Topic: does love exsist?
josie68's photo
Sun 03/20/11 05:02 PM

Wrap your head around this one Honey.....

Love exists....but it is earned.

It isn't free and it isnt a right. It is something you gotta work hard for. It MUST be earned. It must be recognized and enjoyed every damned minute you are lucky enough to be in love.

People forget this basic concept and cling to the retarded notion that love should just blindly find them and they just sit back and let it all happen......then they wonder why they are lonely.

LOVE IS HARD WORK.......

and there are a lot of lazy people out there.



This is soooo true, but it is soooo worth it.:heart: :heart: :heart:

tessa68's photo
Sun 03/20/11 07:55 PM
yes love do exist...but be sure that you will get the right equation...
LOVE + SEX = COMMITMENT

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 03/20/11 08:05 PM
love exists, between a man and a women, or same sex, whatever--love takes time and lots of negotiating....and if you love some one, you will choose your battles and negotiate carefully out of respect for one another....

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 03/20/11 08:14 PM
I'd like to think it does exist ... Somewhere

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Sun 03/20/11 08:25 PM
it exists inside of our hearts, Romeo


we can choose to see it, feel it, or not, accept it, give it, or not

but inside your heart is the only place it can be found

for each of us

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 03/20/11 08:28 PM
Love exists inside of me...i am having a hard time getting someone elses love to find me though...what gives...grrrr.rant

no photo
Sun 03/20/11 08:34 PM
yes simone
I think that particular heartache is why some (if not many) of us are here

it is a beautful thing, love
but it can be bittersweet

Sleepless_nights_78's photo
Sun 03/20/11 08:41 PM

I think that love doesn't really exsist no more and its all bout sex! That's the way I have been feeling for over a year now! And I just want to know how will I be able to settle down when all I care for is sex! how will I get love back into my life?

It all depends on what your situation is and what you are looking for. If all you are looking for is sex then basically that's all it's going to be. I'm sure when you find the one that you are looking for, then it will be more then the sex. I kinda know what you are going through in a way because I've talked with a few people that have gone through it to.

no photo
Mon 03/21/11 06:54 AM

I think that love doesn't really exsist no more and its all bout sex! That's the way I have been feeling for over a year now! And I just want to know how will I be able to settle down when all I care for is sex! how will I get love back into my life?


Love doesn't actually exist...it is simply an addiction to something......generally an addiction to a person place or thing (no pun intended) and the decision to say addicted ...so as soon as you become addicted to a person you will once again have Love in your life

axl_rose40's photo
Mon 03/21/11 09:12 AM
Edited by axl_rose40 on Mon 03/21/11 09:13 AM


Love doesn't actually exist...it is simply an addiction to something......generally an addiction to a person place or thing (no pun intended) and the decision to say addicted ...so as soon as you become addicted to a person you will once again have Love in your life



...then comes an addiction to heartaches, miseries and all other pains love can bring to one who is addicted to love oops what

OrangeCat's photo
Mon 03/21/11 11:01 AM
love does not exist any more.
till people learn what it means again,
love is used so much now people have forgot what it truly means

in my opinion no love does not exist.

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Mon 03/21/11 11:02 AM

love does not exist any more.
till people learn what it means again,
love is used so much now people have forgot what it truly means

in my opinion no love does not exist.


smooched

Sara50's photo
Mon 03/21/11 11:13 AM
Love do exist, is just for u to fall in love with the right person.

TheCaptain's photo
Mon 03/21/11 11:24 AM
Love does exist.

I know because it found me. On a lot of different levels.

A woman found me on this site that loves me enough enough to let me be myself.

A family of people on this site have found me, and love me like a brother/uncle/cousin.

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Mon 03/21/11 01:31 PM



Love doesn't actually exist...it is simply an addiction to something......generally an addiction to a person place or thing (no pun intended) and the decision to say addicted ...so as soon as you become addicted to a person you will once again have Love in your life



...then comes an addiction to heartaches, miseries and all other pains love can bring to one who is addicted to love oops what


then their friends try to convince them that they need to go into Rehab

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Mon 03/21/11 02:11 PM

A woman found me on this site that loves me enough enough to let me be myself.


You know you got the last one of those, right?

shades

fireflysgirl's photo
Mon 03/21/11 05:45 PM
Love is all around you,
Love is knocking outside your door,
Waiting for you, is this love made just for two,
Keep an open heart and you'll find love again, I know!


sorry, couldn't help myself bigsmile

no photo
Mon 03/21/11 05:48 PM

Love does exist.

I know because it found me. On a lot of different levels.

A woman found me on this site that loves me enough enough to let me be myself.

A family of people on this site have found me, and love me like a brother/uncle/cousin.


hey big broflowerforyou

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 03/21/11 06:04 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Mon 03/21/11 06:05 PM

I think that love doesn't really exsist no more and its all bout sex! That's the way I have been feeling for over a year now! And I just want to know how will I be able to settle down when all I care for is sex! how will I get love back into my life?


You don't get it back in your life, it takes your life back to love.

You can't force it, you can't buy it, you can't demand it, you can't request it, you can't create it. You can only create the right environment and the the right timing to lure it to you.

My closest idea of comparing is fishing. Regardless if you are actively looking for someone or not and regardless of your current situation..the only right ingredients are time and place and you.
Every day you wake up and do your daily stuff, is pretty much going to the shore and throwing in your sinker into this big river and it's sitting in the bottom.
From the shore, you don't see anything beside your fishing rod and line and you don't know if there is actually anything in the river that likes your bait or even if any fish is hungry.
There are of course hungry fish in there, but you maybe using the wrong bait, or the wrong spot, perhaps the wrong time of the day.

Or

There is really nothing at that spot, regardless how clean it is, how soft the grass is, how nice the view and the scenery and how calm and mysterious the river is. Basically you are wasting your time. Happened to me thousands of times during fishing.

It's your experience to learn, how to figure out what is really wrong, whether it's the bait, the fish or the spot or the time of the day.

Getting to attract love, is similar. You gotta have the right bait, the right spot, the right time of the day and the right river as well! You have to be expandable and you have to try different variations until you get the right combo. And just like fishing, in love, luck still plays a big role.

wux's photo
Mon 03/21/11 09:51 PM

I think that love doesn't really exsist no more and its all bout sex!


That is a very sexist remark. I agree, true, but it's sexist.