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Topic: They never call back
xoxoxlaurixoxox Joined Tue 04/22/08 Posts: 16	Wed 05/28/08 05:45 PM
I want an oppinion from you people ...i have been divorced for over a year....I have no problems getting someone to date or someone to be intimate with ....however thats as far it goes...no one ever calls me back ....they say it is either i care to much ...or other excuses...even if i call them they never call back and I never see them again...dont know why...give me some advice

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Wed 05/28/08 05:47 PM
Sounds like you get to the nitty gritty fast.Slow down.

chris1979 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 4987	Wed 05/28/08 05:48 PM
i try to call you back, but you keep hanging up on me

kk35695 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1924	Wed 05/28/08 05:48 PM
Sounds like you get to the nitty gritty fast.Slow down. ...agreed..

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 05/28/08 05:48 PM
Sounds like you get to the nitty gritty fast.Slow down. yeah no kidding i agree

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 05/28/08 05:49 PM
They lack the decency and maturity to be able to tell you that they are no longer interested, so instead they run. But don't worry, a good man will come along and sweep you off your feet in no time, and he will know exactly how to treat you the way you deserve to be treated!

xoxoxlaurixoxox Joined Tue 04/22/08 Posts: 16	Wed 05/28/08 05:49 PM
The lonliness is killing me...

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/28/08 05:49 PM
Uhm, stop sleeping with randoms...

Charliedontsurf Joined Fri 05/23/08 Posts: 431	Wed 05/28/08 05:50 PM
Dont call them... be the rabbit

xoxoxlaurixoxox Joined Tue 04/22/08 Posts: 16	Wed 05/28/08 05:50 PM
Not real sure i deserve better...when will I get over this

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 05/28/08 05:51 PM
Uhm, stop sleeping with randoms... ditto

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/28/08 05:52 PM
Not real sure i deserve better...when will I get over this Then you'll never get better sugar, act like a doormat, get treated like a doormat.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Wed 05/28/08 05:52 PM
stand up for yourself more, your post makes it sound like you're easy or desperate...so back up and actually hold out for someone you like and who genuinely seems to like you. it will happen when the right one comes along.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Wed 05/28/08 05:53 PM
lauri you are probally coming on too strong and it scares people.I'm not sure if you are sleeping with these men but sex does not = love.Take it slow and enjoy the dates and companionship.Nothing good comes easy.Welcome and good luck.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Wed 05/28/08 05:54 PM
Respect yourself or no one else will.

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Wed 05/28/08 05:55 PM
Sounds like everyones saying slow down and raise your standards. I agree.

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Wed 05/28/08 05:57 PM
you care to much..... That is man code for you are too clingy. Find a hobby and a group to do things with. Take a class. Do something new. When you live life truly for yourself and can be happy with it, you might start to find the right men. They will pick up on the happiness, rather than the loneliness and think you are an easy score that they can ignore once they get what they want.

sum14u2c Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 754	Wed 05/28/08 05:59 PM
take some healing time from your divorce, learn how to stand on your own two feet & you'll be less likely to come across as needy...needy women scare the heck outta men...could be why you're not getting the call back...jmho

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 05/28/08 05:59 PM
Alert Alert MOONDARK knows the code.......... you care to much..... That is man code for you are too clingy. Find a hobby and a group to do things with. Take a class. Do something new. When you live life truly for yourself and can be happy with it, you might start to find the right men. They will pick up on the happiness, rather than the loneliness and think you are an easy score that they can ignore once they get what they want.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 05/28/08 06:02 PM
Care more for yourself than men you barely know and you'll attract a different kind of man.