. Hell, Green Day laid it out pretty straight for everybody years ago. I feel ya man. I've thought about becoming one of the ********, but ya know, it's just not me... At least I don't have to worry about spending my money on a woman. 
Nice guys don't finish last. Self proclaimed nice guys who whine about everything finish last.  They're not really nice guys.
Genuine nice guys aren't going to describe themselves as such. Exactly. Couldn't have put it in better words. |
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building a website
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I used to have my own little personal website a few years back.
Completely free. I used Geocities as my free host (which shut down). I tried a few other free website hosts. Here are a few I saw some potential in, but never took the time to fully experience. www.wix.com www.webs.com www.webstarts.com www.yola.com I would highly recommend webs.com because it's very customizable. I believe if you wanted to purchase your own domain, you have that option, and they can also submit you're website to search engines such as google and yahoo (once it's crawled and approved) for free. Good Luck! Have fun 
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I haven't been able to even think to start a relationship for 3 years, there's nothing wrong with me, but I've been just used and seen the side of other situations with relationships and just don't have trust in anybody so I don't try to connect with many. I'm not one of them that just looks for sex, I actually want to know the person I end up playing around with first a bit. Seems like years past everyone just wanted some pleasure, and when they didn't get in contact with me for a while they moved on. Even friendships at that matter anymore, there nobody to trust nobody that can't just listen or tell someone whats goin on or why they feel the way they do. Anyone have a problem like mine? Not to just discuss problems but just need some advice again I guess... I feel the same damn way. |
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Divorce
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i was 11yrs old when my parents got divorced my dad was selfemployed and a workaholic he didnt know when to slow down my dad was harldy ever around and when he was we didnt feel we needed him the day my parents divorce was finalized was the day my sister got married. my mom got bombed off her butt she didnt know how to deal with it 6months after my dad called and announced that he remarried he married his secartary of 10yrs. im sure he was having affair but he didnt admit it we didnt even bother to tell my mom cant even recall how she found out but she couldnt deal with it and was drinking from the time she came home from work to the time she went to bed she did this for over a month untill she realized if she didnt stop she would have a big problem... i was the only one left at home and when i had told my sisters they didnt belive me.. i dealt with the problem myself I'm very sorry you had to endure such things. I know in the long run, it has made you stronger. Thank you for sharing.
To gummykiss: The answer is simple...it's one I'm sure you've always heard...but I assure you, it's rarely ever practiced: BE THERE. Okay...so here's the thing: Your cousin is already being pulled into this divorce far more than what anyone can possibly imagine. I'm sure there are fights and the boy gets pulled in. No disrespect to your family/aunt and uncle, as I don't know them, but I'm quite sure that in order to "stick it to the other person," there's things going on in the house and the boy is being told to do something to enhance the effect, without actually knowing the outcome of what he's doing. I'm sure the boy knows something that the uncle did and then was told to keep it a secret, and vise versa with the aunt. DEVASTATING situation to be in...Traumatic. The fact that he already knows he's going to have to choose who to stay with, to me is a CLEAR indication that there's a LOT that he's being pulled into. Here's what YOU do...You stay true to your words. If you say you're going to be there, then BE THERE. Nothing is more traumatic than being told that "I'll be there for you," and then when push comes to shove, not having the person be there. You'll only be reinstating the fact that when adults say they'll be there, they really won't in theory. After all, the parents are supposed to be there, but obviously aren't there right now at the most critical period (for now)... It's almost 2 AM here...I hope the essence of this long reply is understood. I'm sure it's a little confusing, but I've stopped functioning a few hours ago. I hope this helps! The biggest advice I'd like you to walk away with is just that...You say you'll be there, then BE THERE...NO FALSE HOPES! You make your point very clear. Thank you. I will be there for him, always. He's like my little bro. 
I would make sure he knows its nothing to do with him. I would make sure he knows his parents both love him. I would make sure he knows that you will be there for him. I would encourage him (and encourage his parents to encourage him) to ask questions I would make sure he knows its ok to just say he doesnt know(regarding whom to live with) I had a talk with him yesterday and assured him it was not his fault and that his parents and the rest of the family loved him very much. I am going to encourage him to ask questions though, thank you for the advice.
WELL, you can comfort him by telling him, he has done nothing wrong, and that he will not have to worry about choosing whom he will live with and whether or not he will hurt either parents feelings, My son had that issue, he kept saying he felt bad, because he didnt want to choose and hurt the other parent feelings, I told him the judge will decide. not him.....Just be a good listener and as long as he can let go of his feeling, he will make it day by day,as will you.... Im sorry you feel so down about their splitting, good luck to you and the family. That's exactly what he told me, that he wanted to live with his dad, but then he gets frustrated and says he wants to live with his mom too. I hate seeing him like this because I know he's the one that's going to be the one that gets hurt the most in the end. But I'm going to make sure I can do everything I can to help him out. Thank you
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Yeah, getting your heart broken sucks
But eventually someone will come around and give you hope again.
Good luck with your search! Have fun!
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Divorce
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My aunt and my uncle have decided to get a divorce.
This is a couple that I have always looked up to, and who made me believe that true love and marriage were possible. It's depressing, sad and heartbreaking to see this happening right before my eyes. The worst part is they have a 9 year old son. He's my little cousin and he looks up to me. He tells me he doesn't know who he wants to go live with and this is obviously upsetting and hurting him. What can I do or tell him to make him feel better and let him know that it's going to be okay? 
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Let's say...
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Yes.
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im lonley
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Welcome
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21- Nothing is ever what it appears to be.
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Relationship tips from kids
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Lmao.
Awwwww. |
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What do you have to offer?
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My life. My love. My compassion. My heart. My mind. My ears for listening. My shoulders for consoling. My arms for hugging. My lips for kissing. My soul for bonding. Agreed. Now to find someone of the opposite sex who'd be willing to offer the same.
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faults
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If your date was to ask what are your top three faults/flaws, what will you admit to? Or do you believe in putting your best foot forward and slowly let the flaws seep out? :) I'd be honest from the beginning, of course I wouldn't go overboard either like I'm in a confession room.
I'm a procrastinator, too lighthearted, and very indecisive. 
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The older we get,,,,
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The older you get the more you realize there are a lot of things you don't know. I feel I don't know anything. 
It can be frustrating
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Facebook
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It got old for me so I deleted it.
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I tend to bump into #2's and #3's all the time.
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today is my birthday
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Happy Birthday Sweetie
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