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one way or the other after a first date, would you go out on a second date? Why or why not?
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I'm not sure. I'm pretty quick to decide, but that's gotten me absolutely nowhere, so yeah, I think that unless the date just totally sucked, I'd go again if asked.
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Edited by
Derekkye
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Sat 01/17/09 06:16 PM
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sure...with no real good reason
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one way or the other after a first date, would you go out on a second date? Why or why not? Yeah, maybe the second date will strengthen feelings one way or another. |
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Would depend on what's on television.
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I might go out with him again just to have someone to hang out with, but that's about it. But I'd let him know up front that it was just a friend thing and nothing more so as not to lead him on.
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I would give them a second chance....we all have an "off" day once in a while. If there is nothing after the second date, you have to let them know that friendship is okay but it isn't going anywhere.
![]() Wait......how many times did we do lunch? ![]() ![]() |
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Would depend on what's on television. Meaning your level of boredom at the time? |
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is she hot?
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Edited by
Unknow
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Sat 01/17/09 06:18 PM
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I would give them a second chance....we all have an "off" day once in a while. If there is nothing after the second date, you have to let them know that friendship is okay but it isn't going anywhere. ![]() Wait......how many times did we do lunch? ![]() ![]() twice, but ya knew that |
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one way or the other after a first date, would you go out on a second date? Why or why not? ![]() |
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is she hot? ![]() So you would say yes if she's hot and no if she's not? |
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Edited by
Krimsa
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Sat 01/17/09 06:18 PM
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one way or the other after a first date, would you go out on a second date? Why or why not? No. I’m one of those people that will rely heavily on chemistry and spark on a first meeting. I can almost always have a fun time on a first date even if that is missing, but I will not pursue the relationship beyond a friendship from that point on. Why force a square peg into a round hole? |
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is she hot? ![]() So you would say yes if she's hot and no if she's not? I need to look at the positives ![]() |
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Would depend on what's on television. Meaning your level of boredom at the time? If the person was at least interesting and I had no better prospects then why not give them a second chance? |
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Edited by
Rockmybobbysocks
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Sat 01/17/09 06:20 PM
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oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!!
i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!! and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree. i was just plain weirded out. i mean wow. and there went that. he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin. EDIT!!! he peed... not the dog. |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen.
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I would give them a second chance....we all have an "off" day once in a while. If there is nothing after the second date, you have to let them know that friendship is okay but it isn't going anywhere. ![]() Wait......how many times did we do lunch? ![]() ![]() twice, but ya knew that Just funnin ya, {{{Mitch}}} ![]() ![]() |
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oh my god waterloo!! i'm goin through this right now!!! i went on a date on thursday night.. and he was real sweet but no sparks!!! and then we took his dog for a walk ... and he peed behind a tree. i was just plain weirded out. i mean wow. and there went that. he called me tonight but really.. i don't think seeing him again would be cool because i feel nothin. it's something almost all of us have gone through. That's why I'm interested to hear what everyone has to say. |
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This happend to me recently, I went out on a date with this girl & everything seemed ok, but I just wasn't into her, I thought maybe I'm just being standoffish, so we talked some more & she really liked me, so I figured let me give this another try just to see if my feelings changed, I spent the weekend with her & I still was just not into her & she noticed, it does happen. Isn't that a book? "He's just not that into you"? |
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