so you agree, nice guys finish last?

No ball busting here, sharing opinions and views on the amount of nice guy posts presently on forums.

allow me to say it again...


http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/135261

please click the above link... it will state my feelings on this matter..

Please guys....

Pay attention. If you say you are nice, you're not. If we say you're nice, that means a few things:

1. You have no backbone.
2. You are indecisive and wishy washy.
3. You are a whiner.
4. You are a taker, but think you're a giver.
5. We have no sexual attraction to you as a result of the above. Women are not into men they cannot respect.

Any questions??

I am so sick of this topic I want it to stop. Nice guys don't finish last. People finish exactly where they should for a variety of reasons. But don't you dare say you're nice and it's because of that you're single.

Man up.

I disagree, and as usual, a woman thinks she knows what a man is or isn't. Look, you ladies have it all wrong when it comes to what a guy means when he says he is a nice guy. Nice guys they aren't perfect. They have flaws, and they know that. Doesn't mean nice guys are "whiners" either. That is a crap statement and apparently you ladies are hanging around too many gay guys that you have developed this opinion. You see, nice guys know that they have a tendency to be shy, but when they go for it, most of the time it doesn't pan out. It's not that nice guys whine. They just get fed up with all the crap that happens to them. And you ladies should know this feeling too because I see threads on here all the time where a woman will talk about a guy is a jerk, a-hole, or blah, blah something else. Hate to disagree with you Lilith, but this is one instance where I do.

bring it on baby!!! you know you couldnt handle me for more than 25 min... just thought id save ya that extra 5 min of misery!!!



ps.. you miss me and you KNOW IT!!!!
muahahahahahaha

no i don't ,i just disagree with the fact that nice=wimp.When I say a guy is nice,that's what I mean.By the way I am nice and I'm not flat chested nor ugly.

Please guys....

Pay attention. If you say you are nice, you're not. If we say you're nice, that means a few things:

1. You have no backbone.
2. You are indecisive and wishy washy.
3. You are a whiner.
4. You are a taker, but think you're a giver.
5. We have no sexual attraction to you as a result of the above. Women are not into men they cannot respect.

Any questions??

I am so sick of this topic I want it to stop. Nice guys don't finish last. People finish exactly where they should for a variety of reasons. But don't you dare say you're nice and it's because of that you're single.

Man up.

Goof, Gianni~~

I hear you. The point is..... you aren't getting what the translation is. You say you're nice, I just told you what that means, the majority of the time. And I'm not going to be enthused about a guy who describes himself as nice, whatever he might mean. It's about using the word itself i take issue with.

LittleDevil~ you're being concrete here.

Fran~

I'm glad you see me for who I am. I'm not mean, cold, or bullying. I'm just me, and there are times I forget that I'm only supposed to be sugary sweet and enabling....

thanks for sharing that bit of info, but I dont play for that team

I think a nice woman is an ugly, flat chested, annoying but well intentioned woman. Oh, and possibly too heavy for the guy in question.

You know, "good personality".

No! I am right all the time...learn it Lilith!

Ok. I see what you are saying. I'm never calling myself a nice guy again, cause all of us are so damn confused by it. So, I am a dork. Now....translate that for me! I'll wait!

Agreed, there are a lot whiners posting. That is a total turn off right there. But there are also a ton of "nice" "people" here on the site and it would be "nice" to see a post like "Hey, nice guy here, wanna chat?" Or something of that nature. Shows confidence and courage.

Please guys....

Pay attention. If you say you are nice, you're not. If we say you're nice, that means a few things:

1. You have no backbone.
2. You are indecisive and wishy washy.
3. You are a whiner.
4. You are a taker, but think you're a giver.
5. We have no sexual attraction to you as a result of the above. Women are not into men they cannot respect.

Any questions??

I am so sick of this topic I want it to stop. Nice guys don't finish last. People finish exactly where they should for a variety of reasons. But don't you dare say you're nice and it's because of that you're single.

Man up.