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Topic: Sabotage
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 06:22 PM
Do you think some people sabotage their relationships because they don't know how to handle being in one?

woodford Joined Fri 03/27/09 Posts: 176	Thu 05/07/09 06:24 PM
I do beleve that people do that and more. self sabotage to avoide responcability and such.

lilmsnebraska Joined Wed 03/25/09 Posts: 3	Thu 05/07/09 06:25 PM
hell yes..o..they are tryin to get sumtin they want..so they tryin to make things work in their favor..

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Thu 05/07/09 06:25 PM
Do you think some people sabotage their relationships because they don't know how to handle being in one? Sabotage may not be a correct word here Mirror as the meaning is that you do it knowingly so may be we say ruin instead

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Thu 05/07/09 06:26 PM
Do you think some people sabotage their relationships because they don't know how to handle being in one? Definitely. Not consciously though, at least not totally.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Thu 05/07/09 06:30 PM
yeppers.. like leaving a sticky lolipop on the furniture... reeks havoc on a relationship.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 05/07/09 06:32 PM
Yes

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 05/07/09 06:33 PM
could be the person is not really wanting a relationship if they are perposely sabotaging their relationship

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 06:33 PM
I do beleve that people do that and more. self sabotage to avoide responcability and such.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 06:34 PM
hell yes..o..they are tryin to get sumtin they want..so they tryin to make things work in their favor..

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Thu 05/07/09 06:36 PM
what else have you heard about me?? fess up!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 05/07/09 06:36 PM
It's simple fear. Do it to them before they do it to you.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 06:40 PM
Do you think some people sabotage their relationships because they don't know how to handle being in one? Sabotage may not be a correct word here Mirror as the meaning is that you do it knowingly so may be we say ruin instead thanx for explaining that

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 06:47 PM
Do you think some people sabotage their relationships because they don't know how to handle being in one? Definitely. Not consciously though, at least not totally.

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Thu 05/07/09 06:49 PM
My ex did it all the time! That is why he is an EX.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 06:50 PM
yeppers.. like leaving a sticky lolipop on the furniture... reeks havoc on a relationship.

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Thu 05/07/09 06:51 PM
I wonder how many people simply don't realize that the heart-pounding, fevered pitch of new 'love' doesn't last? Wonder how many give up on a relationship before it has time to evolve into something richer, stronger and actually more intimate? Rather that ruining or sabotaging a relationship, I wonder if many are just unwilling to go beyond the 'I-must-be-with-you-or-I'll-die' stage to the 'I've-never-felt-more-comfortable/accepted/at home' stage? Maybe we've come to equate passion with that initial frenzy of feelings? Not a bad time in and of itself, but when that begins to dissipate, how many lose interest or become bored?

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 05/07/09 06:52 PM
YEP!

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 05/07/09 06:53 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-sbqIyeed4g

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Thu 05/07/09 06:55 PM
Do you think some people sabotage their relationships because they don't know how to handle being in one? Yep! No question about it!