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Topic: YES OR NO TO Friends with Benefits?
countrymike's photo
Thu 10/16/08 04:24 PM
So in better words ,you are saying that your morals and Godly beliefs change with age...How deplorable an example can you be when you deny the basic principles of Christian living just because you are 50 plus...I will repeat myself ...we should be getting closer to God the older we get not selling Him out because it is convenient.
This forum is a way of talking about issues which includes grammar and definitions of words...FWB is by definition non committed sexual relations.So in your world it is okay to defy God and the written word..not in mine...way to simple...
You believe the way you do and when you go public with those beliefs then I am allowed to comment not judge...I have not judged you but would suggest that I have...

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Thu 10/16/08 04:27 PM

If I may put my 2 cents in. My late husband and I used to play poker for money.Every month or so we'd get together with family and friend. and have a great time. We had our limits though on how much money we'd play with. It wasn't big heavy duty poker games with thousands of dollars. I miss those days. I haven't played poker since that was 20 some years ago


Grey, please don't misunderstand my post about poker. What I was trying to get the other poster to do was to tell me how it was ok to do one thing that is associated in his own belief system with sin was ok, but anyone else who did something in the same manner was a whore.

It was about a concept..that one sin is ok but another isn't.

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Thu 10/16/08 04:31 PM
Edited by OneMoreTimeAround on Thu 10/16/08 04:32 PM

So in better words ,you are saying that your morals and Godly beliefs change with age...How deplorable an example can you be when you deny the basic principles of Christian living just because you are 50 plus...I will repeat myself ...we should be getting closer to God the older we get not selling Him out because it is convenient.
This forum is a way of talking about issues which includes grammar and definitions of words...FWB is by definition non committed sexual relations.So in your world it is okay to defy God and the written word..not in mine...way to simple...
You believe the way you do and when you go public with those beliefs then I am allowed to comment not judge...I have not judged you but would suggest that I have...



Again...NO your words are no better then the ones I used originally.

You have the right to believe as you so desire and to have your own thoughts and ideas, that does not however, prove that they are the ONLY ones. You disrepected other peoples beliefs while no one anywhere disrepected yours.

Again, you can't choose which sins are ok FOR you and then choose what sins are OK for others. Sin is SIN.

As long as we draw a breath, we will, including you sir, be a sinner!!!

BTW...I have grown closer to God with age!

Greyhound's photo
Thu 10/16/08 04:40 PM
Ok...I'll leave you two at it.flowerforyou

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Thu 10/16/08 04:51 PM

Ok...I'll leave you two at it.flowerforyou


No dear lady, if you have 2 cents or a "dollar" to contribute to this thread, please do so!

flowerforyou flowerforyou

mssilverfox's photo
Thu 10/16/08 04:57 PM

I think generally folks who are single over 50 understand the realities of life and dating. And maybe the ideal relationship does not exist, but we still need the companionship and intimacy so arrangements are made between consenting adults.

Probably in a lot of cases there is more there than just friendship, but to keep things simple we just call it FWB.

Personally I think whatever two people come to agree on and if it works then have fun and enjoy each other's company. Life is too short try to make everything perfect.



Amen to that smile2 flowerforyou

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Thu 10/16/08 05:06 PM
Hi Silver. good to see you again

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:14 PM
Hey everyone, I think I've kinda missed out on some stuff here huh? As for myself dear sir, I am not a whore. How dare you have the guts to call these wonerful people on this forum Whores, you don't even know them. The Bible says Judge not lest ye be Judged. Take that and put it in your pipe and smoke it.

Greyhound's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:25 PM
flowerforyou flame

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:26 PM
Oh by the way sir, I or none of my friends have to answer to you or anyone else for our transgretions, we only have to answer to God or who ever we believe in not you or anyone else.

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Thu 10/16/08 05:27 PM

flowerforyou flame
Hi grey, how are you doing tonight?

Greyhound's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:28 PM
doing great...just reading these threadsblushing

Greyhound's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:28 PM
hope you're also doing great flameflowers

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:31 PM

doing great...just reading these threadsblushing
Sorry I got a little heated there. People that call my friends Whores really makes me mad.mad grumble

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:32 PM

hope you're also doing great flameflowers
Yeah I'm doing great. Still talking with my friend.smitten bigsmile

Greyhound's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:35 PM
gonna sign off for tonight,my son stay at school late this evening so I want to prepare him something special.:heart:

Greyhound's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:37 PM
Good night flame and everybody. I think it has calm down on here now.
:heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

flame1cutie's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:38 PM

Good night flame and everybody. I think it has calm down on here now.
:heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou
Good Night grey, you have a good night and sweet dreams to ya.

countrymike's photo
Thu 10/16/08 05:41 PM
You can say what you want but to glorify fwb by using the do not judge me clause is dumb to say the least ...You either believe in whore like behavior or not ..again it is simple...I have said nothing derogatory about you or your friends...They are what they are and if they have sex without commitment then they are whores by definition...got it....male or female by the way...

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Thu 10/16/08 05:47 PM
ok so your saying that if you make a commitment to someone not you did not say marriage, you said commitment that its ok to have sex. You are nothing but a hypocrate. There is no difference at all between the two.

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