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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sat 10/18/08 12:43 PM
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What about the old saying "If you don't use it you lose it"? 
i think that " saying " is a cop out 
the same crap that some guys used to give us 
trying to guilt trip us 
into sleeping with them 
with their < blue ball > story....
if people can't be much More 
than their sexuality .. 
what really is there ?
not much of a legacy 
and nothing worth really treasuring
to pass onto our Children 
cockroaches do it all day & night
and have no morals or discretion...
and look at the sizes of their tiny brains  i want <<< Much >>>> more
than merely a sexual relationship.....
a relationship of convenience ..
that's Bull sh!t !!!!!!
that gets extremely old
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and you know what?
sex is so darn simple & basic 
it's like riding a bike ....
you never forget
so...don't give us that < cop out> saying
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I am having a hard time understanding where I asked anyone to "shut up."
I am very blunt when I speak. I think we have worn this subject out. Never meant to intimidate anyone in any manner. Never worry about "my position" on this site, I only do a job to help out. You all carry on & ride this horse to death. I realize we all live our own lives & follow the ideas of our choice. I am at peace with my maker & wish for all of you to be the same with yours. |
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sat 10/18/08 01:01 PM
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we are all entitled to our opinion....Sage
Some of us don't think this topic was ridden to death
cause there have been more things to say of importance
& if they are not important to you...
that doesn't mean that they don't have value & worth ....
peace & love & freedom of speech to Everyone...
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I think as I think, everyone is free to their own thoughts.
To me; "I THINK" means same as my opinon. But again, that is just "ME". |
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sat 10/18/08 01:15 PM
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peace & love Don...no hard feelings
but things are going to play themselves out
with all due respect
what i was reacting to, was your statement
" You all carry on & ride this horse to death "
i didn't see you mention this as your opinion
no one is perfect...neither am I
but i am not the one trying to put an end to & limit an ongoing conversation such as this
i don't see anyone ever putting a halt to the topics
when the Atheists gang up on & bad mouth the Christians
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why cannot everything and everyone be entitled to live their own lives as they see fit and simply stop trying to push another's views down another's throat.
Live and let live! You don't have to like it, you don't have to live it and unless it has a DIRECT impact on your life and yours alone, and you won't have to pay for any consequences of another's choices...just get OVER IT? I respect the views and the beliefs of all who posted, but no post, from any who posted, would make me change how I believe I should live my OWN life. |
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Edited by
looking4u52
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Sat 10/18/08 01:29 PM
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Wow, you people get so serious here. Once you are over 50 it is all downhill anyways. We could be dead tomorrow.
Enjoy life and have a little fun. 
I would have a tough time getting involved with someone who takes life so seriously. But, I could get seriously involved with someone who didn't. Is that an oxymoron or what? Have fun everybody life is too short to sweat the small stuff. |
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peace & love Don...no hard feelings
but things are going to play themselves out
with all due respect
what i was reacting to, was your statement
" You all carry on & ride this horse to death "
i didn't see you mention this as your opinion
no one is perfect...neither am I
but i am not the one trying to put an end to & limit an ongoing conversation such as this
i don't see anyone ever putting a halt to the topics
when the Atheists gang up on & bad mouth the Christians
I'm not an atheist and it was a "christian" who turned this thread from being each one's opinion to calling them "wh***". btw, I'm Christian! |
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 are we still on this topic? i respect eveyone's opinions, but this has gone beyond where anything said here is going to affect my thoughts on the subject.
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sun 10/19/08 09:08 AM
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Wow, you people get so serious here. Once you are over 50 it is all downhill anyways. We could be dead tomorrow. Enjoy life and have a little fun.
I would have a tough time getting involved with someone who takes life so seriously. But, I could get seriously involved with someone who didn't. Is that an oxymoron or what? Have fun everybody life is too short to sweat the small stuff. oh, i've been gone or i would have posted earlier
i wouldn't want to ever get involved with someone
who takes life & intimacy so extremely lightly
& who speaks so callously of the union
between a man and woman by suggesting that " if you don't use it you lose it..."
in my opinion & in others I've mentioned this to
really seriously lacking in class & integrity
and sounds like something i'd hear a high school boy say with rampant hormones
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sun 10/19/08 09:14 AM
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peace & love Don...no hard feelings
but things are going to play themselves out
with all due respect
what i was reacting to, was your statement
" You all carry on & ride this horse to death "
i didn't see you mention this as your opinion
no one is perfect...neither am I
but i am not the one trying to put an end to & limit an ongoing conversation such as this
i don't see anyone ever putting a halt to the topics
when the Atheists gang up on & bad mouth the Christians
I'm not an atheist and it was a "christian" who turned this thread from being each one's opinion to calling them "wh***". btw, I'm Christian! i think that country mike had a lot of right on things to say
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Wow, you people get so serious here. Once you are over 50 it is all downhill anyways. We could be dead tomorrow. Enjoy life and have a little fun.
I would have a tough time getting involved with someone who takes life so seriously. But, I could get seriously involved with someone who didn't. Is that an oxymoron or what? Have fun everybody life is too short to sweat the small stuff. Koolaidwoman,Handle your business people! life dose!By koolaidwoman! 10/19/08, |
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I tried the FWB, and it didn't work out the way it was supposed to. We both agreed on it because it was what wanted at the time. But, as hard as we tried, and as much as we denied to everyone that we weren't dating, we were always together and if we weren't together we were emailing or talking on the phone on an everyday basis. We went out on "dates" and we even went on vacation together. It got to the point that we both started hinting around that we were developing feelings for each other. So we finally talked about what was actually happening between us, and decided that even though feelings were starting to develop, it was better for the both of us to just end things as they were. All that being said, I won't deny that I had conflicting moral issues with doing it. And yes I was raised with strict moral beliefs that you just don't do something like that. But at that time, it was the right thing for me to do. And I don't regret doing it. But I think an FWB is not for everyone, because there is a fine line that you have to make so as not to get emotionally involved. And I believe that is one of the key factors in doing it. I, myself, can't make that fine line. I found that out through personal experience. It's either all or none now. And my heart truly goes out to the older generation that has to sacrifice getting married because if for some reason it doesn't work out, you get penalized for it. But if having an FWB is your choice, then so be it! It's your life, no one else can live it for you, so enjoy it and get the most you can out of it!!
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sun 10/19/08 10:11 AM
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i have lots of fun in life
and i still realize that life is very precious 
and not to be taken so lightly
because it is only here for a while
and then it is gone.. so we might as well value it & truly appreciate it while we can
and not lessen its precious worth by taking it too lightly
like many people do .... never really treasuring the moment ... or the people in their lives 
i know of many people who say don't sweat the small stuff
and that is very true...
as long as we don't forget the things that are really important
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why cannot everything and everyone be entitled to live their own lives as they see fit and simply stop trying to push another's views down another's throat. Live and let live! You don't have to like it, you don't have to live it and unless it has a DIRECT impact on your life and yours alone, and you won't have to pay for any consequences of another's choices...just get OVER IT? I respect the views and the beliefs of all who posted, but no post, from any who posted, would make me change how I believe I should live my OWN life. |
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sun 10/19/08 10:08 AM
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Good Morning , Popcorn & Coke
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well, have a good day...everyone
 My Very Very Good Buddy Rob....
 < Robby Rob > newly on here
the handsome tall hunky man ,
who just upgraded my computer called
and invited me out for brunch just now...
and after that ...
the sparkling river
& an afternoon basking in the sunshine awaits...
so.....I will see you all later
much ~ much later !!!!!
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sun 10/19/08 05:23 PM
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ooohhh...just fyi...
since i was talking about RobbyRob...
my good buddy....
now Robby Rob just changed his profile name to Greyowlrob upon my continuous unctioning... 
since he is proudly part American Indian anyway & goes by that name to me and others...
and even though he is a big little kid at heart, as i am too, i think Greyowlrob fits him better
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