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I'd say it's a huge deal. a bit more than just paper I only plan to do it once. So did I. When it begins, the paper could be made out of platinum, because gold is so 20th century When it's done, it's just paper, requiring more paper to get rid of. And we're supposed to be a paperless society! |
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I'll get married once, but if it doesn't work out, never again!
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it use to be something special that lasts....now i think people think of marriage as a joke...i work in a law office and a few of our lawyers do family law...if half of these ppl would fight for their marriage like they do over pointless stuff so the other one can't have it, it still would very true...  
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no some people take it serious.I take as a promise i wouldn't break
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I just don't need a piece of paper to tell me I am bonded to someone. The only thing I want tying me to another is the feelings in my heart for him.
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for me it means alot to carry ones name that a real commitment to me
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for me it means alot to carry ones name that a real commitment to me I like my name...it's same as my daughters. Not making light of your convictions, but to me, a name doesn't mean commitment. |
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i carry the last name as my kids as well
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for me it means alot to carry ones name that a real commitment to me I like my name...it's same as my daughters. Not making light of your convictions, but to me, a name doesn't mean commitment.  One girlfriend used to brag that she was never worried about losing me to another woman, but was worried about losing me to another computer, and I never frequented dating sites.
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You can use it as a deduction.
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You can use it as a deduction.
What line do you put pain and suffering under?
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Edited by
BlueskyJ
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Tue 06/17/08 03:35 PM
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Marriage is a signed legal document....At the time of divorce or death there are issues and decisions to be made related to finances, property, and children.....what's yours is hers & what's hers is yours....
none of them, not family, property or money has anything to do with love or commitment....and vows?....you can't sign up for that, it has to be freely given 
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for me it means alot to carry ones name that a real commitment to me I like my name...it's same as my daughters. Not making light of your convictions, but to me, a name doesn't mean commitment. 
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for me it means alot to carry ones name that a real commitment to me I like my name...it's same as my daughters. Not making light of your convictions, but to me, a name doesn't mean commitment.
Yeah, but I am now widowed. |
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for me it means alot to carry ones name that a real commitment to me I like my name...it's same as my daughters. Not making light of your convictions, but to me, a name doesn't mean commitment.
Yeah, but I am now widowed. (((Angel))) And to change your name would be very different I would think than if you'd been divorced. I'm just saying that you would not share your kids name if you'd not signed the papers with your husband. So though the papers don't make the marriage, they do give your family one name. If I'd already had kids with someone, I'd prolly have a lot of reasons to feel differently about it, but since it's my first and there could be kids from it...maybe...the papers are important to me as well as the commitment. But the commitment is what truly makes the marriage...no doubt.
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why can't I change MY name?
dang laws. |
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Not sure anyone of age 15 knows what commitment is
 Odd, a lot of the Southern states allow 15 yrs olds and younger in some cases to marry, but doesn't allow two consenting adults to cohabitate...things that make you go..hmmmmmmmmmmm??????
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I know
(((Angel))) And to change your name would be very different I would think than if you'd been divorced. I'm just saying that you would not share your kids name if you'd not signed the papers with your husband. So though the papers don't make the marriage, they do give your family one name. If I'd already had kids with someone, I'd prolly have a lot of reasons to feel differently about it, but since it's my first and there could be kids from it...maybe...the papers are important to me as well as the commitment. But the commitment is what truly makes the marriage...no doubt. She would still have the same last name as her children if she had not married. The children would have had her maiden name as their last name if she hadn't married their father. Or is this another one of those things that is different in the South? 
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Not sure anyone of age 15 knows what commitment is Odd, a lot of the Southern states allow 15 yrs olds and younger in some cases to marry, but doesn't allow two consenting adults to cohabitate...things that make you go..hmmmmmmmmmmm??????
Staying well clear of the Mason Dixon. |
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Marriage means you need no one else,so whats the big deal?
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