GAWD. JUST STOP B*TCHING.... You are single because either

A.) There is something that the people that you are attracted to don't find appealing, or

B.) You are a jerk.under the guise of "nice" or

C.) You haven't found that person who is the yin to your yang....END OF STORY.

But to use your qualities as an excuse is a self defeating attitude, and quite frankly I don't find self defeatest appealing nor do any other ladies of quality on here.

Nice Lilith!

Guys (not all but you know who you are), have a little self-confidence, know who you are and BE who you are, only then will you finish first. It's when you start judging yourself by someone else's standards INSTEAD OF YOUR OWN and changing yourself to "please" someone else that you become the "nice" guy that finishes last. You don't have to be the best-looking, smartest, funniest, most aggressive or whatever, you only have to be YOU, like and respect YOU! How can anyone like and respect you when it's clear you have no respect or liking for yourself?