I want to say am no angel!and can we please keep God out of this! we all have made choice's in our life's. we have to go on! Love my mind not my
Body!Koolaid!

yes 2 benefits.

Now that is funny. I've heard it used but usually with younger people lol. Of course had to ask what that was the first time too.

Hay you all!should i take a poll? who has and who hasen't done the friends W/Benies? truthfully.
Have you or have you ever? that what i thought!
Whatcha talking bout kool?

Your such a neat woman and just chill out
It will happen!the friends thing girl!Koolaid 11/2/08,

Oh i don't think so? kool

Awwwww, you two look soooo cute!
Can you be my friends?
God Bless.....Rosie

New friends are always welcome

Not for me, I need the passion and love that part of love-making vs just sexual relief. Old fashioned, but hey, I am worth it!

yes 4sure

absolutely Sister ...



i'm old fashioned too

and want all the little and big frills

that make life & love so very special



and i am sooo worth it too

it works when its in the open

Hi I'm new here and I would like to respond to Country Mike's posts. First of all the US is not a theocracy. We enjoy freedom of religion here and freedom from religion if you wish. You can be choose to be a Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Agnostic, or whatever you choose. And are free to decide for yourself what your values will be. As am I. Expressing an opinion is to say "I believe that sex outside marriage is wrong and therefore I choose not to do it." The following would be an example of a smug, self-righteous, judgemental statement. "The Bible is the only truth and the only way for all mankind, and people should be jailed for cohabitation. If you have sexual relations outside marriage, you are a whore." You can't claim to be expressing an opinion and then turn around and say that it isn't a matter of opinion. If you want to be a "good steward" for God you are not going to accomplish that by wagging your finger in other people's faces. That betrays arrogance and self-righteousness. Which is more likely to sour people on Christianity than to attract them to it. I know it did for me.

no matter what "they" say...we are all people who want/need more then "benefits"

Please if you are going to knock me for my opinions then could you show me where I said any of the following that you say I said.
1}First of all the US is not a theocracy. ***I never said it was***
2}"The Bible is the only truth and the only way for all mankind, and people should be jailed for cohabitation.*** never said that either***
in your summary of misinterpreted statements I made ,you conclude with the following:
"If you want to be a "good steward" for God you are not going to accomplish that by wagging your finger in other people's faces. That betrays arrogance and self-righteousness. Which is more likely to sour people on Christianity than to attract them to it. I know it did for me."
I must disagree with your opinion of my notes..I never said anyone must follow me or my ways and did say however the following "I believe that sex outside marriage is wrong and therefore I choose not to do it."
I can then and only then say I am leading by example not force so what is your problem with my want to be a leader and not follow the masses to self degradation..You are welcome to do it but folks like me may once in a while cross your path and remind you the behavior is not good and may have bad consequences...Knowledge is power and I feel that you must be exposed to different opinions in order to properly come to a conclusion on anything.You now know my opinion whether you like it or not..and by the way you have my permission to be whomever you want to be....
Read into my notes what you may but please keep it accurate. ..

Mike & Tommiegirl, we stay pretty mellow, here in the 50's. Respect eachothers comments, no judgements intended. Allow for disagreements & still stay friends.
If you want to really debate things, easier done in e mails.
Plus there are specific threads for religion based discussions & other topics.
Please read the site rules & if you need any help, you can contact one of us Moderators or just ask some older members.

Glad to have you in the family.

Don

Thanks Sage it was getting to Heavy for me!!!

Anytime, helping others is what life is about.