ya know..I've always had the "stud"..you know the type..full of himself because he's so good looking that he could have anyone he wanted and you should be priviledged he chose you...that guy!!! I guess because I was also attractive (back then) it was easy, but this is one thing I found out while in between boyfriends...

The guy I remember most is the man I met through a singles line. We met for lunch and when I saw him, I almost turned around and walked out...I decided to stay, and although I laughed so hard and enjoyed our time together, he was not someone I would be proud to show off to mom due to the fact he wasn't that good lookin...but this is what I found out later... he called me later that week to ask me out again and I told him I had already met someone else who I was going to try to "make a go of it" with, his comment was..well if it doesn't work out, I'd love to take you out sometime. THAT left an impression with me..well...just so happens it didn't work out with that guy, so I called him back and we went for a ride that afternoon on his motorcycle...I had a BLAST so we saw each other the next day...and the next...and the next. What I found out (and I needed to learn this) was that as we enjoyed each other more and more, he became the most attractive man to me physically as well...I actually fell in love with him from the inside out...all my life I had it backwards, never giving the "mediocre" or average guy a chance. I'm so glad I had that experience. LOL...funny thing is, he ended up breaking up with me and breaking MY heart, but God taught me a valuable lesson at that time in my life, and I'll never forget it. Just because I'm not physically attracted to someone at the time I first meet them, doesn't mean he's not my soulmate!!
I'm not the "looker" I once was, but maybe one day a man will want to spend time with me over lunch one day...and we'll laugh alot and enjoy each other's company...and who knows....good luck in your search everyone!