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Edited by
Mrtap
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Poem or song? Poem 
Surprise 
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When everytime i think of you my body shakes everytime i see you my knees grow weak and everytime i'm with you i dont want the time to end. When everytime i look into your eyes, i wish i was there everytime i see you smile my heart melts and every night before i go to sleep i pray we dont end. I've tried somehow to say: you're the sun that lights up my How do I tell you how I feel about you sky the wind that keeps me cool on a hot summer day and sweet incense that keeps me on a natural high I want so much to tell you: that without you with me each day my day isn't complete that since day one I've always wanted to be with you that no matter what's going on in my life you're the reason there's a smile on my face and that loving you seems to be all I need to know. **But everytime I want to the words just wont come out to you it may sound mushy or too cute you may not believe it so it's better I keep my mouth closed** Then to try to tell you exactly whats on my mind yet I wish to tell you that I'm beginning to love you more with each passing of the day and that I want to be with you come whatever may. Take that   
do you derive joy when someone else succeeds? do you not play dirty when engaged in competition? do you have a big intellectual capacity but know that it alone does not equate wisdom? do you see everything as an illusion? but enjoy it even though you are not of it? are you both masculine and feminine? politically aware? and don't believe in capital punishment? these are 21 things that I want in a lover not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer do you derive joy from diving in and seeing that loving someone can actually feel like freedom? are you funny? à la self-deprecating? like adventure? and have many formed opinions? these are 21 things that I want in a lover not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter these are 21 things I choose to choose in a lover I'm in no hurry I could wait forever I'm in no rush cuz I like being solo there are no worries and certainly no pressure in the meantime I'll live like there's no tomorrow are you uninhibited in bed? more than three times a week? up for being experimental? are you athletic? are you thriving in a job that helps your brother? are you not addicted? ...curious and communicative... Narcissus |
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When everytime i think of you my body shakes everytime i see you my knees grow weak and everytime i'm with you i dont want the time to end. When everytime i look into your eyes, i wish i was there everytime i see you smile my heart melts and every night before i go to sleep i pray we dont end. I've tried somehow to say: you're the sun that lights up my How do I tell you how I feel about you sky the wind that keeps me cool on a hot summer day and sweet incense that keeps me on a natural high I want so much to tell you: that without you with me each day my day isn't complete that since day one I've always wanted to be with you that no matter what's going on in my life you're the reason there's a smile on my face and that loving you seems to be all I need to know. **But everytime I want to the words just wont come out to you it may sound mushy or too cute you may not believe it so it's better I keep my mouth closed** Then to try to tell you exactly whats on my mind yet I wish to tell you that I'm beginning to love you more with each passing of the day and that I want to be with you come whatever may. Take that
do you derive joy when someone else succeeds? do you not play dirty when engaged in competition? do you have a big intellectual capacity but know that it alone does not equate wisdom? do you see everything as an illusion? but enjoy it even though you are not of it? are you both masculine and feminine? politically aware? and don't believe in capital punishment? these are 21 things that I want in a lover not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer do you derive joy from diving in and seeing that loving someone can actually feel like freedom? are you funny? à la self-deprecating? like adventure? and have many formed opinions? these are 21 things that I want in a lover not necessarily needs but qualities that I prefer I figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matter these are 21 things I choose to choose in a lover I'm in no hurry I could wait forever I'm in no rush cuz I like being solo there are no worries and certainly no pressure in the meantime I'll live like there's no tomorrow are you uninhibited in bed? more than three times a week? up for being experimental? are you athletic? are you thriving in a job that helps your brother? are you not addicted? ...curious and communicative... Narcissus very sweetie   
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Edited by
Mrtap
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Wed 08/13/08 10:01 AM
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There are many locks
and with such are many keys with most keys they are returned but with one lock where one key and only one key can unlock it Once that key is given away the key can never be returned It becomes the sole possession of the recipient forever theirs For this is no random key but is a special key This key is not handed to one another lightly but rather earned over time For several years people work to earn this key once given this key, the one key that will forever more unlock not a door to a house or a car but unlock The person's heart forever at that point in time when they give that key they will then for the first time understand True Love and take this
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I will try to play nice now
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There are many locks and with such are many keys with most keys they are returned but with one lock where one key and only one key can unlock it Once that key is given away the key can never be returned It becomes the sole possession of the recipient forever theirs For this is no random key but is a special key This key is not handed to one another lightly but rather earned over time For several years people work to earn this key once given this key, the one key that will forever more unlock not a door to a house or a car but unlock The person's heart forever at that point in time when they give that key they will then for the first time understand True Love and take this
You don't own me, I'm not just one of your many toys You don't own me, don't say I can't go with other boys And don't tell me what to do And don't tell me what to say And please, when I go out with you Don't put me on display, 'cause You don't own me, don't try to change me in any way You don't own me, don't tie me down 'cause I'd never stay Oh, I don't tell you what to say I don't tell you what to do So just let me be myself That's all I ask of you I'm young and I love to be young I'm free and I love to be free To live my life the way I want To say and do whatever I please A-a-a-nd don't tell me what to do Oh-h-h-h don't tell me what to say And please, when I go out with you Don't put me on display I don't tell you what to say Oh-h-h-h don't tell you what to do So just let me be myself That's all I ask of you I'm young and I love to be young I'm free and I love to be free To live my life the way I want |
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Please guys.... Pay attention. If you say you are nice, you're not. If we say you're nice, that means a few things: 1. You have no backbone. 2. You are indecisive and wishy washy. 3. You are a whiner. 4. You are a taker, but think you're a giver. 5. We have no sexual attraction to you as a result of the above. Women are not into men they cannot respect. Any questions?? I am so sick of this topic I want it to stop. Nice guys don't finish last. People finish exactly where they should for a variety of reasons. But don't you dare say you're nice and it's because of that you're single. Man up. I'm not a nice guy. But i have been told i'm sweet
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Edited by
Gianni18
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Wed 08/13/08 10:58 AM
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Please guys.... Pay attention. If you say you are nice, you're not. If we say you're nice, that means a few things: 1. You have no backbone. 2. You are indecisive and wishy washy. 3. You are a whiner. 4. You are a taker, but think you're a giver. 5. We have no sexual attraction to you as a result of the above. Women are not into men they cannot respect. Any questions?? I am so sick of this topic I want it to stop. Nice guys don't finish last. People finish exactly where they should for a variety of reasons. But don't you dare say you're nice and it's because of that you're single. Man up. I'm not a nice guy. But i have been told i'm sweet
Sweet is different... sweet is a good thing I recon. |
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Edited by
Mrtap
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Wed 08/13/08 10:25 AM
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What is this magical bond we share?
Amidst the constant circus like avalanche of words, How did you know? Once like you stable and secure, He is older, yet betrothed to your dream, Faithful to uncertainty, A spirit yearning to be free. His subtle words lodge in your thought. Why did you pick this stranger With a hunger that you can not see!! and this
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Okay guys, sorry for the "blow up" earlier. But it seemed we were riding a lot of descent people, and I couldn't let them be railroaded. I do apologize if I offended anyone.
I do notice that we have changed the tone in here to a more "constructive" set of critiques. There's some good advice in there. Ruth, thanks for catching what I was implying, I think you're the only one who did. |
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Okay guys, sorry for the "blow up" earlier. But it seemed we were riding a lot of descent people, and I couldn't let them be railroaded. I do apologize if I offended anyone.
I do notice that we have changed the tone in here to a more "constructive" set of critiques. There's some good advice in there. Ruth, thanks for catching what I was implying, I think you're the only one who did. I saw your point, but we weren't actaully talking about actually "nice" guys, we were talking about self proclaimed "nice" guys who cry about being nice. The same arguement can be made for "b*tches" and the men who love them... and if you're not a b*tch you can't find a man...blah blah blah...but the same thing I said about the nice guys applies to women also. Just be who you are, and if you are finding that "no one" appreciates you, go take a good hard look in the mirror and find out why that is, I'll bet dollars to doughnuts that you are chasing the wrong type of person for your personality. |
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"Nice" actually DOES mean "nice." But "nice" and "wussy little *****" are two completely different things...
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Okay guys, sorry for the "blow up" earlier. But it seemed we were riding a lot of descent people, and I couldn't let them be railroaded. I do apologize if I offended anyone.
I do notice that we have changed the tone in here to a more "constructive" set of critiques. There's some good advice in there. Ruth, thanks for catching what I was implying, I think you're the only one who did. I saw your point, but we weren't actaully talking about actually "nice" guys, we were talking about self proclaimed "nice" guys who cry about being nice. The same arguement can be made for "b*tches" and the men who love them... and if you're not a b*tch you can't find a man...blah blah blah...but the same thing I said about the nice guys applies to women also. Just be who you are, and if you are finding that "no one" appreciates you, go take a good hard look in the mirror and find out why that is, I'll bet dollars to doughnuts that you are chasing the wrong type of person for your personality. Where are those donughts? I haven't been chasing anyone!!  
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I have been described as 'heartless' by a woman. Is that alright?
It's cuz i told her if she fell off that ladder, she'd have to clean her own brains up. I wasn't doing it. Eeew. |
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I need help...am I insulting my fella if I call him a good guy now?
I'm gonna have to watch my mouth, and for you fellas that I've called nice guys? I didn't mean it! Honestly! I thought it meant kindhearted, polite and gentlemanly. Really!
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I need help...am I insulting my fella if I call him a good guy now?
I'm gonna have to watch my mouth, and for you fellas that I've called nice guys? I didn't mean it! Honestly! I thought it meant kindhearted, polite and gentlemanly. Really!
You can call them nice and it means nice, but if they COMPLAIN about being nice then it ceases to mean nice... |
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I need help...am I insulting my fella if I call him a good guy now?
I'm gonna have to watch my mouth, and for you fellas that I've called nice guys? I didn't mean it! Honestly! I thought it meant kindhearted, polite and gentlemanly. Really!
You can call them nice and it means nice, but if they COMPLAIN about being nice then it ceases to mean nice...
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I need help...am I insulting my fella if I call him a good guy now?
I'm gonna have to watch my mouth, and for you fellas that I've called nice guys? I didn't mean it! Honestly! I thought it meant kindhearted, polite and gentlemanly. Really!
Do what you always have done and try not to double guess what they think, thus further confusing the communication process. If a guy gets the NICE word... it is like a code word meaning I do not value you sexually, but we can be Friends. |
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The Heartless *****es International site has a wonderful page of rants on "Nice Guys" (TM).
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