well raspberry,strawberry and loganberry is nice too in fact all the twinnings ones are yummy

Doesn't work for everyone, trust me.

i know it doesn't but some of it's relatives can help too, it's trial and error

None of them work for me, my brains chemicals are horribly messed up therefore I could be depressed but it can't be clinically proven. Medication I've taken consist of a number of anti-psychotics (names escape me on those), Wellbutrin, Prozac, Luvox, Lexapro, Paxil, Zoloft, Effexor, Buspar, Nardil. All to no avail, the anti-psychotics I took were somewhere in the same number but all they did was shut my mind down so I quit taking them.

You got mail...

....I jump on my harley and ride till the tires fall off. Then put on tires and ride some more. Usually about 7500 miles and I'm tired.

What is out of your control, is just that...out of your control....by attempting to control it creates the sense of powerlessness....make a decision...to let it go...

Let go.

Of everything that is not conducive to your own personal growth in a positive way.

Remove the 'deadwood'...be it people, circumstances, happenstances, negative thoughts....whatever... trim back your tree of life, so that new growth will flourish.

And take care of you, take care of you as you would your most treasured love, be gentle with yourself.

(((Myka))) whatever you need say the word.. We've talked about this and how we both are... I think the good thing is that the things we can control soon overcomes the things we can't.. Depending on what it is our actions can be the control. Of course cars, unexpected things, etc are a bit more difficult to control but we can get them under control at some point...

I've faced a burn out many times in the past year. I convinced myself that I needed to act as if I had no choice but to move forward and have no time to worry. It worked well and things somehow got better. You have it within yourself to overcome this. If you always keep your eyes open for an opportunity, you will find one.

Sorry so long, but this is a copy of the poem by an unknown author that is on my wall. I have'nt quit yet since first reading it.

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow--
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor's cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out--
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

I buy myself something nice, go out, etc. I just take a moment to relax and forget about thngs just for a while, then I just "face the music" so to speak.

Sometimes, you just have to ride it out.

Hope things get better for you soon.

Hmmm I think I need a harley!

i write alot. i write everything just to get it off of my shoulders and onto paper, so to speak.

i also play video games.

sometimes you just need a distraction from all of that crap that is flying around you in life.

I don't have any mail

Usually that works, but what's a girl to do when shopping doesn't even work anymore?

Have you tried meditation? It can help you relax and find solutions to problems.

Hmmm? It says I sent it.... I sent it again so you know... Let me know...

I got it, thanks!

Thank you my wonderful mingle friends! It's so hard to feel this way when I'm usually the one everyone counts on and comes to for help and words of wisdom. Glad I can count on you guys